What's the point of having a girlfriend/boyfriend?

[ERaptor]

to Tiberiu Paul Iordache
Thanks for that reply, it cracked me up quite a bit^^

The Major problem for me is that "nerddom" is almost nonexistant where i live. The only people like me i know are Guys, my best friend being one. I dont know even one Girl that isnt one of those "Partey Partey" chicks. I got the advise to use one of those Internet-Datingsites, but i dont really see the point of those ( one of my mates hat to nag for 3 Weeks straight before i made a Facebookpage. Which i still regret btw.)

Well prolly just gonna wait and see what happens.

 

[LilithSlave]

Nothing wrong with being single.

Relationships are overrated.

So is sex, to be honest.

I'd say you are doing both wrong if you feel that way.

No, I just have a different opinion and enjoy different things than you.

You know, it's absolutely impossible for some people to consent to enjoy sex. For instance, children.

So if it's impossible for a child to enjoy sex, why on earth would it be impossible for an adult to not? You know, many people don't enjoy sex, a good portion of humans don't enjoy sex. Including all children, asexuals, and so forth. And then there's a great deal of hyposexuals who don't enjoy sex very much.

Also, some people just don't mind being alone. I don't understand what's being done "wrong" here just because they like different things.

 

[TheFlyingMango]

I am glad I am not the only one who feels this way. To me relationships are special, not just with a girlfriend but with friends as well. Of course I am not going to be mean or rude to people when I see them but I have to really like a person before I hang out with them outside of school or work. To me relationships can be positive on the grounds of having someone you can generally trust and talk to. On the negative end you must also give up spare time to hang out or go places they enjoy while you on the other hand do not. >_<

 

[ShogunSam-R-I]

Reading this article, I somewhat feel sorry for you. Dont get me wrong! Taking your time and being single is awesome. You can do what you want, when you want. But after awhile, partying and being alone will get old. Yeah, you can sleep with hot chicks and be on your merry way, but theres nothing better waking up to someone who you "know" understands you, deeply loves you, and will always have your back. Someone who would literally die and kill for you and vice versa. Now, if you got stuff to accomplish on your own or just not ready yet, good on ya!!! It'll happen when it happens. I just hope you do, one day, experience it for yourself. Good Luck.