It is not hard to recognize abuse. Setting rules, having curfews, property owners knowing what is in their homes, that is not abuse.manic_depressive13 said:I just read the part about how abused kids should call hotlines and seek help and stuff. That's fine, but when people display attitudes like yours, that parents can set rules and people who don't like rules are disrespectful and ungrateful, it is hard to recognise abuse. They think they are being brats, and constantly have that reinforced by society. You are also reinforcing that by picking and choosing what counts as abuse.Lil devils x said:
This may help you:
https://www.childhelp.org/child-abuse/Child abuse is when a parent or caregiver, whether through action or failing to act, causes injury, death, emotional harm or risk of serious harm to a child. There are many forms of child maltreatment, including neglect, physical abuse, sexual abuse, exploitation, and emotional abuse.
I am not "picking and choosing", it is well defined.However, that IS exactly what the law and society does to define child abuse. We even have checklists for this as well:
http://www.ohsu.edu/xd/health/services/doernbecher/research-education/education/residency/upload/child-abuse-checklist-2.pdf
Having rules is not child abuse. Parents not willing to change rules because the child wants them to is not child abuse.