What's wrong with me?

[BaldursBananaSoap]

How far away is she? Just go and see her and maybe you'll really love her; or find out she's a ***** and you'll forget about her.

 

[RavingPenguin]

You've got two options, either man up and go see her or just forget about her. If you really want to do option 1 but cant afford it, just ask her straight out. A man needs to be a man and face his problems head on. Whatever you choose, the choice to be sad about it isnt going to get you anywhere.

 

[Mr Wednesday]

-snip-

This is excellent advice, thank you very much. You sound very wise to be honest, and I'm going to take your advice as best as I can. As horrible and even shallow as this may sound, I'm only focusing so much on her because I have nothing better in the pipeline, you know?

A sentiment I can understand. But look around, you might be surpised. I once knew a girl for three years, got on great, all the while chasing some nutcase of a female. Much much later, she mentioned she would have asked me out, if she thought I was interested. By this point we were both in relationships.

Utter bloody waste.

 

[MelasZepheos_v1legacy]

Welcome to the perils of being a teenage boy. It's just a rouhg patch you're going through and you will get over it.

 

[joshuaayt]

This sounds (well, it IS I suppose) insensitive, but I think the best thing for you to do would be what the best thing for all gamers is- dissasociate yourself from everyone, focus on work/study/games and then feel smugly superior later, as you observe those weird squishy things worrying about social issues.
It worked for me when I realised I wasn't actually Asexual.

 

[Yumi_and_Erea]

While I *know* that the people here are great supportive folks,I still can't help but feel bewildered everytime someone asks for RELATIONSHIP-ADVICE on forum for GAMERS. Gamers are hardly all antisocial, loner virgins (God, I hate that stereotype) but still, they just don't seem like the best support-group when it comes to advice regarding ladies.

 

[Vanguard_Ex]

-snip-

I hope it goes well for you man, I really do. And hey, as daft as it sounds, sometimes the best feeling of all is knowing that you went down swinging and got straight back up.

-snipped-

Man, you are just something else...it's like I'm talking to a much wiser version of myself. You're the perfect person to answer to this thread. Thank you, as well, for the cool comment
I like your perspective, I guess if I just share with her I don't completely lose either way. I know I would get over her, it would just take quite a long time. I obssess over wanting what I can't have. But again, thank you so much for your advice. You are a god, my man.

-snippy-

This is the off-topic section though. Still, I know that doesn't detract from the fact we're pretty much all gamers, but I've got some pretty damn solid advice so far.

 

[Vanguard_Ex]

-snip-

This is true. Tough but fair, and pretty awesome...I like it. Thank you.

-snip-

Gah man, I love you. That's not as it sounds, don't worry, I haven't fallen way into desperation You have a brilliant way of putting things. But now I can see where your advice of slowing down and looking around is originating from. I'll have to give it a whirl. To be honest, there is this one nice girl who likes me but I don't like to commit unless I'm sure it isn't going to crash. But hey, you're a fellow forum-goer, not a therapist, I'm not going to start going overboard. Thank you again very much, mate.

You're human?

Heh, I like it

How far away is she? Just go and see her and maybe you'll really love her; or find out she's a ***** and you'll forget about her.

Erm...roughly just over 160 miles? Quite a stretch, I know, but for some reason the logical part of me which should be screaming at me to stop being stupid has been kidnapped.

 

[Good morning blues]

Someone that you are not dating is not worth that much stress. If you're getting mixed messages and the distance would be a problem even if you weren't, forget about it. There's no need to make your life more difficult.

 

[Woodsey]

Grow some balls - that should work.

 

[Vanguard_Ex]

Where is [user]BonsaiK[/user]?

Ask him on the offical relationship thread.

=] he be very good!

Already posted in there
No response as of yet, however, so I guess I'll have to keep waiting. Thank you for a nudge in the right direction though

-snipped-

Man, you are just something else...it's like I'm talking to a much wiser version of myself. You're the perfect person to answer to this thread. Thank you, as well, for the cool comment
I like your perspective, I guess if I just share with her I don't completely lose either way. I know I would get over her, it would just take quite a long time. I obssess over wanting what I can't have. But again, thank you so much for your advice. You are a god, my man.

Heh thanks for the kind words, you are very much welcome. I hope i helped in a way, and that you end up with her. Just remember, being rejected is always better than wondering what could have been, that's what sometimes eats at me.

Thank you, you've been a massive help. Right again, I'd hate to be left wondering what could have been.

 

[Vanguard_Ex]

Grow some balls - that should work.

Hilarious. You should be on stage.

 

[uncle-ellis]

Forgive me for making one of those self-centered 'Help me' threads but you guys are just such a massive help source I couldn't not at least try.

Right, to the bizznizz: As of late, to cut a long story short, I'm having girl troubles, I can't really have her due to location, and it's driving me insane. She's also sending me mixed messages like crazy, cept I don't know if they ARE mixed messages or whether it's just me. Thus the madness continues. It's getting me so down, and when it does I just don't feel like doing anything...I don't want to hang with friends, I don't want to play on WoW or the Xbox, I don't want to watch TV. Also, recently, I've started to lose my appetite. When it comes to dinner I know I should be hungry, but I just start to feel nauseous and overly full if I try and force myself to eat.

Is this just me going through a rough patch and nothing else? Or is there something more to this?
Again, I'm sorry for those of you who want a real discussion-promoting thread.

I think ur in love.

You poor damn fool.

 

[Woodsey]

Grow some balls - that should work.

Hilarious. You should be on stage.

Sorry, it's a reply of mine that's become traditional on threads like these.

My advice then: Look at every other girl you see, rate them out of 10, focus on which of the big three (tits, arse, legs) you prefer on them the most.

If you're led by your cock then things are a whole lot simpler.

Or literally grow some balls and talk to her and try to work something out.

I recommend option 1 though

 

[dududf]

While I *know* that the people here are great supportive folks,I still can't help but feel bewildered everytime someone asks for RELATIONSHIP-ADVICE on forum for GAMERS. Gamers are hardly all antisocial, loner virgins (God, I hate that stereotype) but still, they just don't seem like the best support-group when it comes to advice regarding ladies.

*Cough*

See the section he's in?

Called "Off topic".

Here sit down, I'll give you a tour.

 

[dududf]

Grow some balls - that should work.

Hilarious. You should be on stage.

Sorry, it's a reply of mine that's become traditional on threads like these.

My advice then: Look at every other girl you see, rate them out of 10, focus on which of the big three (tits, arse, legs) you prefer on them the most.

If you're led by your cock then things are a whole lot simpler.

Or literally grow some balls and talk to her and try to work something out.

I recommend option 1 though

You mean big 4 right?

Forgot face.

Also, I demand you say "Big Four" out loud when women is on your mind. Garenteed to make you giggle a tiny bit inside.

 

[Valksy]

As far as I am concerned (and from bitter experience) long distance relationships are a bloody nightmare to sustain. I would never recommend it to anyway unless - for example - a couple is together before hand and is seperated due to work (eg army).

Relationships existing only online are also unwise. Make it real as soon as possible or it will just make you unhappy. If you cannot make it real then forget about it and either walk away or put her in the friend zone.

 

[Spiner909]

Pick a path. It seems you gotta pick games or the girl

 

[FallenRainbows]

Must... resist... Screaming... at... Vanguard. *ahem*

Right, your a nice guy so okay you want my advise? Here.

Talk. To. Her.

You think you will love her? Then tell location to go to hell.

Also continue to be so damn down about it and I will swing for you. Considering my current predicament... (which I drunkly ranted about on some thread >.<) My patience is short for people who fancy other people. Unless I have missed something it seems as though you barley know her. In which case it's merely my like for you restraining me for leaving in a bad mood.

But one advise from a romantic you should pay heed to? Never. EVER let pain stop you. Because even if it fails, it is ALWAYS worth it when you find that person. Under no circumstance miss that opportunity.

You know how I know its worth it? If not, then why do I carry on living in pain and misery? Alone and cut of from the world all I have is that dream.

Grow some balls - that should work.

And a shot at love is a sign of anti-masculinity?

Forgive me for making one of those self-centered 'Help me' threads but you guys are just such a massive help source I couldn't not at least try.

Right, to the bizznizz: As of late, to cut a long story short, I'm having girl troubles, I can't really have her due to location, and it's driving me insane. She's also sending me mixed messages like crazy, cept I don't know if they ARE mixed messages or whether it's just me. Thus the madness continues. It's getting me so down, and when it does I just don't feel like doing anything...I don't want to hang with friends, I don't want to play on WoW or the Xbox, I don't want to watch TV. Also, recently, I've started to lose my appetite. When it comes to dinner I know I should be hungry, but I just start to feel nauseous and overly full if I try and force myself to eat.

Is this just me going through a rough patch and nothing else? Or is there something more to this?
Again, I'm sorry for those of you who want a real discussion-promoting thread.

I think ur in love.

You poor damn fool.

Not love.

 

[Woodsey]

Grow some balls - that should work.

Hilarious. You should be on stage.

Sorry, it's a reply of mine that's become traditional on threads like these.

My advice then: Look at every other girl you see, rate them out of 10, focus on which of the big three (tits, arse, legs) you prefer on them the most.

If you're led by your cock then things are a whole lot simpler.

Or literally grow some balls and talk to her and try to work something out.

I recommend option 1 though

You mean big 4 right?

Forgot face.

Also, I demand you say "Big Four" out loud when women is on your mind. Garenteed to make you giggle a tiny bit inside.

Ah, well I don't include face because they need to look decent to get rated in the first place. There are rules on this you know xD