What's wrong with me?

[Hollock]

maybe a hobby of some kind. Learn to play the guitar, start writing/drawing hentai, something to keep you're mind off of it. But, how far away is this lady of yours? Do you really need to give it up, I suppose so that's why you're here but, no matter what the problems you're having are not uncommon and they always pass. Good luck.

 

[Vanguard_Ex]

Sorry, it's a reply of mine that's become traditional on threads like these.

My advice then: Look at every other girl you see, rate them out of 10, focus on which of the big three (tits, arse, legs) you prefer on them the most.

If you're led by your cock then things are a whole lot simpler.

Or literally grow some balls and talk to her and try to work something out.

I recommend option 1 though

Stop saying that Woodsey, I have balls xD
I've already planned what I'm gonna say to her so I sound like I care, but not so I sound like I'm basically saying 'PAY MORE ATTENTION TO MEEEEE'

-snip-

Heh, I enjoyed reading that somewhat...was kind of like one of these semi insane pep-talk things. I appreciate you holding back the urge to yell at me by the way.
You're right though, looks like the thus far dominant part of my brain which stops caring about logic in the slightest has been right all along. Well I'll be damned.
And no, by the way, I do know her. Else why would I like her so much?

While I *know* that the people here are great supportive folks,I still can't help but feel bewildered everytime someone asks for RELATIONSHIP-ADVICE on forum for GAMERS. Gamers are hardly all antisocial, loner virgins (God, I hate that stereotype) but still, they just don't seem like the best support-group when it comes to advice regarding ladies.

*Cough*

See the section he's in?

Called "Off topic".

Here sit down, I'll give you a tour.

...you absolute legend

 

[FallenRainbows]

Sorry, it's a reply of mine that's become traditional on threads like these.

My advice then: Look at every other girl you see, rate them out of 10, focus on which of the big three (tits, arse, legs) you prefer on them the most.

If you're led by your cock then things are a whole lot simpler.

Or literally grow some balls and talk to her and try to work something out.

I recommend option 1 though

Stop saying that Woodsey, I have balls xD
I've already planned what I'm gonna say to her so I sound like I care, but not so I sound like I'm basically saying 'PAY MORE ATTENTION TO MEEEEE'

-snip-

Heh, I enjoyed reading that somewhat...was kind of like one of these semi insane pep-talk things. I appreciate you holding back the urge to yell at me by the way.
You're right though, looks like the thus far dominant part of my brain which stops caring about logic in the slightest has been right all along. Well I'll be damned.
And no, by the way, I do know her. Else why would I like her so much?

While I *know* that the people here are great supportive folks,I still can't help but feel bewildered everytime someone asks for RELATIONSHIP-ADVICE on forum for GAMERS. Gamers are hardly all antisocial, loner virgins (God, I hate that stereotype) but still, they just don't seem like the best support-group when it comes to advice regarding ladies.

*Cough*

See the section he's in?

Called "Off topic".

Here sit down, I'll give you a tour.

...you absolute legend

Again if you can get over her. Do it. If you think you can love her. Do it. If you think you can do both, then take getting over her... It means you wont love her. Loves complicated. Trust me. I just spent a huge amount of money on my ex who is vile to me. I love her... :'(

 

[dududf]

...you absolute legend

Glad I can share my awsomeness with you.

Now go forth! And have me go insane wondering WHY I recognize that robot from a ...ps2 game I've played... Has transforming robots, humanoid, jet/humanoid/Jet forms... =[

 

[Vanguard_Ex]

Again if you can get over her. Do it. If you think you can love her. Do it. If you think you can do both, then take getting over her... It means you wont love her. Loves complicated. Trust me. I just spent a huge amount of money on my ex who is vile to me. I love her... :'(

Ah, now that is good advice I'm going to memorise...since I really don't think I can wrestle getting over her yet, I'ma have to go with loving her.
I'm sorry to hear that mate, it really is just a fucking master lock, isn't it?

...you absolute legend

Glad I can share my awsomeness with you.

Now go forth! And have me go insane wondering WHY I recognize that robot from a ...ps2 game I've played... Has transforming robots, humanoid, jet/humanoid/Jet forms... =[

PS2 game I'm not so sure, however it is from the PC RTS Dawn of War, based on the Warhammer 40K tabletop game. Google 'Tau Crisis Suit'.

 

[FallenRainbows]

Again if you can get over her. Do it. If you think you can love her. Do it. If you think you can do both, then take getting over her... It means you wont love her. Loves complicated. Trust me. I just spent a huge amount of money on my ex who is vile to me. I love her... :'(

Ah, now that is good advice I'm going to memorise...since I really don't think I can wrestle getting over her yet, I'ma have to go with loving her.
I'm sorry to hear that mate, it really is just a fucking master lock, isn't it?

...you absolute legend

Glad I can share my awsomeness with you.

Now go forth! And have me go insane wondering WHY I recognize that robot from a ...ps2 game I've played... Has transforming robots, humanoid, jet/humanoid/Jet forms... =[

PS2 game I'm not so sure, however it is from the PC RTS Dawn of War, based on the Warhammer 40K tabletop game. Google 'Tau Crisis Suit'.

And I have 100 in lock picking. But I lost the skellington key . But A romantic I am, one of the very last. So I'll go hunting for that key. Before I breakdown...again. Oh also more advise, don't drink your problems away... ever. *goes back to whiskey* Trust me.

 

[Bourne Endeavor]

Whilst there is little else to say, I shall provide one additional piece of knowledge. First, "What do you have to lose?" Consider this question carefully, you essentially adore this woman and begging for put to rest your lingering curiosity, non? If you have to ask directly her feelings or a subtle variation, the absolute worst case scenario is a rejection, which may accompany a brief loss of pride. The best is obvious her admittance to fancying you.

In the case of the former your life is no different and now you can move on knowing at least you tried, the latter is your ideal scenario. That is more or less a riskless gamble presented before. Nothing is worse than continual "what if..."

 

[Galletea]

It sounds like the emotional stress has lead to you being exhausted. I've had similar experiences during trying times. I'd suggest exercise, listening to music, and forcing yourself to do something to take you mind off the girl in question.

 

[Vanguard_Ex]

Whilst there is little else to say, I shall provide one additional piece of knowledge. First, "What do you have to lose?" Consider this question carefully, you essentially adore this woman and begging for put to rest your lingering curiosity, non? If you have to ask directly her feelings or a subtle variation, the absolute worst case scenario is a rejection, which may accompany a brief loss of pride. The best is obvious her admittance to fancying you.

In the case of the former your life is no different and now you can move on knowing at least you tried, the latter is your ideal scenario. That is more or less a riskless gamble presented before. Nothing is worse than continual "what if..."

Hey, sorry this is a late reply, I forgot about this thread to be honest.
I talked to her the other day and I got even better...I don't feel right posting it on a thread but basically I have no doubt in my mind that she loves me Oo

 

[FallenJellyDoughnut]

If you can't have her, forget about her!

 

[gadafgadaf]

i dunno, im kind of in the same situation but its to the point where its on the back burner. her life does not put on hold because she talks with you over the internet and on the phone and your life shouldn't either. i had 2 of these and they both ended up in relationships with other people. i'm sure she's a great girl but you gotta face the cold hard truth. If your not there its not going to work. At least try, make a huge leap and try to move there if you can, go see her, make your feelings known and if it doesn't happen it doesn't happen but at least you tried. mine was taken out of my hands before i had a chance to even try.

 

[Max_A_Buck]

Been there. Done that. Not to sound too abrupt. But basically I'll agree with much of what I read. If you really can't have her for whatever reason then you need to avoid her. When I get someone like that I remove all forms of contact (delete from networking sites, their e-mail, mobile phone number, etc.). Sounds harsh now but when you're through it you'll be thankful. Good luck with it all.