I'm from Jersey City, New Jersey. I didn't meet too many nerds there. Sure everyone loved video games but they mostly played shooters and sports games. Anime wasn't big, nor were more obscure games. I didn't drop any references or quotes from anything into conversation though since I mostly communicated via insults, swear words and crude jokes.
Now I live in a town in Southern NJ (I won't say where because I hate this place with ever fiber of my being and don't even like typing the name) and there are nerds everywhere. Sadly they mostly conform to the "Basement dwelling, no social skill, neck beard, loser" stereotype D:
But I've found a few nerds that were able to hold a conversation without digressing into how much they want to bang game/anime character X and I've become good friends with them. I also now drop a reference or quote sometimes as bait to see if anyone picks it up and I also wear a Skyrim pendent and an Escapist t-shirt sometimes.
I'm still nerdier than my friends though, but I am introducing them to new things and they're eager to take them up
I also met this one girl down here that was a hardcore gamer and anime/manga lover but we don't hang out for some reason.
I should change that