Oh, I see what you mean now! That is lazy writing and sexist, and I'm sorry you, and other female gamers (EDIT: or just, you know, people who wanted a proper treatment of the opposite sex in the lead role), have had to deal with that (and may still have to). It would have frustrated me immensely to have to be referenced to as a woman while playing a man, and forced to engage in romantic relationships as though I was a woman, that's for sure.
And I totally wouldn't play said game if it happened- at least nowadays.
And I totally wouldn't play said game if it happened- at least nowadays.