knight steel said:
TopazFusion said:
1.Thats because they don't have psychological issues that make it harder to interact socially/Don't debate topics/post in user groups which much less moderation unfortunately not all of us have that going for us and so you can't really compare us to them.
The usual argument here is one technically doesn't "have to" post anywhere. The CoC even states, to some degree or another, if you have nothing constructive to say (or cannot say something without being destructive), then simply don't say it. Not every debate needs personal attention, especially when you know it's something you'll become particularly inclined to argue about. As a mod, I do it a fair amount, passing threads, posts, or comments to other mods to handle where personal biases or feelings might get in the way.
But failing that, it's also that posting that way is a choice. I can't speak to psychological issues (as I'm unaware of them), but there are always options with posting. Even if one chooses to post in some thread, or in some user group, they're still making the decisions. Phrasing, tone, word-choice. All of it is conscious, to some degree. It's a user's imperative to make the decision about how to post, when to post, and what tone to take. In the same way that it's up to you to decide if yelling is okay. Concerts and across large distances, perhaps. In a crowded bar with a belligerent drunk? Maybe not ideal. Choices define who we are, and how we choose to appear. I made the choice to post this here, formally, and address possible alternatives. If, psychologically speaking, one would have difficulty not-arguing or not-fighting in a way that breaks the Code of Conduct, they also have the choice to have someone change their password, or not post anymore. Doesn't mean it's the right choice, or the best one, but it's always an option.
Personally, I think if you really like the forums and want to contribute, take a half-hour between posts. Write your post out, then get up. Go make a sandwich. Eat while watching your favorite half-hour TV program, or do the Sunday crossword, or whatever helps you relax. Then, with fresh eyes, go read that post again. Dissect it for tone, for style, for anger. Cross-reference the CoC. If it looks good, post away. If it reads even a little like it could be an issue, feel free to ask a mod. My message inbox is always open.
Granted, these aren't perfect solutions, in the same way that no website that accommodates this many people can ever have a "perfect" rule set. They're just options, like anything else.
2.Those rules are nice and all but are enforced inconsistently due to mods having different temperaments/opinions were in one case a post could be made and no warning given but if another mod see's it a warning is given makes it much harder than just "follow the rules".
Unfortunate nature of the beast, though. It's like that with people, though. It's why courts exist to debate the finer points of laws, which are written by politicians (and lawyers) to get the exact, precise, perfect phrasing that will end up being insufficient for day-to-day issues. When you add people into the mix, even the best laid foundations will get a little wobbly. To point, moderation standards have changed since I've become a mod, much less since I've been a user. As time passes, rules change, tones change, and mods change. None of the moderators I spent time with (as a user) are around anymore. The mods I trained under are likewise no longer modding. I've seen three different Community Managers personally as a mod, much less as a user.
Sadly, "inconsistent enforcement" is a thing. I do my best to communicate with all the mods, I try to talk to other mods when I see posts they flag that seem innocuous or maybe just a little too theoretical. But ultimately, it's something that will happen anyway. Same with police. Same with lawyers. Same with anything. Systems do the best they can to keep the human element standard, but they're imperfect.
Thankfully, that's what the Appeal system is for. I encourage people to use it, I encourage people to ask questions and learn things, and I encourage people to debate if they feel they've been mislead or mistreated. And I try to get better about consistency myself. But yes, if you feel any moderation action has been out of line, please use the contact page [http://www.escapistmagazine.com/contact/], subject line "Forum Posting/Moderation Issues", and keep an eye on the e-mail you put down.
3. This last point completely ignores my point on how people change over time-a person who act rash/offensive when they were 19 and got 8 warning's is completely different when they are say 30 but that doesn't matter with the current system/is not factored into the equation which was my main point.
Again, unfortunately true of all rule sets. Someone who's convicted of a felony at age 18 will still have that felony on their record at age 80. That prevents them from all sorts of jobs, even if it's just being a secretary at a law enforcement office. Appeals are in place to address this to the best of their ability, and it's a function that has worked in the past. (In fact, the former moderator
Ultrajoe had been banned previously. Although the moderation standards had been significantly more strict at the time.)
The question is, better to err on the side of caution with a user? Or risk having someone who upsets parts (or all) of the community endlessly around making those other users feel uncomfortable? It's our job to moderate risk for everyone, yet still make sure everyone gets their fair due. By extension, it's up to the Appeals board to make sure we haven't made a mistake in that endeavor.
4.And the thing about really bad day's is that past lessons learned don't factor into them because your mind is too clouded to remember them and depending on your mindset/life these bad days can happen more than once every six months that doesn't make you a bad member of the site which should be shunned.
We don't really classify the banned as bad members, though. It's just a method of risk-management, as stated above.
Sexual Harassment Panda said:
If you don't agree with these people, they caricature the shit out of you anyway (it's easier to be completely obnoxious and fight values you assume are held, rather than values expressed)... this kinda thing I fear isn't going to help any.
I totally look forward to the constant referencing of this comic to devalue any and every opinion that doesn't contribute to the snarky echo-chamber that is the escapist.
I just have to wonder how much of it is the issues being misunderstood, rather than the issues being implied. The mindset seems to me to take offense at the comic as a whole. A collective attribution to a joke targeting a specific. In the same way some are misreading the comic in casting too wide a net, so too are its defenders reading too wide a rhetoric. It seems more likely that the "If you don't like it, don't read it" crowd is reading collective offense where some are expressing targeted displeasure. Proof, I think, that the flaws themselves lie as much in human nature as they do in rhetoric or expression. Language is still imperfect, despite its practice, so they'll always be misunderstandings. Either from a comic that perhaps is a little too liberal with its humor, or perhaps in those who feel its defense deserves the same vehemence perceived, even though there was less projected.
As for the echo-chamber, I think that's just a flaw of communities. The longer one exists, the more a collective consciousness seems to form. Same reason half of reddit is just subreddits calling other subreddits circlejerky, then in the same breath, creating their own shorthand of memes and references, which earns them the very moniker they were made to mock. So too, it seems, forums have that same poison. Just the nature of people, the desire to fit in makes them very well-suited for fitting in, often at the expense of variety.
Doesn't mean everyone is that way, though.