"well shit, dude, I keep trying but I never seem to hold their interest, how was your goddamn morning?"
no seriously, this conversation actually took place.
no seriously, this conversation actually took place.
"Why don't you have a girlfriend?"
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Hey, I'm right there with you. Except I'm eighteen. Though I'll likely be in the same shoes a year from now, so that doesn't actually mean much.Berithil said:
Having a relationship right out of the gate isn't important. I've got another seventy years, and nothing but patience.
Sweet, autonomous patience.
Wow, what dicks.ImBigBob said:
/sarcasm
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I've personally not had this sort of thing directed at me which, now I think about it, is making me paranoid. Are people just looking at me, assuming I'm already foreveralone and have come to accept it?
Oh gods!
See, now you've made me depressed, because no-one ever says that to me; it's clearly quite obvious why I don't have a girlfriend.
Because every girl I've wanted to ask out already had a boyfriend.
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I'll get a girlfriend when I meet one I'd want to date who isn't already doing so. However, people generally don't ask if I have a girlfriend, so I don't suffer the "humiliation" (definitely not the right word) of not having one upon being asked.
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I'll get a girlfriend when I meet one I'd want to date who isn't already doing so. However, people generally don't ask if I have a girlfriend, so I don't suffer the "humiliation" (definitely not the right word) of not having one upon being asked.
I don't want one. This one girl came on to me, and she was cute, but she was a little creepy. And before anyone says any kind of anime trope I mean the very bad kind of creepy. I like romance and intimacy but I hate drama and I don't enjoy going out all the time. A few times in a week maybe but not every week and certainly not every day, though I guess that differs from person to person. Plus I don't have the money to spend on myself, let alone another person.
I personally enjoy how every person who says any girl would be lucky to have me...aren't interested me.
No, this is not something girls who reject me out of pity say, it's what my friends say.
I'm not interested in them either, but it sort of implies the unfortunate reality that who people are attracted to isn't formed logically, making such morale pick ups just seem tragic.
The main problem is I'm not interested in many people, and nobody is interested in me.
No, this is not something girls who reject me out of pity say, it's what my friends say.
I'm not interested in them either, but it sort of implies the unfortunate reality that who people are attracted to isn't formed logically, making such morale pick ups just seem tragic.
The main problem is I'm not interested in many people, and nobody is interested in me.
The town Im in is way to small. The line "In a small town you don't miss your chance, you just miss yout turn". Applies very very much, my social circle has shared girls with each other untentionaly... Ugh and my best friend just tagged a girl, that I was wanting make up with... Now remember why I leave this town every couple of months
Up until not a few moths ago I really didn't want a relationship, now that i'm 19 and i feel comfortable I feel I'm ready. Know it's just a matter of finding someone I want to date.
At this point I am semi-desperate for a relationship, but still, I appreciate my joy of being single.
At this point I am semi-desperate for a relationship, but still, I appreciate my joy of being single.
I had a roommate do that to a door-to-door salesman. The guy was getting pushier and mentioned that if he were a pretty girl, my roommate would have bought something from him. The guy's expression and moment of silence after my roommate replied, "Dude,I'm gay" was priceless.ohnoitsabear said:
This is why you don't have a girlfriendImBigBob said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X52Ugkxi-Ec
This is an epic video, watch the whole thing, eh can't get the tags to work
The main reasons I don't have a girlfriend is because I am bad at trusting people and letting someone that close to me who could potentially harm me emotionally is too much of a security risk. Plus, I am working on on writing and trying to become an author so I feel a relationship would most likely be a distraction. The other reason is because I really don't want to be a parent so staying out of a relationship ensures I never become a parent.
I usually get asked this at family gatherings and it bugs me. It makes me feel like the fact that I'm still single, an have always been single, means that I'm wrong or broken in some way. The truth is I'm not really in the best place in life to have one. My home is in Belgium but I'm studying in England, so I spend half my year in each country and that is not conducive to a good relationship (long distance sucks I hear). Until my homing situation stabilizes I think remaining single would be best for me, although that doesn't explain why I haven't gotten laid in years. That is because I'm not a fan of one-night stands.
Also until shortly before I started uni I wasn't all that confident in myself, and since then the women who have caught my eye usually have boyfriends. It probably doesn't help that I'm terrible at picking up on signs that someone is attracted to me. I can be dense like that. Also I'm bad at initiating conversations with strangers.
Also until shortly before I started uni I wasn't all that confident in myself, and since then the women who have caught my eye usually have boyfriends. It probably doesn't help that I'm terrible at picking up on signs that someone is attracted to me. I can be dense like that. Also I'm bad at initiating conversations with strangers.