Would you want a relationship with a tomboy/tomgirl?
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Uh, Hell yeah? Seemingly society views all confident women as tomboys, so if we're working on that logic, hell yeah. Not sure about TomGirl though, I didn't know that was a thing.
If we got on well and there was attraction? You bet your sweet arse I would (assumiung you have a sweet arse. If not borrow one for the purpose of this wager).
I really don't like really girly girls. I have very little common ground. Same thing if they are too laddish.
I really don't like really girly girls. I have very little common ground. Same thing if they are too laddish.
This. More emphasis on the second criteria than the first. I saw a dating profile for a self described "tomboy" and from one picture knew that I wasn't especially interested sexually. Then from the profile, I knew that her and I didn't have much in common either. I mean, I'm not bisexual, but I could imagine a situation where I could get "involved" with a man in that capacity. And once it got around to "doin' the nasty," I'd probably get really turned off as soon as I saw his penis. Conversely, I might not be that interested in an alleged "tomboy," but as soon as I made physical contact with her female anatomy, all those reservations would be cast aside. Boobs and vaginas are powerful instigators for a relationship.Skipper zammo said:
"Gee, I dunno. I mean she's nice and all, but - HOLY CRAP NIPPLES!"
It just depends on which traits they display and their overall personality. For instance, I don't like drama queens of either gender. Or cattiness. Or obsession with looks. Etc. Before I got married, I would have dated a male ballet dancer or male nanny or such. Just depends on the guy.
Actually, assuming she didn't go to such an extreme it was practically comedic it'd be a plus since she'd be able to hang out with me along with my male friends with no real issue.
EDIT: On a related note, girls in fatigues.........just damn.......just....damn.
EDIT: On a related note, girls in fatigues.........just damn.......just....damn.
Yeah--but its an old term--I haven't heard it myself in about eight years myself.erttheking said:
I feel like the gender roles have fairly blurred since then and that's why tomboy and sally are no longer used in general--the only crowd that really feels strongly about gender specific roles tends towards more hurtful terms so these are more or less gone these days I feel. Plus these may even be region-specific.
I really wouldn't care, at worst it'd be a minor annoyance and at best it'd be a complement to our relationship as it stood.
^ this.GangstaPony said:
Also any woman, who knows her way around a car, likes action movies more than girly crap, doesn't get scared easily, likes sports, and generally isn't overly concerned all the time about everyone thinking she's pretty enough, is the kind of woman I'm looking for.
Seriously hard to find though, I almost always end up finding droves of irritating women who when I date them, constantly remind me of why I dumped the last one. Currently only found 3-4 women in all the years I've been dating, who I haven't gotten utterly fed up with within a week or two.
Hell I've had more than a few dates where I've just walked off on a woman, because A: she won't let me get a goddamn word in edgewise, and B: yammered on and on about shit I have no interest in and cannot add anything to the conversation about, like her favourite kind of shoes, or how much fun shopping in certain cities is, or C: she clams the fuck up, has little to no sense of humour about stuff, I mean when I crack wise and the woman I'm with gets this sour little face on with her mouth all pursed like a dog's butthole, and she's says something along the lines of "That's not funny, blah blah blah long winded sociopolitical commentary, explaining why I should be more sensitive to something and grow a brain, or somesuch.".
Sorry for the rant, comparative perspective, that is all.
I think I'd have a better relationship with a tomboy that a girly girl.
Why? Because otherwise we would technically be a lesbian couple... By that I mean I have an incredibly feminine personality.
Why? Because otherwise we would technically be a lesbian couple... By that I mean I have an incredibly feminine personality.
What degree of tomgirl are we talking here?
I mean, I appreciate when someone looks good in a dress regardless of their sex, but there's a degree of "girliness" that I do not tolerate very well, from anyone.
I... don't know? I mean, I like when the men around me are emotionally comfortable and with the capacity to be delicate, gentile and compassionate..?
I just don't get what the term encompasses, I suppose. If its another way of putting, "Metrosexual," though, I'm fine with it in a hypothetical partner. Attention to detail and knowing how to dress smart? Yes, please.
I mean, I appreciate when someone looks good in a dress regardless of their sex, but there's a degree of "girliness" that I do not tolerate very well, from anyone.
I... don't know? I mean, I like when the men around me are emotionally comfortable and with the capacity to be delicate, gentile and compassionate..?
I just don't get what the term encompasses, I suppose. If its another way of putting, "Metrosexual," though, I'm fine with it in a hypothetical partner. Attention to detail and knowing how to dress smart? Yes, please.
I think androgyny is attractive in either gender, as long as it's not to the point of resembling the opposite gender.