I was with you until here, but under the United States' definition of rape, you're absolutely incorrect. Rape can, legitimately, be an accident, in large part because of ignorance of what rape actually is.SpectacularWebHead said:Look, when this pops up, it is a little bit depressing. When we try and say that people commiting these crimes are some how "Not to blame" or "Accidental" (Pops up more than you'd expect/ want) It's a little ridiculous. These people have commited a serious crime. They are to blame one hundred percent. You cannot accidentally rape someone in the way a murder can happen accidentaly. You cannot be provoked into rape as you can with assault or murder. There is NO possibility of a rapist having done it unintentionally, not meant for it to happen, made a mistake etc. They do it because it is in their nature. Whether this is an excuse or not I cannot comment, but it takes a very sick person to gain sexual thrill over the feeling of a non-consensual partnership. When a crime like this is taken, certain liberties afforded to other criminals and victims of crime should be revoked, due to this simple fact: Rape cannot and happen accidentally.
Example: You go to a party and find a nice girl who's had a little too much to drink. You both end up kissing and upon waking up you realize that you had sex the night before. Legally, you have just committed a rape.
The problem here is that this definition, while legitimately trying to do something good by protecting those who are intoxicated or otherwise don't have the capacity to say 'no,' but it also intrudes upon the victims of violent and unintoxicated rapes. A mistake at a party is tragic, and can have very unfortunate consequences, but ultimately a violent crime is a much more serious offense, and the two shouldn't be lumped together.