Except that they don't want the whole draft abolished and aren't fighting to stop men being able to be drafted.
Who is they?
I'm going to be real here, any concern I have for the draft is fundamentally fairly abstract. My country ended conscription nearly 60 years ago. The last time anyone was conscripted here, a woman legally couldn't open a bank account in their own name and spousal rape wasn't recognized as a crime.
I did meet one guy who was conscripted into the IDF and was extremely traumatized by some of the things he saw, but less because he suffered personal injury or threat than because of the things he saw his fellow soldiers do to civilians. See, it turns out that being a civilian in a war zone isn't a safe fun time for the whole family. The Korean war, the reason why South Korea still has conscription, killed several times more civilians than soldiers, and both sides in that war carried out war crimes against the civilian population.
But yeah, I felt very bad for that guy. He was put into a situation he never volunteered for and was damaged for life. But if he couldn't stop the draft, what realistic chance do you think I have?
It wasn't feminists who drafted him, it wasn't feminists who refused to campaign against the draft. Even in Israel, which has an integrated military, it was overwhelmingly men, because men are overrepresented in positions of authority, and especially overrepresented within the military. Men decide that the draft is necessary. How are feminists supposed to "fight to stop men being drafted" against the men responsible (who probably care very little for what feminists think because they're men). It's not like most men are fighting to stop it themselves.
What have you done to fight against men being drafted? I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that the answer is "nothing", because you don't actually care. Most men don't actually care. Most men, need I say it again, are perfectly willing to endure any level of abuse by other men if it provides them with the slimmest hope of being able to abuse someone else one day. The simple fact is that you've put far more energy into being mad about women supposedly not fighting to stop the draft than you ever have fighting to stop the draft yourself. That's really sad.
You've probably read about the KPop stuff. They're idealizing effeminate, infantalized, men.
So what?
I think some of you went through the cishet brainwashing camp a bit too much. What you're describing is something that exists in "western" culture too, and has for a long time. Glam rock, hair metal, boy bands made up entirely of twinks, post-punk, goth, the new romantics. It exists because the static set of character traits we sometimes refer to as femininity are attractive. Femininity is nice. It's pretty to look at, and it denotes a degree of physical and/or emotional openness and availability that masculinity does not. Being attracted to masculinity takes work, it's work a lot of people (including myself) end up enjoying, but it's a cultivated taste like being into BDSM or Dark Souls.
I can't help but wonder what is different here, because I can't escape the uncomfortable possibility that men in K-pop bands are being read as more effeminate than their white counterparts simply because they're Asian, and that's getting kinda racist..