Your biggest turn OFF?
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If someone came into a relationship planning to change me. Whilst I've usually looked down on this sort of reply in the past, I fail to see how a relationship could ever work if they only saw me as their little 'project'. I acknowledge that change comes as part of any bond (be it with friends or a partner), but if you only see things that you don't agree with and want to change, I wouldn't give you the time of the day to introduce yourself.
Conformity and immaturity. Let me make an example, when the masses make a decision to copy another persons clothing, not based on whether the item of clothing is practical (keeps you warm/cool) or it particularly looks good, but because some other tosser is wearing it.
Clothing doesn't necessarily annoy me the most either, infact it's fairly trivial in comparison to other tainted aspects like personality and taste. It's usually for the same reasons as well; a friend is doing it/thinking it/saying it, a 'celebrity' is doing it/thinking it/saying it. To me this strikes me as immaturity of the highest calibre, when they cannot seem to form their own opinion or goal in life without their all-powerful figure changing giving them the go ahead.
In this case, copying is not the sincerest form of flattery as it is the most poignant example of how bland you are as a person.
Conformity and immaturity. Let me make an example, when the masses make a decision to copy another persons clothing, not based on whether the item of clothing is practical (keeps you warm/cool) or it particularly looks good, but because some other tosser is wearing it.
Clothing doesn't necessarily annoy me the most either, infact it's fairly trivial in comparison to other tainted aspects like personality and taste. It's usually for the same reasons as well; a friend is doing it/thinking it/saying it, a 'celebrity' is doing it/thinking it/saying it. To me this strikes me as immaturity of the highest calibre, when they cannot seem to form their own opinion or goal in life without their all-powerful figure changing giving them the go ahead.
In this case, copying is not the sincerest form of flattery as it is the most poignant example of how bland you are as a person.
I do so hate to be this shallow but...this has been a deal-breaker once or twice in the past for me. I don't like admitting that size is that important to me, but it's pretty important, yeah.Unspeakable said:
Well, the kind who go out of their way to show off how very 'manly' they are. Ridiculous attire, far too much after-shave. Always butting in to any conversation to show off how very knowledgable they are, or virile if appropriate. Easily intimidated... *groans* The kind of jackoff that will cut the sleeves out of his shirt to give ua all a more compelling view of his chest hair and aroma... *fans the air*s0denone said:
Female wingmen? *chuckles* Not too different from males, love. Generally looking out for their partner, hleping 'em score when needed, or helping them keep from heading home with Captain DOuchebag, when they get too shnockered.
You need to be clear here.TheDarkestDerp said:
Is it wrong that I interrupt two women in conversation, by offering my thoughts? I mean, they can sit there and look all pretty... Sometimes you simply have to butt in, and then ask if one of them cares to dance(or something to the like).
I mean, alright - I can actually see your point when thinking about it... But what would you propose instead?
What does that have to do with them being easily intimidated, though?
I agree that a lot of men need a proper sense of dress, but I don't see the relevance there
So they are a little different, then. (Wing)Men will generally never cock-block another man. Hell, even if the woman is extremely repulsive they wont - just for the laughs the next day!
Do women do that as well, though? One(the wingman) go occupy the one(s) that aren't the target for the other woman? I guess it makes sense. I'll have to see if I can spot that, from now on!
Now you've made me curious...ReservoirAngel said:
If you don't mind my asking; how small is too small?
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Cosmetic surgery, bland tattoos (tattoos should be unique), stupidity, and being really slow on the uptake. For example, if you're taking chemistry, and 2/3ds into the semester still hasn't grasped the concept of a mol.
Edit: And being overly religious. I have a hard enough time handling it when the person keeps it to themselves.
Rude people ..yes,that would just about be my biggest turn-off ...I can take dumb,I can take bland and I could learn to accept animal-foot-fetish ..but beeing rude I will never tolerate!
I'm a lot like this, the main non-negotiable traits I have are intelligence and being able to "link" to my personality. I don't necessarily not get along with people of a significantly lower intellect, but I'd never be able to form a full bond with them. Also the way I am naturally can irritate a lot of people, and that just doesn't work. If you don't like code and games then it's not really going to work.SimuLord said:
Christ, G cups!? Either you're lying, not talking about reality, not in America, C cups are smaller than I thought, G cups are smaller than they sound, or they, in fact, are fat, it just goes straight into their breasts. Or, y'know, they're fake. And if someone has asked, and they said no, they were lying.DSQ said:
But that's just me.
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Post script: I looked it up, and I'm glad to see that two out of those are correct. Namely, C cup is smaller than I predicted, in Japan, at least, and G cup is smaller, as well. Again, in Japan, at least. Still, I like my women at least vaguely athletic, and around C-cup size. And it still stands, that in my eyes, the American D cup is too large, and often faked. As that is opinion.
Let me change that to I prefer the middle level of C cup, the higher end is fine; and anywhere past the middle level of D cups is pushing it, and call it even? And, this is going by the American cup size, just in case there might be size confusion, because of country.
Ow, that hurts my frontal lobe looking at those pictures. I guess I'm also with you two, since I find that look to be bloody hideous.Headsprouter said:I have never agreed with someone more than i agree with you right now, good sir.Ashcrexl said:women who do this look
seriously, this fucking look
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that head tilted, eyes sideways looking (usually), mouth slightly open look. if i had a girlfriend and she gave me that look, i don't care if i just proposed, i would just walk out and yell from the next room that i never want to see her again.
Especially with that first one. Text cannot describe the sound I made the first time I looked at it...Damn it, now my eyes are starting to get watery. I need to go wash that picture out of my brain with a mixture bleach, lemon juice, kosher salt, lime juice, orange juice, battery acid, and Windex.
Never smiling.
A smile is one of the most attractive features a girl can have, and if you don't smile, then I honestly want nothing to do with you. I don't go for dark and brooding or any of that nonsense.
This goes for guys too, I just don't want anything to do with people who are always taking everything super seriously, all the time, in such a way that everything they say sounds like it's italicised.
A smile is one of the most attractive features a girl can have, and if you don't smile, then I honestly want nothing to do with you. I don't go for dark and brooding or any of that nonsense.
This goes for guys too, I just don't want anything to do with people who are always taking everything super seriously, all the time, in such a way that everything they say sounds like it's italicised.
Lol does reality only count in america XDRamare said:
But to talk about the rest of your point, i was talking about uk cup sizes (i thought all cup sizes are the same in each country...)and yeah It is perfectly normal to be a uk size 8 (us size 6) and a C cup without having anything done.
I just checked uk sizes are slightly bigger that american ones. http://www.usatourist.com/english/traveltips/shopping/shopping-womens-sizes.html
And yes i saw her bra and it was a G cup and while i can't know 100% but i am 99% sure they aren't fake for the fact that it is super uncommen to get plastic surgry here in scotland and i know she wouldn't in the position to be able to buy fake boobs.
But if you just prefer c cups thats fine
it's good to know smoking is a turnoff for alot of people. i don't smoke but would have no problem having a gf that smokes. although in norway "snus" has started to becom way more common, since snus doesn't destroy your lungs. snus also do not leave a bad taste/breath so it's probably more torrerable for more people, but since it's not used that much in alot of countries you would probably frown upon someone having a snus under their lip since the sight of that would be unusual to you. ^^