Okay not embarrassing. But it gets confusing when you factor in that by that point I'd had several major sexual experiences, so it's just odd to most people that I did all that before my first kiss. To my credit, I do regret all of that shit. Once my time machine works I'll be correcting such errors in the judgement of my past self.Captain Placeholder said:18 and not being kissed isn't embarassing. It just shows that you are not rushing forword when you don't want to.
I assume you mean a Guy Fawkes mask.lobster1077 said:Kissing while a bloke in a Guy Richie mask chucks knives about, I gotta say that's pretty awesome.
To be completely honest, if she never had crappy kiss before, what makes her think you're the best she has had? Everyone before you has failed, you have succeeded, now bask in your own glow!IcyEvils said:It bugs me though, even now, that I wasn't her first kiss. She says she regrets etc and wishes she'd waited for me, and some boys even managed to bite her lip and make her bleed.
Anyone know of a way to stop thinking about it? Kind of like jealousy I wasn't there first. It's ruining me, and she just feels guilty. If anyone has suggestions please say!
You clearly didn't see the director's cut of V for Vendetta with Robert Downey, Brad Pitt and Jason Flemyng. It was pretty hardcore.Cyd0n1a said:I assume you mean a Guy Fawkes mask.lobster1077 said:Kissing while a bloke in a Guy Richie mask chucks knives about, I gotta say that's pretty awesome.
As for my first kiss, it hasn't happened yet.
If you're 12 or younger, then it isn't all that wierd that you feel this way. But it does mean you're not ready for a girlfriend yet. That doesn't matter we all get there at our own pace.IcyEvils said:About 10 months ago, with the girl I'm still with. I told her I really liked her, she said she liked me too. I asked could I kiss her, then our lips met. It was ok, nothing huge. We've got plenty of styles now though :3
It bugs me though, even now, that I wasn't her first kiss. She says she regrets etc and wishes she'd waited for me, and some boys even managed to bite her lip and make her bleed.
Anyone know of a way to stop thinking about it? Kind of like jealousy I wasn't there first. It's ruining me, and she just feels guilty. If anyone has suggestions please say!
I'm guessing you're in your mid teens? Don't worry about it, it ultimately doesn't matter. My first boyfriend was a bit of a man slut. He was a few years older than me and he'd been around the block. But the difference was, we were in love. The fact is sex is fun, kissing too. I'm not one to slut about when it comes to sex, kissing is whatever but sex to me is something more romantic. But it ultimately doesn't matter and I came to relise that about the time I relised I was in love with him. It doesn't matter who else he had sex with because we meant so much more to each other.IcyEvils said:It bugs me though, even now, that I wasn't her first kiss. She says she regrets etc and wishes she'd waited for me, and some boys even managed to bite her lip and make her bleed.
Anyone know of a way to stop thinking about it? Kind of like jealousy I wasn't there first. It's ruining me, and she just feels guilty. If anyone has suggestions please say!
I think it's a nice milestone, maybe not one of the all important life changing ones but it's something I'm always going to remember, although not all that fondly.Woodsey said:I dunno, 12 or 13, can't remember much else. I didn't think anyone gave a shit about their first kiss.