Hi Ho!Worgen said:If you can do no good, then at least do no harm.
A shocking amount of people do not think this. I don't know why this is either.TestECull said:Respect is earned, not given. So is disrespect.
Everyone starts out neutral. How they treat me determines whether I will respect or disrespect them. As long as you aren't a dick to me I won't be one to you, but I'm not going to be nice just for niceness' sake either. I expect the same from others, too, I don't expect you to automatically respect me either.
I know my I would be better off if I adopted this philosophy about 7 years ago. It really doesn't preclude happiness, nor do I know why it would. In my case it would have done the opposite.Rasputin1 said:Seems like a sure way to living a depressing life if you ask me. But hey, it's the way to go right? Maybe I should be more like you.
Sorry but, I don't buy into that cynicism shit. I think I'd much rather go back to being happy. It's much nicer like that.
cynicism is not a fad. i wouldn't explain further, but, beeing happy, yes, it's something to aspire to, but it isn't as easy as just chosing to be happy. Because i'd rather be a cynicall a**hole for the rest of my life than be naively happy. Besides, you couldn't go back to beeing happy after seeing the ugly nature of things.Rasputin1 said:Seems like a sure way to living a depressing life if you ask me. But hey, it's the way to go right? Maybe I should be more like you.
Sorry but, I don't buy into that cynicism shit. I think I'd much rather go back to being happy. It's much nicer like that.
i couldn't agree moreTestECull said:Respect is earned, not given. So is disrespect.
Everyone starts out neutral. How they treat me determines whether I will respect or disrespect them. As long as you aren't a dick to me I won't be one to you, but I'm not going to be nice just for niceness' sake either. I expect the same from others, too, I don't expect you to automatically respect me either.
Alright fair enough I'll give you that, it isn't as easy as just deciding to be happy... but that's the first step at least, no? And of course you can go back to being happy after seeing how things are. The world's a pretty fucked up place, and so are most of the people in it.g3ko said:never take anything for granted
cynicism is not a fad. i wouldn't explain further, but, beeing happy, yes, it's something to aspire to, but it isn't as easy as just chosing to be happy. Because i'd rather be a cynicall a**hole for the rest of my life than be naively happy. Besides, you couldn't go back to beeing happy after seeing the ugly nature of things.Rasputin1 said:Seems like a sure way to living a depressing life if you ask me. But hey, it's the way to go right? Maybe I should be more like you.
Sorry but, I don't buy into that cynicism shit. I think I'd much rather go back to being happy. It's much nicer like that.