Nossy said:
Today is my ex's birthday and I feel so depressed. I miss her, but I know it's over. What are your opinions, Escapist? What shall I do?
Read "Warrior Elite: The Forging of Class 228" and then decide that SEALS are pussies and you're going to put them to shame!
No, seriously; Just got workout crazy, because girls will think you're hot since you have muscles, and guys will think that you can kick their ass. Then no matter what you do you can kick ass at it, be it joining the military, rock climbing, triathalon/an ULTRA-fucking-MAN (double Ironman), etc...
Really, you just need another goal for yourself. A single woman should not be that goal.