As someone who has been to war, shot at, nearly bombed, and has seen plenty of violence. I don't think it ever gets easier, unless you maybe already have a mindset for violence like a pro boxer or MMA fighter.Like, there are obvious limits. As soon as a weapon is involved things get a bit different. But accepting that you're going to take a beating from someone isn't that hard to do, and I say this as a tiny disabled person. You just need to be angry. Really, really angry. I guess it probably gets easier the more violence you have experienced, but once you've crossed that mental threshold of knowing you're going to take a beating, the adrenaline kicks in and the rest is easy.
Be careful though, because this could easily be asked of the victim as to why she isn't gouging the fucker's eyes out or doing anything and everything to get away. Hell do we even know if she cried out for help from any bystanders? The early parts of that article make it sound like the two people knew each other and in that case it could have come across as a couple airing their drama publicly. Which would also explain why people tried to ignore it by looking at their phones. A lot of people do not like getting involved in domestic cases, and a lot of times both parties involved actively protest against outside interference.So I think my real issue here is that I don't understand why seeing someone being sexually assaulted on a train wouldn't make someone that angry, or why anyone would choose the long term trauma of having done nothing over the short term trauma of having been beaten up.
I think anything we do further is just speculation and we need more facts to come out to make real determinations at this point.