You referring to this 1, 2, butt-fuck right here?
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You know what, I'm with them. There should be an option to not have pronouns, wherein everyone only ever refers to you by your full name regardless of how awkward that would sound, and everyone in the universe is somehow mysteriously aware that this is the only acceptable way to refer to you. This is one of those scenarios where the right answer is to give them exactly. what. they. ask. for. Monkey paw that request.
It's more than that, it's paranoid delusion. If a woman in a game isn't traditionally attractive it's a purposeful attack on them. 'Them' being men who like traditionally attractive women, which I guess they're afraid to run out of or something. You hear the phrase from reactionaries all the time; made ugly on pupose. So much narcissism hides in those four little words.
This is more or less a direct consequence of various talking heads proclaiming that the existence of traditionally attractive female characters was akin to bigotry. After enough of that, it's not unexpected to see the absence of it as intentional.
It's funny to see Nexus mods banning mods to remove this aspect but perfectly fine with mods for games that let you date children......... no I'm not joking
I'm afraid to ask. In my experience, most mods are on Nexus. If it's an "adult" mod, you usually have to go to Lover's Lab. If Lover's Lab doesn't allow it, there's...another forum for those sorts of mods. I would have expected a mod for dating children to go straight to that last one, do not pass Go, do not collect $200. Especially since that sort of mod is outright in their wheelhouse. I'm only aware that last one existed because of one Skyrim SE playthrough where I wanted to be able to take more or less arbitrary NPCs captive, restrain them in some fashion and use them to set up blood dens once I inevitably went vampire - at the time the only mod that would really let you *do* that was a BDSM-focused mod, and there wasn't an official version of it for SE, but that other site had an unofficial port to SE. Before the next time I start up Skyrim I may see if someone has released an alternative for taking NPCs captive and locking them up since, especially one that will let you vamp feed on them.
There's also obviously internalized homophobia/misogyny/racism at work throughout, but I'm not too apt to really speak on that me thinks.
It is always a convenient explanation for when a $DEMOGRAPHIC person does not believe what $DEMOGRAPHIC is supposed to believe.