Ok, even if you don't believe there's be (somewhat) less genocide under Harris, surely you can accept that others genuinely believe that, and given that premise, see her as PotUS as being desirable over Trump?
No, they find that extremely difficult. Let me explain.
Let's say for fun that Harris had won the presidency. What do you think would be happening right now?
I can tell you something I know would NOT happen if Harris had won: that the president of the USA would have overtly advocated a massive crime against humanity, and not only that, but actually suggest that the USA carry it out. The shit has escalated, bigly. That's not a difficult conclusion.
And this is the root of the whole "this has been the plan all along" we're seeing in this thread.
Yes, they thought Harris needed to be punished for not standing up to Israel, and now - as accurately predicted - her opponent turns out to be massively worse. At this point, they could have the courage of their convictions and say that it doesn't matter, they can't vote for anyone who they think supported genocide, even if it means worse people win. I can respect that.
But evidently they don't have the courage of that conviction, because they're trying to convince themselves actually the outcome isn't worse. "This has been the plan all along" is a comforting fiction to achieve that. Sure, there was a plan amongst the Israeli right, and evidently it was known about in other circles (e.g. Kushner a few years ago wittering on about Gaza beachfront property) but there's no evidence it had any significant traction outside a brigade of sociopathic kooks. There's no compelling reason to think it would have gone anywhere soon... unless Americans put one of those kooks in charge of the White House. But if you feel perhaps a bit awkward about the fact you advocated a course of action that helped said sociopath into power, obviously, you might want to feel a lot less awkward about it, so why not make up a comfortable fiction?
And in the end that's why they end up doing things like de facto supporting autocrats in other countries that oppose the USA, like Putin. Perhaps if they had the courage to truly accept worse outcomes for making the right moral choice, they'd be okay: but that requires incredible courage that very few people have. Most want outcomes. So at some point they have to divorce decision-making from reality and consequences, and once that's done, a person can end up anywhere at all, including in some warped way defending what they are supposed to oppose.
So, I totally get why it's incredibly annoying for people of a more pragmatic, "do the best I can with what I have" mien to have to put up with a moralising twerp whose inflexibility has made everyone's lives worse, and then pretends that's everyone else's fault but theirs.
On the other hand, morality is a thing and people feel it very intensely. As above, I can respect not voting for Harris because at the end of the day, even if she is a better choice overall, she has crossed a red line. I can absolutely understand why if that red line is that important to a person, then it is very difficult to accept and morally tolerate people who do. And maybe if more of us did have those sorts of standards, there would be fewer compromises with, well, evil.
And if that is how a person feels, I totally get how frustrating it must be for them listen to a condescending arse tell them that their stupid morality has ruined everything and if they could only be more pliant in the face of crimes against humanity we might fix some crimes against humanity.
At the end of the day, we're
all losers here (except TStorm who doesn't give a monkeys about genocide just so long as the Republicans win). Of course we're not the real losers, that's the Palestinians, but we all think things are worse. Maybe mutual recriminations and infighting is part of the grieving process, but really, we have got to find a more useful way to move forwards eventually, and I can't help but think that needs more acceptance of differing views.