Artaneius said:
You adapt to the culture you want to join, the culture doesn't adapt to you.
This is the most poignant excerpt from your post and I'll tell ya why.
Just like the feminist side of gaming (and it makes me vomit a bit to even utter that with any amount of seriousness) would have us believe that we just have to accept the fact that women are misrepresented, mistreated, and marginalized; the other end of the spectrum is that gaming is gaming, and whether you like it or not, it's going to be what it is, and as we've seen over the past couple of weeks, the gaming industry and it's fans have limited patience when it comes to this debate.
The problem also with this particular assault on first amendment rights is that the downside of non-compliance as it pertains to the developer, is it's possible enough groundswell can be generated by a subset of overly sensitive, maladaptive people to actually affect their bottom line, thus leading to decisions being made that probably aren't going to be favorably viewed by the whole of gaming culture, but becomes irrelevant due to a very vocal, "offended" minority.
Am I wrong that most of the people on the NOT SJW side of this whole gaming culture debate would rather just keep enjoying their games, and let those that don't like particular content to simply vote with their dollars and shut up about the rest of it? I mean this shit is such a new phenomenon anyway and just look how toxic it is. It's not going to produce good, it's going to produce resentment.
If you are a woman that wants to create games, GO DO IT, and make something great and we will buy it. There are plenty of shitty games made by men that get heaped in the bargain bin, or turned into bedding for livestock. They don't appear to think it has anything to do with their gender. What I've seen and I'm sorry but I hold it to be true is that this is absolutely not an "equality" debate. It's a 51%/49% debate in favor of the ladies.
And as a closing note, Depression Quest is a joke of a "game" Zoe Quinn is a living, breathing turd, and I derive no extra pleasure from from causing harm to digital females; even though Anita would have me believe that because I'm part of the patriarchy, I might just not know that I'm a misogynist.