A question for girls...

[DefunctTheory]

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I know a few guys that go to gay clubs when their poor. They flirt with the 'gays' (Their term, not mine) to get free booze. I found this out one night when I was tricked into going into a gay bar. That has little to do with women making out, but I guess it just proves it goes both ways (haha!). At least the females were straight up with you as soon as you asked.

Side Note: Gay men really want a piece of this ass.

Is it true that girls are more open minded than guys? I was having a conversation with a ladyfriend and she was telling me how girls like to grab each others chest and make out just for the hell of it. And I asked, "Doesn't that make you gay?" and she told me, "No its just that girls are just more playful than guys and are more open minded."

So, kinda like how it's completely heterosexual for a guy to jerk off another guy, as long as one of them says "not gay" afterwards?

What the hell? No! Well, unless its Man Love Thursday...

And yes, my place of work has Man Love Thursday. Its pretty much gay joke Thursday.

 

[Marik2]

Is it true that girls are more open minded than guys? I was having a conversation with a ladyfriend and she was telling me how girls like to grab each others chest and make out just for the hell of it. And I asked, "Doesn't that make you gay?" and she told me, "No its just that girls are just more playful than guys and are more open minded."

And I have seen that first hand, back in high school the girls that I knew were always chasing each other trying to grab each others chest and would give each other a good morning kiss or a goodbye kiss.

So I'm just wondering if all girls are like that or if its just where I live?

So being open minded was what I was missing when it came to making out and molesting whoever I wanted...

Being a girl, I've never met another who would just ran up and grab my tits and kiss me (drunk or not--though I assume them being drunk makes it more likely to happen to anyone). To me, it sounds like girlfriend either likes to exaggerate truths of her gender/sex, or she and her friends are huge attention whores and trying to make that fact sound okay with excuses.

Nope shes straight, shes got a boyfriend whos ok with it. And I asked the girls that do those things if they were doing it for attention and they said "No we don't care for what people think, we just do it cuz its fun"

 

[leviathanmisha]

Question of the Day: What fun is life if you can't sexually harass your friends?

Me and my friends will grab each other and on occasion bite each other...but it's all just good fun for us.

 

[Estocavio]

You can't generalise people never mind a whole gender. I know theres guys just as open minded as some girls and theres girls that are really close minded.

Agreed - And trying to generalise them as a whole doesnt exactly imply open mindedness... No offence intended OP.

 

[MelasZepheos_v1legacy]

I remember reading something a while ago which said that girls have a tendency to get more emotionally involved with people they know, because their brains are wired differently, and given the connection in western society with emotional involvement and relationships this translates into girls being more open physically with each other than boys.

It did note the tendency of boys to wrestle, going on to note the point that saying girls being more sexual around each other is the same as saying that boy's wrestling must be homoerotic.

So for one thing, it's got nothing to do with open mindedness, just emotional connection and how the brain is wired differently for men and women. And for another, it's not even necessarily sexual, just a product of culture and deep friendship.

ALSO also

It is postualted that there is a difference between romantic relationships and sexual relationships. It is possible to be romantic with someone (in a committed long term partnership were you support each other's emotional needs) without ever being sexual (some term kisses as romantic, others see kisses as sexual, but that's getting pedantic). As mentioned above, girls have much more tendency to be romantic (emotional support systems rather than manly posturing support systems) with each other, and this may seem sexual.

I include this theory last because it depends on you believing that there is a difference between a romantic relationship and a sexual one, which I know not everyone believes.

 

[Marik2]

You can't generalise people never mind a whole gender. I know theres guys just as open minded as some girls and theres girls that are really close minded.

Agreed - And trying to generalise them as a whole doesnt exactly imply open mindedness... No offence intended OP.

None taken I'm sorta slow on things

 

[Stormcloud23]

Theyre attention seeking. Guys do the same.

This, move on.

 

[esperandote]

They sound like seek atention, being aprooved by the group and pose as cool/awesome, but it's is completely gay.

 

[Monkfish Acc.]

Nope shes straight, shes got a boyfriend whos ok with it. And I asked the girls that do those things if they were doing it for attention and they said "No we don't care for what people think, we just do it cuz its fun"

Oh my god, that is a go-to phrase for attention whores.
It's the same as being "random" or whatever. You are not doing it because you are a special unique person and you live for fun and joy. You are doing it to entertain and bask in the warm glow of everyone staring at you while you make a monumental ass of yourself.

No attention whore wants to admit they are an attention whore. If they do, it is only so they can draw attention to themselves by pointing out how many problems they have.

 

[Sarah Kerrigan]

I give guys hugs. I'm completly (well, not totally) open to guys, and I love having guy friends

 

[Lineoutt]

You know what freaks me out more than anything? When a girl friend tries to get in your business. Hugs? Ok, thats nice Flirty playing around? Fuck no! get off me you molester!!! Seriously I recently had an acquaintance over at my house and my parents suggested she sleep over. She was all cuddly and gross. I will avoid her at ALL costs! I seriously felt molested but was too polite to mention anything. Goddam

 

[Chancie]

I have a friend that does that and it actually annoys me to no end. >.> I'm ok with hugs and all that, but when you grab my boobs, I draw the line waaaaay before that. (And it's led to a lot people from my school thinking I'm lesbian, which sucks when you're single and "looking.")

So, I've developed a bias, I guess. I think girls do it for attention, and that's it. I don't see what's the appeal of grabbing your friend's chest (or anything like that) and I don't see how it could be "fun."

 

[zehydra]

Is it true that girls are more open minded than guys? I was having a conversation with a ladyfriend and she was telling me how girls like to grab each others chest and make out just for the hell of it. And I asked, "Doesn't that make you gay?" and she told me, "No its just that girls are just more playful than guys and are more open minded."

So, kinda like how it's completely heterosexual for a guy to jerk off another guy, as long as one of them says "not gay" afterwards?

This exactly. Keep in mind that girls that grab each others chests and make out are a minority in their own gender.

 

[Marik2]

Nope shes straight, shes got a boyfriend whos ok with it. And I asked the girls that do those things if they were doing it for attention and they said "No we don't care for what people think, we just do it cuz its fun"

Oh my god, that is a go-to phrase for attention whores.
It's the same as being "random" or whatever. You are not doing it because you are a special unique person and you live for fun and joy. You are doing it to entertain and bask in the warm glow of everyone staring at you while you make a monumental ass of yourself.

No attention whore wants to admit they are an attention whore. If they do, it is only so they can draw attention to themselves by pointing out how many problems they have.

Don't know man Im' a pretty random person (not by kissing or molesting other people) but I do things that seem "Out of place". Why do I do it? Cuz its fun it keeps me from becoming insane in a society where you have to follow the norm.

 

[Infinatex]

Girls maybe more open, I mean if a dude tried to kiss me I'd punch him in the mouth. Ew..

 

[Jaranja]

Is it true that girls are more open minded than guys? I was having a conversation with a ladyfriend and she was telling me how girls like to grab each others chest and make out just for the hell of it. And I asked, "Doesn't that make you gay?" and she told me, "No its just that girls are just more playful than guys and are more open minded."

So, kinda like how it's completely heterosexual for a guy to jerk off another guy, as long as one of them says "not gay" afterwards?

Fucking. Too. Right.

I'm a hug-giver. I'll hug anyone. I don't, however, go around grabbing other guys junk and then say "Don't worry man, it's totally not gay. It's just fun."

If you think it's fun to grab other guys junk, you're gay.

Anyway, Women and Men are completely different.

 

[Marik2]

Is it true that girls are more open minded than guys? I was having a conversation with a ladyfriend and she was telling me how girls like to grab each others chest and make out just for the hell of it. And I asked, "Doesn't that make you gay?" and she told me, "No its just that girls are just more playful than guys and are more open minded."

So, kinda like how it's completely heterosexual for a guy to jerk off another guy, as long as one of them says "not gay" afterwards?

This exactly. Keep in mind that girls that grab each others chests and make out are a minority in their own gender.

Yeah that's not the case where I live. Ive seen that back in 6th grade so naturally I thought girls were more "playful", but I guess I just live in a place where the minority happens more

 

[Marik2]

Is it true that girls are more open minded than guys? I was having a conversation with a ladyfriend and she was telling me how girls like to grab each others chest and make out just for the hell of it. And I asked, "Doesn't that make you gay?" and she told me, "No its just that girls are just more playful than guys and are more open minded."

So, kinda like how it's completely heterosexual for a guy to jerk off another guy, as long as one of them says "not gay" afterwards?

Fucking. Too. Right.

I'm a hug-giver. I'll hug anyone. I don't, however, go around grabbing other guys junk and then say "Don't worry man, it's totally not gay. It's just fun."

If you think it's fun to grab other guys junk, you're gay.

Anyway, Women and Men are completely different.

Don't know man I knew guys who did that but were straight and had girlfriends. I did punch them when one of them tried to do that to me or wanted to play ass tag. I guess its just the place where I live.

 

[Divine Miss Bee]

girls are more fluid in their sexuality, but it's only because ALL humans are and society has given girls the OK. i'm friends with a lot of guys, and according to an undefined number of them (i asked based on this question and swore to never name individuals), the reason that they're so homophobic is because they've had the same hormonal twinges about their guy friends that straight girls have about their girl friends. girls express it, but guys flip out over it. that's really it.

 

[Klarinette]

Open-minded? No, just annoying.
Pseudo lesbianism makes me angry.