I dont think thats the worst thing you could have heard. If Valve was really out to hurt orpahns (or lets just say this family in particular) they could have had a racial slur for chinese instead of calling you a fatty orphan.
.... Not that I think Valve is trying to do that.
Anyway, yeah. Id ont know, I think its dumb to be mad about this, but then again, thats just me (I wasnt adopted, but thats not really why I think this is dumb). I'm pretty sure when your daughter's ten, doesnt look anything like you, and isnt blind, there isnt alot to talk about.
Not that there's anything wrong iwth adopting.