Anita Sarkeesian states that sexism against men is impossible

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GundamSentinel said:
you know, people who actually want equal rights and opportunities for everyone
How many people are going to say they don't want equal rights and opportunities for everyone, if you don't ask them to specify who that everyone is? Sure, there'd be some, but a minority, I think.
 

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Firstly, she said that you can't be sexist against men, not that women can't be sexist.
I'm puzzled by the wording of this statement. Who else but women would be sexist against men? Are you saying that the possible scenario is men being sexist against men? I mean there are only 2 genders, so if it's possible to be sexist against men, which you and I seem to agree is possible, then it's kind of implied that it would be women being sexist against men. Sure I guess it's possible to have a person of the same gender being sexist against their own gender, but that seems to be a rare scenario compared to the culprit being of the opposite gender. Historically, people who act negatively against a specific group, either of race or gender or whatever, are from outside that specific group. So if it is possible for women to be sexist, then it's pretty likely they would be sexist against men. Your two statements seem mutually exclusive.
 

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thaluikhain said:
GundamSentinel said:
you know, people who actually want equal rights and opportunities for everyone
How many people are going to say they don't want equal rights and opportunities for everyone, if you don't ask them to specify who that everyone is? Sure, there'd be some, but a minority, I think.
Saying it is one thing. Actually having opinions on practical situations that match it is quite another.
 

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Anita is a living breathing straw man, super easy to attack her arguments because they are often totally brain dead. We can keep focusing on the crazy ones and keep making ourselves look ignant as fuck, or we can have real discussions. We cannot do both.

Hell we might as well dig up something like oh i don't know, this crazy radical feminist who thinks all men should be placed in solitary confinement, and then decry feminism as evil based on it, makes just as much sense. Although give her some hits if you want, its super good for an afternoon laugh, she also thinks all sex is rape and all women have some kind of latent super powers that men are holding back.
(http://witchwind.wordpress.com/2014/10/07/utopia-what-would-a-womens-society-look-like/)

I do not know why, but i love finding the most crazy people i can and reading their tripe, I am currently on a search for the most crazy MRA I can find.

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Colour Scientist said:
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Firstly, she said that you can't be sexist against men, not that women can't be sexist.
I'm puzzled by the wording of this statement. Who else but women would be sexist against men? Are you saying that the possible scenario is men being sexist against men? I mean there are only 2 genders, so if it's possible to be sexist against men, which you and I seem to agree is possible, then it's kind of implied that it would be women being sexist against men. Sure I guess it's possible to have a person of the same gender being sexist against their own gender, but that seems to be a rare scenario compared to the culprit being of the opposite gender. Historically, people who act negatively against a specific group, either of race or gender or whatever, are from outside that specific group. So if it is possible for women to be sexist, then it's pretty likely they would be sexist against men. Your two statements seem mutually exclusive.
Careful bro, you are opening up a whole different can of worms with statements like "there are only two genders" have you seen facebook recently? I tried making a poll on here once with xx and xy being the options and got my head bitten off for excluding people.
 

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I am in the army right now. Every female I see is either not a soldier or has a higher grade than me. Women in certain areas have it so easy she can't even imagine. Same thing can be said about men in other areas.

As for video games, if sexism against men doesn't exist, I expect her to explain to me how almost every male character in games today has a six pack and pecks that you can grind cheese on.
 

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katsabas said:
I am in the army right now. Every female I see is either not a soldier or has a higher grade than me. Women in certain areas have it so easy she can't even imagine. Same thing can be said about men in other areas.

As for video games, if sexism against men doesn't exist, I expect her to explain to me how almost every male character in games today has a six pack and pecks that you can grind cheese on.
Male power fantasy, I wish i could grind cheese on my nipples. Although i doubt i would eat it afterward. Also, grinding cheese as a concept intrigues me what would you grind it into, perhaps a different type of cheese?
 

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Reasonable Atheist said:
katsabas said:
I am in the army right now. Every female I see is either not a soldier or has a higher grade than me. Women in certain areas have it so easy she can't even imagine. Same thing can be said about men in other areas.

As for video games, if sexism against men doesn't exist, I expect her to explain to me how almost every male character in games today has a six pack and pecks that you can grind cheese on.
Male power fantasy, I wish i could grind cheese on my nipples. Although i doubt i would eat it afterward. Also, grinding cheese as a concept intrigues me what would you grind it into, perhaps a different type of cheese?
Powdered cheese that you can sprinkle on top of certain meals.

But yeah, the men in those games are male fantasies, the same way the women in those games tend to be male fantasies of a different type.
 

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thaluikhain said:
Reasonable Atheist said:
katsabas said:
I am in the army right now. Every female I see is either not a soldier or has a higher grade than me. Women in certain areas have it so easy she can't even imagine. Same thing can be said about men in other areas.

As for video games, if sexism against men doesn't exist, I expect her to explain to me how almost every male character in games today has a six pack and pecks that you can grind cheese on.
Male power fantasy, I wish i could grind cheese on my nipples. Although i doubt i would eat it afterward. Also, grinding cheese as a concept intrigues me what would you grind it into, perhaps a different type of cheese?
Powdered cheese that you can sprinkle on top of certain meals.

But yeah, the men in those games are male fantasies, the same way the women in those games tend to be male fantasies of a different type.
To be fair my best friend Elyse loves it when their are shirtless ripped men in her games.... but she also loves it when their are big wacky titties in her games. So there is that.
 

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Reasonable Atheist said:
Male power fantasy, I wish i could grind cheese on my nipples. Although i doubt i would eat it afterward. Also, grinding cheese as a concept intrigues me what would you grind it into, perhaps a different type of cheese?
Thought that was the basic result after using a cheese grater.
 

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WhiteNachos said:
If calling someone a tar baby is racist than so is calling someone mayonaisse boy. Arguing that it's not racist because it's not as bad as getting murdered is like saying "a broken arm is no big deal, I knew a guy who had his legs bitten off by a shark".
First off, that particular tweet, which I posted mostly because it was funny, was a guy talking about Ferguson saying that, and this is a direct quote, "black people are the most racist of all" because someone called him names. He was directly comparing being murdered to being made fun of and concluding that he had it worse.

Second, the concept you are referring to is known as the fallacy of relative privation [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fallacy_of_relative_privation], and it doesn't really apply here. An example of the fallacy would be telling a man who was sexually assaulted by a woman to stop whining because that kind of thing happens to women all the time. It is not an example of the fallacy to devote more resources to protecting women than men, when women are statistically at greater risk. Here's a fun illustration:

Anyway Margaret Atwood doesn't have a clue what she's talking about

You ever heard the expression "don't stick your dick in crazy"? The meaning is that if you have a relationship/sex with a crazy woman she can cause serious damage to your life. People worry about getting in touch with a crazy women for more than just being insulted.

I actually feared for my life once when dealing with a woman.
Context. It's not that men never fear women, but in general, what is your biggest worry when, say, meeting someone you found through an online dating site in person for the first time? For a man, it's usually that he'll be embarrassed or she'll reject him. For a woman, it's usually that he might rape or murder her.
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And if that's not good enough how about the draft? It's institutionalized sexism that hurts men.
Name one man born after 1960 who was actually drafted into the US military. If it really hurts men, I'm sure you can find some men born in the past half century that it actually hurts.
 

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Zeconte said:
So, basically, Anita supports the idea that gender-based prejudice/discrimination is not the same thing as sexism, which, she argues, is gender-based prejudice/discrimination plus the power to enforce it, and that somehow means that she doesn't believe gender-based prejudice/discrimination can exist against men, simply because you choose to take sexism to mean gender-based prejudice/discrimination?

You are basically saying "what she is saying is wrong and offensive based on my definition of the word she used, even though she just stated that she is using a different definition of the word and in no way stated she would agree with her statement while using the same definition I chose to use in place of her's."
Even if we used her definition of the word, she'd still be wrong.

Under her definition a men only draft is sexism against men, the fact that men get longer sentences than women for the same crimes is sexism against men. Airlines having policies where they won't sit unaccompanied children next to men for fear of being pedophiles is sexism against men. If a woman boss targeted their male employees that would be sexism against men.


It doesn't help that her definition of the word is objectively wrong.
 

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katsabas said:
Reasonable Atheist said:
Male power fantasy, I wish i could grind cheese on my nipples. Although i doubt i would eat it afterward. Also, grinding cheese as a concept intrigues me what would you grind it into, perhaps a different type of cheese?
Thought that was the basic result after using a cheese grater.
I guess in my mind grinding and grating are very different activities.
 

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If calling someone a tar baby is racist than so is calling someone mayonaisse boy. Arguing that it's not racist because it's not as bad as getting murdered is like saying "a broken arm is no big deal, I knew a guy who had his legs bitten off by a shark".
First off, that particular tweet, which I posted mostly because it was funny, was a guy talking about Ferguson saying that, and this is a direct quote, "black people are the most racist of all" because someone called him names. He was directly comparing being murdered to being made fun of and concluding that he had it worse.

Second, the concept you are referring to is known as the fallacy of relative privation [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fallacy_of_relative_privation], and it doesn't really apply here. An example of the fallacy would be telling a man who was sexually assaulted by a woman to stop whining because that kind of thing happens to women all the time. It is not an example of the fallacy to devote more resources to protecting women than men, when women are statistically at greater risk. Here's a fun illustration:
I thought you were trying to argue that being called mayonnaise boy isn't racism because sometimes black people get murdered for being black. I think I might've been mistaken so I apologize.

Anyway Margaret Atwood doesn't have a clue what she's talking about

You ever heard the expression "don't stick your dick in crazy"? The meaning is that if you have a relationship/sex with a crazy woman she can cause serious damage to your life. People worry about getting in touch with a crazy women for more than just being insulted.

I actually feared for my life once when dealing with a woman.
Context. It's not that men never fear women, but in general, what is your biggest worry when, say, meeting someone you found through an online dating site in person for the first time? For a man, it's usually that he'll be embarrassed or she'll reject him. For a woman, it's usually that he might rape or murder her.
WhiteNachos said:
And if that's not good enough how about the draft? It's institutionalized sexism that hurts men.
Name one man born after 1960 who was actually drafted into the US military. If it really hurts men, I'm sure you can find some men born in the past half century that it actually hurts.
Not the point, she said sexism against men is impossible and yet the US has had a men only draft since at least the civil war. Wouldn't the men who've been forced to go to war over the years be victims of institutionalized sexism?
 

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thaluikhain said:
As mentioned last time this came up here, she is very clearly talking about institutionalised sexism. Yes, she's having trouble expressing a complicated issue inside the confines of twitter.
As irked as I was on a first reading? Whatever. I'll concede the point and give the benefit of the doubt due to how forcefully truncated the medium is.
Anita meant what she said. Look at some subsequent posts

https://twitter.com/femfreq/status/533771760873635840
https://twitter.com/femfreq/status/533460936431271937
https://twitter.com/femfreq/status/533768948185972736
 

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Entitled said:
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One of my mates was on a short domestic flight and the way the tickets/seating worked out he was placed next to an unaccompanied child.

My mate (male btw) was forced to move from his seat coz rules on that airline apparently say men cant be seated next to unacommpanied children.

Perfectly fine for women to be put next to said children tho.
Yeah, that's a good example of men being hurt by patriarchal stereotypes
How the hell is "men are pedophiles" a patriarchal stereotype?
 

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WhiteNachos said:
Entitled said:
Balimaar said:
One of my mates was on a short domestic flight and the way the tickets/seating worked out he was placed next to an unaccompanied child.

My mate (male btw) was forced to move from his seat coz rules on that airline apparently say men cant be seated next to unacommpanied children.

Perfectly fine for women to be put next to said children tho.
Yeah, that's a good example of men being hurt by patriarchal stereotypes
How the hell is "men are pedophiles" a patriarchal stereotype?
Not so much "men are pedophiles" as it is "men are rapists."
 

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That's actually an anti-feminist argument, as it poses that women have no power. They may not have equal power, but to claim that they have no power undermines key feminist theory
 

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Nobuoa Schniell said:
WhiteNachos said:
Entitled said:
Balimaar said:
One of my mates was on a short domestic flight and the way the tickets/seating worked out he was placed next to an unaccompanied child.

My mate (male btw) was forced to move from his seat coz rules on that airline apparently say men cant be seated next to unacommpanied children.

Perfectly fine for women to be put next to said children tho.
Yeah, that's a good example of men being hurt by patriarchal stereotypes
How the hell is "men are pedophiles" a patriarchal stereotype?
Not so much "men are pedophiles" as it is "men are rapists."
Well, "women are better suited to things involving children" as well.
 

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thaluikhain said:
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katsabas said:
I am in the army right now. Every female I see is either not a soldier or has a higher grade than me. Women in certain areas have it so easy she can't even imagine. Same thing can be said about men in other areas.

As for video games, if sexism against men doesn't exist, I expect her to explain to me how almost every male character in games today has a six pack and pecks that you can grind cheese on.
Male power fantasy, I wish i could grind cheese on my nipples. Although i doubt i would eat it afterward. Also, grinding cheese as a concept intrigues me what would you grind it into, perhaps a different type of cheese?
Powdered cheese that you can sprinkle on top of certain meals.

But yeah, the men in those games are male fantasies, the same way the women in those games tend to be male fantasies of a different type.
You know, I've always wondered why it is that we have specifically locked down what a male power fantasy and a male sex fantasy look like... but whenever someone tries to do the same with women, nobody is able to agree.