Are you single or not ?

[SinisterDeath]

And I still think back to that, nearly 2 years later. Even though it's just some high school mistake that will have no bearing on the rest of my life, I still think about it, among many other high school mistakes that are long over with that I still don't live down. I still have the picture of me and her just sitting together smiling (Even if I do exhibit horrible hover-hand) It's probably the happiest I have ever been in a picture. I still look at it from time to time, yup I'm just that pathetic. But hey, it's not all bad! At least I'm pretty good at Java Programming!

Sorry for the off topic but I saw some other people telling their stories of 'crushes' but I didn't realise the story would be this long.

(Waiting for this story to end up of some cringe site or page lol)

Tomorrow is Thursday.
If she's still on your facebook, and listed as 'single', throw the picture up on facebook for 'throwback thursday'. (group it in with a bunch of other unrelated pictures from back then.).
You'd be surprised what can happen as something as innocent as that.

 

[Roxas1359]

Never had a girlfriend before, never had a first kiss, etc.
As a result, it's only led to me being bullied because of it from some former friends. I'd try dating again, but I'm so paranoid that I believe I'll never stand a chance. So instead, I'll just wallow away with video games.

 

[clippen05]

And I still think back to that, nearly 2 years later. Even though it's just some high school mistake that will have no bearing on the rest of my life, I still think about it, among many other high school mistakes that are long over with that I still don't live down. I still have the picture of me and her just sitting together smiling (Even if I do exhibit horrible hover-hand) It's probably the happiest I have ever been in a picture. I still look at it from time to time, yup I'm just that pathetic. But hey, it's not all bad! At least I'm pretty good at Java Programming!

Sorry for the off topic but I saw some other people telling their stories of 'crushes' but I didn't realise the story would be this long.

(Waiting for this story to end up of some cringe site or page lol)

Tomorrow is Thursday.
If she's still on your facebook, and listed as 'single', throw the picture up on facebook for 'throwback thursday'. (group it in with a bunch of other unrelated pictures from back then.).
You'd be surprised what can happen as something as innocent as that.

That's a really good idea! Unfortunately for me, she and the sophomore she took to prom are still going steady 2 years later... at least that's what I thought. She used to have her relationship status set with that guy, but upon checking its now not set to anything. But it never showed her changing it when I checked life events and what not (Feel kind of bad stalking but oh well) That leads me to believe it was some Facebook change in how they contain information in the 'about' page, but I digress. Considering that they are still together in pictures and whatnot as of relatively recently, I'm assuming they are still together. It really doesn't surprise me, as I know her at least a little and I know the lad who she's with and it wouldn't surprise me if they ended up married together based on their personalities and what not. Good that she's happy, I suppose.

But maybe I will do anyway, just under the veil of putting up some old photos. Worst that could happen is nothing big really, best case scenario could be a pleasant surprise

 

[A_Parked_Car]

I am 23 years old and single. I have never had a relationship and no girl has ever shown interest in me. I don't blame them to be honest. I'm nothing special.

 

[GrumbleGrump]

Single. I'm just too cool for school.

 

[Artina89]

I have been single for about 4 years and that is how I like it. I think I am a tad too selfish for a relationship, I tend to be rather self centered at times.

 

[Scarim Coral]

I'm single and chances are, I will be forever alone.

 

[Frothy Gibblets]

27. Last interaction that could be considered a relationship was 9 years ago, and that was for the most part long distance. Less than zero self confidence wil do that to you.

I work in a virtually all male environment, where I can be away for weeks at a time. I won't meet anyone via friends as the few I have are loved up and don't really have friends outside "the group" so no new blood can come in, because they are loved up they never want to go out anymore either. Online dating doesn't work as I'm roughly a 5/10.

Not making excuses or blaming other people/the world. I've brought my problems on myself and it's up to me to change them if I can. If I'm too weak to then I probably deserve to remain in the situation I'm in anyway.

 

[Dizchu]

Never had a girlfriend but was close to several girls around 2011-2013. You could call it platonic polyamory. Nothing really happened beyond intimate hugs and kisses though.

I guess there's several factors for this. I'm transgender, have very low self-esteem, body dysmorphia, have never really been social on a regular basis apart from the first year of university, live too far away from anyone I've shared affection with... not sure if it's me being unfortunate or me being completely incompetent haha.

I don't think I'm "ugly". I can make myself look moderately attractive but that's when I'm using makeup and hair styling to combat my masculine physical attributes. It gets very tiring, not something I could do on a daily basis.

It doesn't really bother me much anymore though. I treat relationships like climbing a mountain or going into space. The end result might be spectacular but personally I don't have the patience and dedication to do it.

I hope everyone's relationships are going well though!

 

[Yossarian1507]

24 and single. Been in a relationship once, 5 years ago, for 2 weeks. It was messy.

Since then I walked the "fuck bitches (not literally), get money" route, and was happy with it for some time. Lately I decided to change something about my relationship status, but attempts so far range from "good try, but still not there", to hilariously wrong, when after a long talk with a girl, I somehow managed to convince her to return to her ex-boyfriend. "I'm a good listener" as she said... And so did 3 other people from my circle of friends in the past 2 weeks (although sometimes on a completely unrelated topic). It seems I'm slowly becoming "that guy", who gives perfect relationship advices, yet cannot follow any of them himself. Kinda annoying, really...

 

[Bat Vader]

Single for the last 26 going on 27 years soon. I see no point in attempting to stop being single either. Love my personal free time and I hate the idea of having to share or halve it with/for someone else.

 

[TheYellowCellPhone]

I'm single, have always been single, not looking to change that, not salty at that either.

It is what it is, and I'm alright with that.

 

[Poetic Nova]

I'm single, and after the disastrous relationships I had, I'm glad about this aswell. Considering the changes that possibly will happen I'm not looking to change this status for the next 2 years or so.

 

[Blow_Pop]

happily being single since I haven't had very many healthy relationships.

Also, working through my own issues so I'm too busy with that to be in a relationship.

 

[Secondhand Revenant]

Happily in a relationship! Quite pleased. My thoughts on relationships were "If I find someone I like cool." And I found someone I liked. And she pretty much felt the same way on relationships too. we were best friends first, talked incessantly, and started to like each other more than that. Neither of us are big on romantic stuff, both seem to think people should be able to be happy without a relationship, communicate pretty well, share the same weird sense of humor, generally enjoy the same media and games, respect each other etc. So pretty pleased since we're on the same page in a lot of ways

 

[aegix drakan_v1legacy]

Yep, been single since Late March 2014.

I'm mostly over it. It was pretty goddamn crushing for a while, though.

To be honest, though it might have been a good thing in the long run. It took me 6 months after the breakup to realize I had been living my whole life wrong (I was being a doormat, I realized). Since I had that realization, life has been getting SO much better.

I'm keeping my eyes open, talking to cool girls I meet at school and other places I hang out. We'll see what happens.

I'm not all that worried, to be honest. Finding someone who shares my interests and would want to start a relationship would be nice, but not essential.

....Besides, being single is cheaper. XD

 

[Z of the Na'vi]

I'm 24, single, and can't say I've been in any sort of "real" relationship. Sure, I had a couple of flirts back in junior high but I wouldn't really call that a "relationship" in the since of actually being committed to a single person.

I feel that I'm better off just not worrying about partnership. I'm good as is.

 

[sky14kemea]

I'm single, but I plan to stay single. I've been trying to figure out my sexuality for a long time now and I've discovered through lots of late night talks that I'm more than likely Asexual.

So it doesn't bother me too much that I've never dated. Honestly, I feel dating should happen if there's mutual interest from both parties and since I've never felt that kind of interest towards anyone, It'd be unfair of me to try dating someone anyway.

 

[Duster]

long distance relationship. Hope we close in before some sort of stress builds up :c

 

[Itdoesthatsometimes]

The last time I was a boyfriend was eleven years ago. I am in no hurry to ruin my streak.