Are you single or not ?

[Weaver]

I'm currently single.
If anyone in Southern Ontario wants to go on a date let me know

 

[Techno Squidgy]

20, currently single, currently hurting over unrequited love, but trying to move on. It'd be nice if she stopped telling me she loved me. I know she means platonic love, not romantic, but it doesn't make it hurt any less. It's all so horribly, horribly fucked. She's my best friend's ex, currently with one of my other friends, and my other best friend is also crazy about her. It's a no-win scenario for all of us. Except her apparently, everything seems to be working out just fine for her no matter how many of us get hurt. I don't know if she even realises the damage she's causing.

I'm just hoping to meet someone new that'll blast her out of my mind. It's probably going to take someone really special to do that though.

 

[SinisterDeath]

I?m surprised at how many sees a significant other (or more) as a time/money drain that only brings problems and restrictions. Like, "Sure, I'm single, but look at all this money I got!" How do you have more money when you're single? My finances were so much better when I lived with my previous partner because we were a two income couple instead of two one income people with separate bills. Is it the American dating culture that apparently demands you throw money at people you want to be with? I'm not sure I understand it.

It's less of an American thing and more self-delusion really...

The kind of relationships they are mostly talking about is less a committed, living together kind of situation, but more the dating-game situation before the fun of living together comes into play... (Though, that isn't to say the dating game doesn't extend into a committed relationship. And depending on the people involved, sometimes it would be cheaper living on there own.)

I've heard about/seen people in relationships, that seems to be all to common (and it crosses genders) where one person in the relationship would be burdened with all the bills; While the other is spending everything on themselves selfishly. (It happens. And again, applies to both genders!)

 

[proctorninja2]

Been happily in a relationship for over a month now, Its been really great

 

[Timberwolf0924]

Longest time I spent single was.. 12 years.. at age 13 I got me a girl friend, and have been with a girl ever since. Not same girl mind you. I have a 6 year old son, who I am currently not with his mother, and am dating a new girl for the past 4 months.

I don't mind being single, between current relationship and last one, it was like 10 months, I was good with that.

 

[SonOfAnarchy91]

Lonely,
I'm so lonely,
I have no body,
To call my owwwwwwwwwn,

23 been single 2 years now after breaking up with my ex-fiance who was cheating on me.

 

[Fappy]

Twenty-five. I've been with my current girlfriend for 3 1/2 years and will likely get engaged fall of next year.

She's the one!

 

[Kitsune Hunter]

20 years old and never had a girlfriend, never been kissed too and to be honest, getting really sick of it. Plus every time I asked out a girl, I always get turned down, every. single. time. And after getting sort of rejected (and indirectly virgin shamed) just last week, it got me pretty down. Although me and my friends plan on going out tomorrow, I doubt I'll meet anyone.

Yeah, when it comes to romance and love, I'm not a realist.

Glad I'm not the only one

 

[hazabaza1]

Single. Not doing much to progress that cause and I doubt I'm going to meet someone in say, my line of work.
Had what some might refer to as a girlfriend a couple years ago but looking back on it it never really felt like how other people see relationships, but I'm not really feeling the urge to go out and find someone.

 

[Spanglish Guy]

Sure, why not?
Twenty years old, never been in a relationship. Had a crush when I was eighteen, asked her out, she said no. There's my romantic history, look on my works ye mighty and despair.
I still have this Hollywood romance notion in my head that I'll one day find the one, I know there's no reason why it *has* to happen but hey, a guy can dream.

I am more or less in the same position as you are. I am 21 and have never been in a relationship. I have thought about it on occasion but I simply don't put myself in situations to maybe start one nor do I talk to many people in public anyway. I think I have an odd fear of rejection that extends to other things other than asking women out or whatever.

Anyway, I am personally to 'blame' for my situation. I am fine with it as it is but I know very well that I have never put in any effort towards starting a relationship.

 

[Bobbovski]

I'm single. Not really sure if I like it or not. I like the freedom and I'm not sure I really have the mentality to be so close to someone. But I do feel kind of lonely sometimes =/

I've only really had one real relationship and it ended really abrutly. And it has made me doubt my ability to even function in a relationship/find someone to be in a relationship with.

 

[deathwing2000]

Happily married, to a wonderful woman. Brelyna Maryon, former college of Winterhold student, current mage adventurer.

Oh god I'm so lonely.

OP- Single since birth. It's not that I've haven't been looking. I guess guys who are long haired, slightly effeminate, video game loving, comic reading nerds aren't that popular with the ladies (Probably doesn't help that most people seem to think I'm gay. And that I still can't talk to women) But still. Someone is out there and all that. If your intested, please call this number now!
0118-999-s0-l0nely



Please call.

 

[thewatergamer]

Single, always have been, would like to not be single but can't control what the opposite sex finds attractive so I guess I'll just keep waiting and maybe I'll meet a nice girl who likes me for who I am,

I can dream can't I?

 

[Hofstadter]

Been with a guy for just over two and a half years

 

[2012 Wont Happen]

Single. Not very motivate to change that for now and if I don't care much about something I'm not about to put in the effort. I'll have sex when its easy, but anything past that isn't so great to be worth the effort for me these days. I want to have a family and such at some point but that's not where my head or my behavior is at so far.

 

[Tsun Tzu]

Single for about a year and a half now after a six year relationship and...frankly? It's liberating as all hell not to have to worry about someone else and their wants or desires on a day to day basis.

I can do what I want, when I want. It's fascinating how much I forgot that I enjoyed that capability after spending 1/4 of my life in a situation I didn't fully want to be involved in.

Should really start looking into something again though. Ahm getting all old and stuff at 26. D:

 

[DayDark]

Currently living with the most wonderful girlfriend I've had. In the course of my life (27 years) I've had maybe 24 women, of which 7 have been girlfriends. I didn't really plan at all to be in a relationship right now, and I resisted for good while, but I can honestly say it is the best thing that could have happened to me.

 

[Phantom Kat]

Single and feeling like I'll die alone surrounded by cats.

 

[maninahat]

Married for five months, was in a relationship for four years before that.

 

[camazotz]

Status.....realizing I a too old after reading the last six pages. Is there a gaming site for old bastards like myself? Oh gods....

Married, third marriage, I was in the position most of the rest of the posters here are now before the frikkin internet was a thing.