Single for several years now. Pretty much have made peace with the idea that I'll be alone for the rest of my life.
Haha! Sorry man! I guess 40 is middle aged more literally speaking...Can you still bend down without grunting. Fact is. I'm too old, to be in this situation was more the point I'm driving at. 30+ isn't really anything close to 'young' anymore.Baffle said:30 isn't middle aged! Is it?Terria Mountain said:before I?m 30 thing.... before I?m properly into middle age
You've brought me down, man.
Is that what you did? How'd you rate it?Golan Trevize said:Stop wasting your time and do it already. And no, it's not depressing, your first time will be with a woman who looks gorgeous and knows what she is doing.Terria Mountain said:As for areas within my control: I?m weighing up the whole flying to Amsterdam and hiring a hooker before I?m 30 thing. I?d like to at least experience sex before I?m properly into middle age; and that looks the most probable option. It?s fucking depressing, and I doubt I?ll get more out of it than literally learning the sensation, but it looks like a reality for me. And my father?s surprised I harbour some resentment towards him for passing on his defective fucking genome! (He is smart enough to have predicted a lot of this). Denial, huh?
I'd say "hey, lets be friends!!!", but your profile says you're in Sheffield, and I'm in London. Long distance friendships are wack yo.Not The Bees said:Married for a little over a year. It's a weird sort of thing, because while I love my husband, we're also having some issues right now. Not enough to warrant any sort of break up, but enough to irritate me a lot. Mostly because he pretends there is nothing wrong at all, and I'm left to deal with all the troubles on my own.
Granted, no one probably wants to hear about this, but I figured, why not. He's a wonderful guy, and I wonder if it's because he's a scientist (neutron physics), and he just gets wrapped up in his work so he doesn't really pay any attention to anything outside of that, including myself and our marriage quite a bit.
As it is, I'm a stubborn son of a *****, so I'll keep working at it, so no plans to suddenly be single. Besides, we just moved to the UK, which is probably making it harder on me since I don't know anyone here and have no outside friends to just hang out with when I get frustrated with my husband. So maybe I'll eventually make some friends around here and that'll make it easier.