cobra_ky said:
Your first point to me just makes me laugh, "straight men
tend to have large sexual appetites.
this fact is not in dispute".
Prove that, I want you to prove that making yourself a really easy target, firting with guys only to turn them down (and the rest of what I have said) has nothing to do with the vast majority of cases, of course it does!
I don't drink but I know for a fact alcohol makes you do stupid things, while lowering your inhibitions so where there are drunk guys there will be drunk girls and since the vast majority of people get drunk on a weekend, there are going to be alot of rapes happening.
I am sure if you looked for a graph of rapes, the number of cases were the victim was drunk, at a weekend and at night would be higher than every other case.
1) Night = dark AKA cover, it also the time people are the most drunk and vunrable (stumbling home).
2)Alcohol lowers your inhibitions and slows your reaction times
3)Not alot of people get totally wasted during the week, due to work the next day.
4)showing everything you have to a guy just makes him want it more.
Come on, when was the last time you stared at a girl wearing a big thick coat and not the girl wearing a bikini? When you look at a women in a big thick coat you don't think anything of it, you see a girl in a bikini and you think "wow, yes please", you wouldn't rape her but sex definitely crossed your mind.
Thats all it takes, some drunk guy thinking "I want sex with her" followed by a stupid mistake or the guy thinking she was playing hard to get.
Like I said before though, not saying dress in over sized mens clothes. Just don't go out naked.
While I have never been to a strip club, I am pretty sure they obey a "they can touch you, you can't touch them" policy, in a club you can touch every girl there, so it's more sexually charged. They also have big hairy arsed bouncers dotted around the place and I assume the strippers leave after everybody else, sobre, then drive home and go to sleep. There not stumbling home pissed as a fart on there own.
I am also pretty sure they won't go home tits out, clear heels on and $1 bills sticking out of her thong, they will get dressed in normal day clothes and go home.
I never said it was a way of giving conscent, thats what I have been saying all along! Take preventitive measures against not getting raped! Both out fits are sexy, one covers up more and so is harder to rape, the other girls has her tits out and a mini skirt on, so I would bet out of the two the rapist is going for the easier and less covered up girl.
It's like if you look in a car and see a laptop on the seat, you think "one quick elbow and a short run and that is mine". If you put that in the boot (say the robber saw you put it there), it's much harder to get to, so it will take longer and do is not worth the risk.
There are classes for learning how to lower your chances of being raped, so there is a responsibility on there girl. Whether you like it or not some of the blame has to be placed at the girls feet, most is still on the guy though.