1. You could use the in-game currency auction house. No one is forcing you to use the real money AH. Also, why is it that you say that one of the most appealing aspects of the game is looking for loot, but then in number three, you say that you don't want to "grind the everling fuck out of the game to proceed"Rack said:The problem is there are no good options.
1) Spend extra money on items to be able to keep pace with other players. In doing so destroy one of the most appealing aspects of the game (looking for loot) and have the feeling of being gouged. Additionally make the game incredibly easy.
2) Refuse to spend the money and play multiplayer. Have absolutely no opportunity to affect the game in any way as other players deal 20x as much damage as you and have 20x as many hit points.
3) Play single player only. Put up with lag, the inability to pause or mod the game for absolutely no benefit. Occasionally need to grind the everliving fuck out of the game to proceed.
2. Again, you can always use the currency auction house. Or craft. That being said, multiplayer in Diablo 3 isn't going to be some meritocracy no matter what you do because of the nature of item drops in Diablo. Everyone is going to be using the AH and Crafting to get items they want because the chances of something you want dropping is abysmal.
3. You can pause single player. (http://us.battle.net/d3/en/forum/topic/4662478087). The reason why mods are out is because of the auction house and the multiplayer. Keeps people from abusing both systems. As for the lag...man I dunno, move somewhere with good internet. That's what I did.