DementedSheep said:
That is exactly what that means. Male ideal is generally centred around being a worthwhile human being. Female ideal is a sexual appealing to men and sexual appealing to men involves useless and outright crippling shit that takes away for any other values.
Most men in games don't even run armour in minimal armour. This game has maybe one guy who might count as attractive. Most aren't even human. If anything you get over armoured more often and it's the female version of armour that shows off a ton of skin. Even among your shirtless guys some are sexulized yes but its not that common in western and shit like Kratos, or axe wielding barbarians is less "fuck me" and more "look how physically intimidating I am". If they wanted him to be attractive he who be nicer looking and he would be posed differently.
There are plenty of traits that would make you a "worthwhile human being" which aren't typically masculine, like raising children or caring for the sick.
Also, I'm not claiming men are sexualised as much as women. I'm pretty sure the main point of my last post revolved around that difference in male/female depiction.
DementedSheep said:
"Other people do it so it's ok if we do it". Hmmm that excuse never seems to go down well with anything else and it funny how you can continuously pass the buck and blame everything on nebulas "culture" rather than your own actions in perpetuating that. I never said is was invented by video games but since I game and this a gaming form I'm unsurprising going to talk about game.
Our games don't exist in a vacuum so we should definitely talk about the wider context. I never said it "was OK" - in fact I actually said there are plenty of good reasons somebody might oppose stereotypes and tropes - I'm saying that content in games is a reflection of mainstream culture, so that's where we should look when we're trying to figure out why good=beautiful seems to only be a rule for women, or whether these depictions are harmful, and if it's something the majority have an issue with, etc etc.
DementedSheep said:
I'm not "demanding" anything. I'm just sick of people pretending that you're waifish girl sticking her ass and tits out in tights is equivalent to guy who looks like he can bench press a truck and any guy that is capable and heroic regardless of presented sexually. I don't even believe people genuinely can't see the difference between aspiring to be capable and being a good fuck toy and how one of those isn't exactly a great thing.
Profit makes it all ok dose it? cause I could sworn people complain about horrible business practices that are there to make a profit all the time.
Not to be rude but I actually don't understand a couple of those sentences due to missing words.
Anyway, when did I say a macho man and a sexualised woman are equivalent? I suppose we could say they're both unrealistic and exaggerated depictions of male and female bodies, but that's me pointing out a commonality, not claiming an equivalence.What I do think, though, is that the different ways men and women are portrayed in media (including games) is a reflection of the gender roles and gendered aspirational body images that exist, and have existed, in society long before video games, comic books, and all the other usual sexist bogeymen were created.
And no, I'm not saying profit makes it all OK. I'm saying that as long as a majority of gamers like (or at the very least, don't object to) masculinised men and feminised women, that's how games companies will continue to depict them in games. We're approaching the issue from the wrong direction if we view games companies as existing on some kind of hierarchy of morality - they're
amoral, they exist to make money by selling games, end of story. If they include a scantily-clad woman in a game, it's because they think it'll help that game sell to a certain demographic. If they include only modestly-dressed women with sensible proportions in a game, that's because they think that this will be profitable by appealing to a different demographic. Any argument that focuses on agonising over
why boobplate exists or whether it's
offensive to depict women as more sexualised than their male counterparts is just academic beard-stroking. You want change? Appeal to developer's wallets. You could get them to make a game where the protagonist is a black lesbian in a wheelchair, if only they were convinced that a market existed for it.
Don't mistake my explanation of the status quo for a defence of it. I'm not saying things are perfect.