Uhura said:
Are you sure she would have stayed in the bus if he had threatened to call the cops? You don't think she might have tried to escape? Even if that plan hadn't worked it would have been wise to even try it. Stop the bus and call the cops and see if she leaves or calms down. I don't understand why this suggestion seems to be so controversial.
You`re point is too hypothetical to argue against effectively. By the same way that you say, "call the cops and see if she calms down" I could throw in, "what if she doesn't calm down?, what if she pulled out a gun or knife, what if she hit him to a point where he lost control of the bus?"
You can't keep arguing this by throwing what ifs, what he should've dones, and hypothetical reactions that you have no way of predicting as points. It just becomes an everlasting debate where you keep pulling out more possible outcomes that
did not happen.
I'm not here cheering for the driver either, but to say that what he did was excessive ignore a a bunch of things that me and you don't know about him. To be honest, being a bus driver is a shitty job. The driver had that job for over 22 years. This more than likely isn't the first time someone has:
a)tried to get on the bus with no money
b)threatened him with violence
c) assaulted him while he was driving
d)treated him like crap simply because he's a public servant
22 years of that is more than most of us can handle. He quite honestly may have had enough. He was 59 years old and to our knowledge has no history of uppercutting passengers before. He may have had to forcibly remove erratic passengers before.
You're saying what he did was excessive. I'm saying what he did was understandable looking at him as one human being to another. I'm not justifying what he did, but I refuse to hold him up to some standard of a paragon human being that would have calmly dealt with this situation. He got angry and finally unleashed on someone. But he hit her
once. He didn't stomp her guts out. Then threw her off the bus. That's what happened. And I can guarantee we would not be having this debate if he had slugged a 25 year old man in the exact same manner. Hell, with the mainstream media and PC attitude that we have in Canada/The States, him simply throwing her off the bus would have been seen as bad due to him being a bigger man. There was next to no way he could win this by himself and look good. Now if one of the passengers had called the cops and let the driver know that, then to be honest, you'd have a point with waiting for police. The fact of the matter is that him calmly restraining her after he spits on and grabs his throat to go for a punch, while he's driving a bus, is severely unrealistic.
And please, no more hypothetical points. Its kind of portentous no offense, as it implies that you know the situation better than those involved to such a point that you knew better. You don't, and won't. It also assumes that any person can carry a calm attitude while getting yelled at, spit on, and assaulted while a job that requires keeping dozens of people safe. Unrealistic. He paid the price for what he did with his job. If he were in a rational situation at all, he'd still be driving that bus to this day, but what happened to him isn't a sexism issue, a race issue, or an excessive violence issue. It was an issue between 2 people that got shown to the world. Both did something wrong, but its way easier to sympathize with the driver on this one. He had the class to not press charges after all of this. The police saw the tape and arrested the erratic person right away. They didn't see what he did as excessive force. They saw it as what most of us did. A guy who was pissed off had had enough. Charging him for that would have been an issue.