This is also a really shitty thing that guys do, btw.Adultism said:But don't always assume that all guys are like that. Its just like how we sometimes judge certain women who look like they put out much. But some guys don't do that often.
This is also a really shitty thing that guys do, btw.Adultism said:But don't always assume that all guys are like that. Its just like how we sometimes judge certain women who look like they put out much. But some guys don't do that often.
There are a lot of shitty things guys do, and there's an equal amount of shitty things girls do.cobra_ky said:This is also a really shitty thing that guys do, btw.Adultism said:But don't always assume that all guys are like that. Its just like how we sometimes judge certain women who look like they put out much. But some guys don't do that often.
If you're only doing it to pursue a relationship then yeah, no.blackrave said:Eventually I realized that she simply seeks someone to dump her emotions on
That's why status of "The Nice Guy" isn't worth it
Not necessarily bad decisions if one decision leads to both the higher ups and lower downs. It becomes a choice then, depending on your preferences which you're more inclined towards.Jimbo1212 said:True, but all that means is that these people make bad decisions due to the volatile emotional state. That is a reason, but not a justification.
Yeah that's true, one of the difficulties in this discussion is differentiating between nice guys and "Nice Guys".Jimbo1212 said:Here is the issue;
Many guys I know who call themselves "nice guys" are utter tramps and as you say, live on the moto of letting themselves go as they are a "nice guy".
But they are not "nice guys". They are immature and some what weak, and these are the type of people I am specifically not talking about.
When I say someone is a nice guy, I mean just that; a guy who is friendly, intelligent, average to good looking, fashionable, in shape etc - a nice guy.
How fat women have stolen the word "curvy" to now describe being fat, pussies have stolen the phrase "nice guy".
At it's core, it goes back to wanting someone who's strong and dominant to have kids with and someone who's reliable to settle down with.Jimbo1212 said:Ok, what is the difference in purpose? This is what I don't understand.
What I look for in a gf is someone who is attractive, ambitious, nice etc. This never changes. I don't change what I want or have different types.
So how does bf material differ from marriage material?
Yes there is and it will always end the same. That being the us.vs.them mentality. So they can hate someone and something without trying to fix the said problem. Complaining about the problem and not searching for a solution.Grey Day for Elcia said:Isn't there a thread about this exact topic every week?
Ugh.
The worst part is the self described "nice guys" basically say this in every thread: "I was nice to her and she won't let me have sex with her. I wasted my time." You ever seen a supposed nice guy actually behave like a real friend? Lol.Ace Verret said:Yes there is and it will always end the same. That being the us.vs.them mentality. So they can hate someone and something without trying to fix the said problem. Complaining about the problem and not searching for a solution.Grey Day for Elcia said:Isn't there a thread about this exact topic every week?
Ugh.
I say let them complain, let them whine, let them think they are in the right. Why because they will eventually be forced to learn. What they learn is up for interpretation. If they don't learn. Good, they will die alone.Grey Day for Elcia said:The worst part is the self described "nice guys" basically say this in every thread: "I was nice to her and she won't let me have sex with her. I wasted my time." You ever seen a supposed nice guy actually behave like a real friend? Lol.Ace Verret said:Yes there is and it will always end the same. That being the us.vs.them mentality. So they can hate someone and something without trying to fix the said problem. Complaining about the problem and not searching for a solution.Grey Day for Elcia said:Isn't there a thread about this exact topic every week?
Ugh.
It's not worth it even if you pursue her happinesstobyornottoby said:If you're only doing it to pursue a relationship then yeah, no.blackrave said:Eventually I realized that she simply seeks someone to dump her emotions on
That's why status of "The Nice Guy" isn't worth it