Echo3Delta said:
Blah de blah de blah.... And, OP, that's why most of them love Twilight.
Hmm, I was wondering when this viewpoint would deign to rear its ugly head. Frankly I was expecting it much sooner, although perhaps no one thought to bring it up because it was the product of inherently flawed reasoning.
Edward is a male who ignores his own animalistic urges (whether sexual or vampiric), and places Bella's safety, happiness, wants, needs, above his own, and asks nothing in return. But see, that's not really love now, is it? A successful, healthy relationship is about give and take. 50/50. You talk about Edward's sacrifices proving his love, but what does she do for him in return? Nothing. So either Bella doesn't love Edward, or your definition of "love" is in need of refinement.
See, what women want is this: they want a handsome, non-threatening man who will unconditionally love them no matter what they look like, and do whatever they ask without being expected to make any sacrifices in return. At least that's the message that Twilight sends, which I am becoming increasingly inclined to agree with considering its popularity. In practice though, its not drastically different from what men conceptually want in a woman.*
-Dread_Reaper
*Now I know some of you jerk offs are going to argue that you specifically want something different, or your relationship is different, yakety yakety yak, but understand I'm speaking in base concepts here, so don't bother to argue with me over trivialities.
P.S. And by the way, sexually secure people generally WANT to have sex, whether they're male or female. Its human nature. I don't completely agree with the OP on this point but I think you're being unnecessarily harsh calling him ignorant.