Dear Escapist...help.
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Don't panic, and read this - I have answered your question in the Relationship Problem Thread (not that you really HAVE a problem on your hands here), which is at the following link: ----> http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161?page=17#4182402Daveman said:
Not to be a dick....but, was she inhebriated?
Not saying you are unable to have done this, it's just that this is a common thing to happen to people who have known each other for a long time and never crossed a certain boundry.... then alchohol is introduced.
Just be your usual self.
Not saying you are unable to have done this, it's just that this is a common thing to happen to people who have known each other for a long time and never crossed a certain boundry.... then alchohol is introduced.
Just be your usual self.
Well OP, if you like her, and it seems she likes you, then i would recommend texting her, or maybe just chatting to her on MSN. It will probably be worth seeing if she brings up what happend that night before you do, thats a good test to see if she wants a relationship. If she doesn't, then you should bring it up and get her to talk about how she feels about it. If her feelings are positive, ask her out.
Prior to all that, cool your head. Eat some food, play a video game or something, once youve calmed yourself, talk to her.
Edit: poster above me raises a good point, if she was pissed out of her head, ask her if she remembers what happend last night. If she does, then you can raise the fact you and her pulled.
Prior to all that, cool your head. Eat some food, play a video game or something, once youve calmed yourself, talk to her.
Edit: poster above me raises a good point, if she was pissed out of her head, ask her if she remembers what happend last night. If she does, then you can raise the fact you and her pulled.
well, you could ignore it and let it bubble under the surface until it erupts into a passive-aggressive mess that just leaves both of you alienated and annoyed at each other.
Or, you know, you could call her. Ask her out. This will come up (at least, it should) and you'll do the smart thing, be honest, and tell her you damn well enjoyed yourself.
Or, you know, you could call her. Ask her out. This will come up (at least, it should) and you'll do the smart thing, be honest, and tell her you damn well enjoyed yourself.
*sigh* I agree with some of the comments here, you're coming to a closet full of nerds... for girl troubles. Good luck sonny boy.
Being a girl I would say wait for a moment where you're both in a good mood (preferably laughing over somthing funny) be smooth and ask her if she'd ever consider being with you.
If no, the easy escape is to continue laughing over other funny things, if yes, well... grats.
Don't do anything over a computer or phone, I just want to smack guys who do that.
Being a girl I would say wait for a moment where you're both in a good mood (preferably laughing over somthing funny) be smooth and ask her if she'd ever consider being with you.
If no, the easy escape is to continue laughing over other funny things, if yes, well... grats.
Don't do anything over a computer or phone, I just want to smack guys who do that.
Who initiated said 'pulling'? If it was the lass in question just text her saying something simple like "hey, hows the hangover?" just to initiate a convo (you should do this anyway even if you initiated it). Generally people don't want to meet up the day after the night before, but you can always drop some hints like you need to go into town today to get some things for christmas. And if she says "oh i'll keep you company" then catch a goat, my friend, you've pulled.
You've been crushing on her for FIVE YEARS? Man, you've obviously not tried getting with her at all, or she's not been interested at all. If it's the last one, she was drunk and DO NOT call her.
lol wow, i have NFI and to be honest i doubt ne1 on this forum will know better 
mabey you could google it or something?
mabey you could google it or something?
Because the people on here don't go "scr3w ya, hw dar you gots a gal tha's mebby inta ye".rokkolpo said:
We just say "fly to the moon and lay out enough rocks to spell 'I love you.'"
Calm down or you'll fuck it up. If the situation's right (if she reciprocates) you can tell her how strongly you feel, but you must do it calmly.
The best (and hardest) thing to do is to remember that line about the fish, even if it seems like total bullshit right now.
Spoiler: it's not!
The best (and hardest) thing to do is to remember that line about the fish, even if it seems like total bullshit right now.
Spoiler: it's not!
You know, sobriety doesn't cause problems like this.
Unless you were sober, in which case...well hm. This sounds like a bad situation waiting to happen, but find some closure or you'll go mad. Confront her, or if you can hold out, wait for her to confront you.
Unless you were sober, in which case...well hm. This sounds like a bad situation waiting to happen, but find some closure or you'll go mad. Confront her, or if you can hold out, wait for her to confront you.
If you have her number text her, Something like 'Hi did u have a gud time last nyt?'
Dont just jump in with the 'OMG i luv u'
Dont just jump in with the 'OMG i luv u'