Dear Escapist...help.

[Kaboose the Moose]

So anyway, I went out with friends last night and pulled (clearly my language is alien to many people so this means "kissed for a long period of time"... with tongue) the girl I've been crushing on for like the past 5 years. HELP. I'm in a state of shock and can't even think. wtf do I do? (Ican't believe I ended up doing one of these)

PLEASE do not give they generic "tell her how you feel" crap, be imaginative.

Umm..

...

OK.I got one!.

Step 1: Abduct her.

Step 2: Take her to Paris, France

Step 3: Hire the French aerobatics team

Step 4: With your remaining coins and beads pay the French aerobatics team to spell out your feelings in the Parisian sky.

Step 5: Get laid!.

 

[caprisun]

ha americans have no idea what pulled means. like its pretty simple, like just txt her or whatever, maybe dont b too direct if ya dont want but maybe try and steer the conversation towards what happened, like see how she feels about it.

 

[rokkolpo]

again......why do people come to the escapist for girl-counseling.

Because the people on here don't go "scr3w ya, hw dar you gots a gal tha's mebby inta ye".
We just say "fly to the moon and lay out enough rocks to spell 'I love you.'"

alright, fair enough

 

[Hookman]

Wow,most people have a problem iniatiating the kiss in the first place,you've already got it and still you whine?!

 

[Daveman]

Wow,most people have a problem iniatiating the kiss in the first place,you've already got it and still you whine?!

welcome to the internet, it's what we do best.

 

[Trivun]

So anyway, I went out with friends last night and pulled (clearly my language is alien to many people so this means "kissed for a long period of time"... with tongue) the girl I've been crushing on for like the past 5 years. HELP. I'm in a state of shock and can't even think. wtf do I do? (Ican't believe I ended up doing one of these)

PLEASE do not give they generic "tell her how you feel" crap, be imaginative.

edit: ok, just got my phone, I may have sent her some soppy desperate sounding texts while drunk last night... *facedesk*

Things my have happened because you were drunk, but in my experience often alcohol can help people end up doing things they may have wanted to for a long time. For example, one of my housemates has often shown 'affection' (nudge nudge) for me in the past when we've had a drink. However, she never does when sober. People who know us both have hypothesised that she isn't as drunk as she pretends when this happens.

On the other hand, she and you may well have been completely off your faces. Last time I went out, another housemate of mine spent half the night kissing a mutual friend of ours who he previously said several times was pretty ugly and he wouldn't ever fancy her. So when drunk, mistakes can happen.

I realise I'm not exactly being much help. I suggest you talk to her, while you're both sober, and discuss what happened. If it did mean anything, then go for it and good luck to you both. If not, then by talking about it with her you can clear the air and get things in the open, then hopefully both forget about it. Either way, good luck, and in this case, honesty really is the best policy.

 

[messy]

edit: ok, just got my phone, I may have sent her some soppy desperate sounding texts while drunk last night... *facedesk*

Spoiler: don't worry even the Arctic Monkeys have done that

I'd just ask her if she wants to hang out with you down town or something at some point.

Although the text may have destroyed you; I'd advice apologising for it and to make it up to her suggest that you take her out somewhere (worked for me)

 

[Pimppeter2]

I don't see a problem in this thread.

You made out with a girl you like?

 

[Skuffyshootster]

You should be lucky that you got to make out with her in the first place.

But if it really is bothering you, try getting drunk, and if it's still bothering you, move to Mexico.

And if the above two options fail, you could always try asking her to a movie.

 

[WrongSprite]

again......why do people come to the escapist for girl-counseling.

It's free advice, with none of your real friends knowing about it.

The perfect alibi.

 

[TheRightToArmBears]

Talk to her about last night, but pretend you were too drunk to remember what happened.

 

[gunningyoudown]

What im getting is you didnt enjoy her because your asking us. if you want help do this
first DO NOT remind her again and again about your Activity's you two did. (just make it sound like all you want from her is to get laid)
1. call her up and talk (ABOUT ANYTHING)
2.ask her out on a date (cheep as possible but make it nice (something like olive garden)for the first date)
3.when home think about the night and ask "did i really enjoy myself?" and think if you want to continue the relationship
if not
4.see what happens

 

[Shru1kan]

Oh if shes drunk ask circuitous questions that will bring it up if she wants to talk about it.

If she was drunk too, it might not mean it was a bad thing, maybe she just needed help to let go of some inhibition or complex concerning you.

And DON'T pretend to not remember what happened. If she meant it as a sign but was scared in the first place about trying to show or tell you, she might lose all nerve and move on.



You made your bed, now lie in it.

 

[SmartIdiot]

Instead of going on a rant about how the OP basically just asked everyone to tell him what he wants to hear/read (don't deny it, you did). I think that this sums up what I was going to say nicely:

Agressive creativity
- Grow some balls

Perverted creativity
- Slip it to her

Realistic creativity
- Forget it

NEXT!

 

[magnuslion]

well that depends. assuming she has a high level of aggro, you might want to feign death. if you dont happen to be a monk or rouge, you might have the groups tank taunt her. If you are the groups tank, suck it up, thats what you get for pulling before you had gotten all your buffs.

((looks off camera as someone yells at him))

ohhh....errr....talking about an actual girl. well then most of my advice would sound generic but you prolly dont want to hide your feelings for her. write a neat poem or somewhat, such as:

roses are red
I like sporks
you're really hot
I've been a dork.

((sorry, couldnt think of anything that rhymes with sporks))

 

[Daveman]

Instead of going on a rant about how the OP basically just asked everyone to tell him what he wants to hear/read (don't deny it, you did).

actually you're probably right, I think I know what I have to do, I'm just very very cowardly and reassurance is what I need, so in a way this still helps. very insightful of you.

 

[Julianking93]

Um...ask her out?

 

[The Austin]

.......Take her on a date dude. Its no biggy.

 

[-Orgasmatron-]

Have a wank while thinking about it.

Seriously though, what's the big deal? You kissed a girl and you liked it? You're not gay, congrats?

 

[President Moocow]

Just calm the fuck down, call her and see her again. Ignore any advice along the lines of "you need to do specifically this or you need to go to this place, etc..." and don't memorize some witty "line" to call her with. That kind of stuff is stressful, bullshit and especially unhelpful here! None of it matter!

Just go for it and see what happens. Nothing more, nothing less.