erttheking said:
Yeah they might have, but let me ask you a question. Did they go under the knife so that they would feel more powerful, or so that men would think that they were more attractive? I don't know them personally, I can't say for sure, but I'm going to lean towards the latter.
And actually I've talked to a lot of women on this website, and they say that they like a little muscle on men, but they find big bulging body builder types to be rather unpleasant to look at. They find the idea that all women like big muscular men to be an annoying stereotype. Some do, but not all of them. Come to think of it, I never really liked how the sorceress looked in this game because her anatomy is just, well, impossible. Seriously, how can she stand up straight?
I actually laughed in a pleasant way when I read your first paragraph. My friend Erin and a bunch of us went out to celebrate her recovery. She decided on a club and we were on the line forever (five minutes)! So she goes up, talks to the bouncers, and waves us up. And she went 'Behold, the power of the boob'. That's a funny memory that just popped up.
Anything in excess (or lack of) is confusing to look at. I like breasts, but if she has too much, I don't know how I'd react. I'd like to think I'd react the same way to a woman who's pleasant to me who is flat chested. That I'll take her for who she is and move from there, but I can't deny whatever I like or feel. That's human nature. But we do all have the capability to look pass these things.
Geeks and 'typically attractive' physical attributes were never bosom buddies (see what I did there?). I know for a fact it was really, really hard to get a geek girlfriend because of exactly what you're saying. There's always going to be exceptions like you say. I also know there were a lot of geek women in my circle who started to try to get close to me when I started getting bigger. Those girls just happened to be my friends and I didn't see them like that, and those other girls... well, one said straight out that she thought I was a player that preyed on women I thought would be an easy lay.
More over, I think it's like Ma'idah said. This whole game was supposed to be a farce/send up of those over the top ideas of Album covers and Vans from the 70's/80's. Overblown and stupid. If a farce is based on a power fantasy, is it still a power fantasy?
DugMachine said:
ObsidianJones said:
My train of thought is that while there are women who want bigger breasts out there, breasts themselves don't empower you in any way physically. Muscles though make you stronger, more resilient. You look tough and like you've put a lot of work into building those muscles. With said muscles, in a fantasy setting, you can fight anyone and anything.
Some women find really muscular men attractive, no denying that but I'd bet money that when the developers were designing characters they were not thinking of them. I see where you're coming from but I just don't see muscular male characters designed with female's fetishes in mind.
So power fantasies are strictly a physical affair? Hmm. That's somewhat understandable. Stupid of them, mind you, as really ridiculously big muscles impede more than they help in combat. They make you slow, if they are hypertrophic in certain way they can limit your range of motion making you not be able to move as well as someone without muscles. I think Default Commander Shepard would be a person I would most question if I wanted to get into a fight with as he has enough muscle to tell me that he does stuff, but still fit and agile enough that I'll have to keep on my toes.
I sometimes think that designers WANT to make their characters appealing, even sexually appealing to people out there... but they just don't know how. Speaking as a typical guy, I really have no clue what makes a guy attractive. But I do know the difference in men. So stupid teen me decided that I would bulk up because muscles are a guy thing, and any guy thing in excess would impress women.
Cue horrible high school/college years where my female peers wanted nothing to do with me, and women I was not interested in at all asked for random screws.
Men are stupid, is where I'm getting at.