I don't doubt what you're saying, mate. It just doesn't seem to have anything to do with what I originally quoted. Not to be a dick but your original quote didn't really have much to do with what you were quoting either. It's definitely possible that everything you've said is the hottest, 100% factual, shit - there's some real strong evidence about hip-to-waist ratios and evolutionary factors in attraction. I just don't see what that's got to do with feminists, fat-shaming, slut-shaming, bulimia, or the current conversation about variety in vidja game character designs. Honestly, bringing up what type of woman men want to fuck when replying to a point about womens' destructive anxiety surrounding their weight and appearance is gonna come off strange, regardless of whether you have the science on hand.ILikeEggs said:I don't disagree that many behaviours and views are cultural, and social. If you notice, I didn't even say attraction is purely influenced by the mammalian hindbrain. What I am saying, is there are certain things, certain very basic human responses to things that are heavily influenced by evolution, and that the limbic response to them will likely never go away. Things like disgust at feces, because feces are associated with disease. Hell, even my dogs will refuse to sleep on their mat after they've thrown up on it. Sure, the forebrain can mitigate and modify limbic responses, but it takes conscious cognitive effort to do, and constantly doing that is certainly not something humans evolved to do.
This ain't particularly directed at you, I'm more so just weirded out how quick people like to jump into the 'what men are supposed to be attracted to'. When, even at the most inflammatory, no one here has been trying to argue that you need to bang fatties, or that fatties are better, or that we need to force feed fatty females into video games.
My personal opinion has been: 'Yo, this article has nothing to do with people trying to "force characters into being FAT", despite what 400 salty comments would have you believe.' And later, 'If we must discuss this nonsense, yes, I would like some women who aren't straight lines with tits. There's a variety of different body-types you can try without even bringing fattitude into the frame.' But whatevs, everyone's already made up their mind where they stand.
Dang dude, may be that there is mounds of well put together studies of exactly what you're saying out there. I just tend to give little credence to this brand of evo-psych being thrown about - it's almost always made up bullsnuff that people use to justify whatever beliefs they feel. Every horrendous belief system from neo-nazis down to your basic fratboy sexist uses the 'brah, it's totally evolution', while bulk posting whatever studies they can find that fit their point -not understanding whether they're good studies, what the scientific consensus is, all that good shizzzzz. Like, the entire internet has refused to mature from their 'debate creationists on gaiaonline' phase. Going all confirmation bias with googling sources while shouting about ad hominen doesn't make you the rational, logical thinker you pretend to be, internet-dwellers.And as for it not being legitimate science, I don't keep a folder of bookmarks of every scientific study I read, or every book I read, because there's too damn much I read, and too many topics I read. Also, evolutionary psychology is a relatively nascent field of research, so I don't expect the scientific status quo to remain the same, but I do give credence to subjects I feel are well-researched and documented.
So, what weight is considered attractive is a social construct then?someguy1231 said:The only times "tubby-tubsters" have been considered the beauty ideal was when food was scarce. For example, Mauritania is a country where fat women are considered ideal, so much so that some girls are essentially force-fed in their youth in hopes of landing a good husband. Mauritania is also a country beset by food shortages and concerns of famine.
I see where you're coming from, but this argument doesn't cover much ground, mate.
I wouldn't consider that the 'only times', especially when food scarcity isn't really a fixed state kinda deal. Like did Rubens and Bottecelli exist in a period of food scarcity? Relative to what? If they had fuller tummies than those in Mauritania, is their beauty standard less chunky to that same proportion? Mexico today seems to favour a larger brand of woman than the US does - which appears to fit into your theory, until you consider all the countries with different weight standards who don't sit at the right places on this 'food scarcity scale' we've constructed.
C'mon, son. What does merit have to do with this bollocks? Am I taking it correct that you're trying to imply that this isn't real attraction - not that proper attraction that we have to thin ladies?In other words, fat women weren't considered "hot" on their own merits - they were considered hot because they had good access to food and other resources. They were basically the "sugar daddies" of their time.
I'm aware of the Marilyn myth, not my point geezer.The differences in Playboy models and the like has been grossly exaggerated. Marilyn Monroe, despite what some fat activists would like you to believe, was not "plus size", either in her day or by modern standards.
Nothing to do with weight, just pointing out how different the beauty standard was even 20-30 years ago.
Shit, even the beauty standard today is starting to change from what was posted in the OP. The curvier look of Nicki Minaj, Queen B and Kim K don't look much like Rikku, Cortana and Tifa.
And: 'Cleopatra's nose, had it been shorter, the whole face of the world would have been changed'.Going back even further, look up the famous Nefertiti bust. That was made over 3000 years ago, and yet a face like her's wouldn't look out of place among today's supermodels and female celebrities. Look at the Aphrodite of Cnidus statue (2400 years ago) for another example. Her body shape is very similar to Kate Upton's. Minor details like hair and makeup styles may differ based on history and society, but when it comes to overall body shape and size, human cultures have been remarkably consistent.
I'm sorry if I'm coming across as a dick, but what you're saying is straight up bull.
Even if you could come up with an average across history and culture, the outliers would be so significant as to make it meaningless.
Going look at Nefertiti doesn't mean anymore than me saying 'Look how ugly those bitches in Charlie Chaplin films were.'