Well... It depends from gal to gal. Flirting for some can be listening and offering advice and sympathy, while for others it's giggling and smiling. It's the kind of thing you know about if you know the person, like if they start acting weird and affectionate when they're usually cold and callous. That's an extreme example obviously, but I hope you get my point.
Flirting
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It's all about the physical contact. I'm kind of a flirt without realizing it, but the way I always flirted with guys I liked was with physical contact. It makes sense. If you like someone, you want to be close to them. So unnecessary hugging, touching hair, and with my current boyfriend I would tickle him because he's very ticklish. That and when we would play video games, instead of sitting on the large spacious couch in my living room, I would pull the ottoman close to the TV and we would sit shoulder to shoulder on it while we owned dudes together.
I heard that a person's pupils dialate when a person is aroused. Something due to blood flow.PureChaos said:
I don't know. I never figured the flirting thing out.
I'll think that a chick is flirting with me, but then I'll find out that she has a boyfriend or is gay or something.
So confusing.
I'll think that a chick is flirting with me, but then I'll find out that she has a boyfriend or is gay or something.
So confusing.
Yeah, well it pisses me off.nunqual said:
I think she's interested and then I find out that she's just being a cocktease.
Sigh.
Flirting is wrong and you're a bad person for doing it and anyone who does it is a bad person!
As you can tell, I'm joking.
Nobody flirts with me, and if they do, I don't notice. I have asperger syndrome, so I can't really read it if someone is. Makes things difficult.
As you can tell, I'm joking.
Nobody flirts with me, and if they do, I don't notice. I have asperger syndrome, so I can't really read it if someone is. Makes things difficult.
My sympathies man.
I have the same problem. The girl I'm with right now I was interested in for 2 years. Through other relationships even. I finally found out all the time we spent together she was trying to get me to jump her bones. >_>
her... pretty... little...bones...
And I still didn't pick up on it! WTH MAN SOME OF US ARE JUST CURSED.
Look; your either an em-path or your not. If you can't read people like that? do what I do. Be aggressive and blunt. Even if you don't get it perfect every time, I've never been short... ever... of "fun".
I have the same problem. The girl I'm with right now I was interested in for 2 years. Through other relationships even. I finally found out all the time we spent together she was trying to get me to jump her bones. >_>
her... pretty... little...bones...
And I still didn't pick up on it! WTH MAN SOME OF US ARE JUST CURSED.
Look; your either an em-path or your not. If you can't read people like that? do what I do. Be aggressive and blunt. Even if you don't get it perfect every time, I've never been short... ever... of "fun".
I haven't any facts for you. My closest guess is when a girl starts talking to you and finding excuses to talk to you more often than what you would consider usual. But then again, she could be just messing with you.
This is why I like to initiate the conversations. Guys are usually much more upfront about things.
This is why I like to initiate the conversations. Guys are usually much more upfront about things.