I would suggest if people don't want to be associated with the Nice Guys, then maybe don't use the term friendzone?
It's really not difficult.
Also, it's probably for the best. I know that me and a lot of my friends see a guy as an automatic `No` if he bitches about the friendzone and how nobody likes `nice guys`.
Now, there's nothing wrong with being attracted to your friends, and dealing with that in a mature way.
But if your friend isn't into it, they aren't into it. They haven't put you in a magical box that it's somehow your duty to try and get out of.
They just turned you down.
It's really not difficult.
Also, it's probably for the best. I know that me and a lot of my friends see a guy as an automatic `No` if he bitches about the friendzone and how nobody likes `nice guys`.
Now, there's nothing wrong with being attracted to your friends, and dealing with that in a mature way.
But if your friend isn't into it, they aren't into it. They haven't put you in a magical box that it's somehow your duty to try and get out of.
They just turned you down.