God... Horemones are weird...

[Lem0nade Inlay]

I like your spelling of hormones.

OT: I'm guessing you'll find her again one day, I mean you go to the same (AWESOME!!) school. Look in the yearbook.

At least he didn't say "whoremoans".



OT: I'm sure you'll find her again, you should just look her up in the yearbook maybe?

 

[MASTACHIEFPWN]

Just talk to her. However, you mentioned the way she looks twice, so it seems to me that is important to you. As a woman I can honestly tell you that is my number two turn off in a man, only surpassed by smoking--both lead to flat denials, however. To be perfectly honest, I don't think anyone who pursues a girl off of appearances deserves anyone, unless they find someone as shallow as they are. In that case, they're probably perfect for each other. The relationship probably just won't last through their 40s.

So, if you like that girl regardless of her appearance, then THOSE are probably some legitimate feelings you are having. It means you like her for who she is, for her substance rather than her wrapping. There is nothing more attractive than that.

Actually, personality comes first, so even if you are the hottest girl in the world, and your personality sucked, I would avoid you... simple as that.

I'm not talking about someone with a bad personality and good looks. I'm talking about a person with a good personality and a bad appearance. The way you stopped to point out that one looked "average" and how the other looked "attractive" to you means that those things are important to you, and that you would possibly avoid her if she were any less "attractive."

So it seems to me you're going to have to choose: Do you want someone you could have endless conversations with, or do you want eye candy?

And by the way, if it sounds like I'm talking about a "serious" relationship here, it's because I am. It's been my experience that most girls who don't play the flirt game want to enter a relationship for the long haul. Personally, I won't pursue a relationship unless I see attributes for someone I'd be willing to grow old with. That's right--that is how far we girls think things out. Surface level attractions won't cut it. Those are just...a bonus.

I suggest looking up the song Have You Ever Really Loved a Woman by Brian Adams. It really sets the tone for the kind of relationship I'm talking about.

Let me point out, I have been friends with the first girl ever sense I can remember. I know she is a good person, and her outer apperance only makes her that much better.

And also note about the girl i recently met that I said "Attracted" This doesn't mean by her looks, but herself.

 

[jaketaz]

Ask yourself which one makes you feel happier, then ask her out. It's simple, and the worst possible outcome is that she'll say "no" and you'll be right where you were. You don't have to be positive of making the right decision, either. You're in high school, and this decision will not have any great bearing on your life. Be life is short, so be direct and don't waste your energy or her time agonizing over possibilities.

 

[Alexnader]

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??? dude this is a friking internet forum, I'm pretty sure this isn't school. I made the name MASTACHIEFPWN, becuase on Youtube, someone already took MASTERCHIEFPWN, thus, this name stuck. mabey if I would accomplish something more than funny anicdotes and small peices of advice from these forums, I perhaps would carry a dictionary in my pocket.

I'm not saying you HAVE to spell well here on this internet forum (although it's preferable and I'm fairly sure there's a rule entry somewhere about it), rather I'm saying that if you're going to talk to her over any kind of text based chat service then you should use proper spelling and at least take a stab at grammar. I tell you this not out of spite but with your best interests at heart. I'm not acting as a grammar policeman here (I think there's a rule entry about that as well), I'm just saying that whenever I read your text now I get the impression of "13 year old angry gamer kid". Now I don't care that you sound like a 13 year old however your prospective girlfriend might. (Also if you actually ARE 13 then it still doesn't matter, you want your age to belie your intelligence rather than be an accurate indicator of it.) [Not that spelling is an indicator of intelligence, it's just that it can give the wrong impression ]

That impression is only furthered by your current handle (not the spelling but rather the all-caps and halo reference). I don't want you to make a new escapist account or change the way you enjoy yourself on the internet. I'm just saying that you should be careful how you present yourself over the internet especially to a girl you're interested in.

Edit:
Incidentally this is all based off the assumption that she sets at least some kind of store in literary prowess which a lot of girls seem to do. Base how much you want to take my advice off her handle, if she's XX_N1NJ4xSN1P3R_XX or IteabagNOOBS then don't listen to me at all. If she's got a name that sounds like it's from a fantasy story, a reference to any kind of book or anything vaguely artsy and properly capitalised then you may want to consider what I've said here.

It may not sound like much but if you end up talking to her a lot through text then the way you express yourself will frame what you say. Even Shakespeare would have trouble wooing a fair maiden if he wrote to her like tis. Besides it's not like spelling properly could hurt right?

 

[Bocaj2000]

I STILL NEEDZ HALP!

Teenage stuff... oh boy...

Attractiveness fluctuates based on how a person acts and how a person looks. If she looks good one day, she might be below average the next. If she acts cutely one day, she might be on her time of the month a week from then. So if the question is if you're attracted to her, then the answer is yes (from what you tell me). If the question is simply having the balls to ask her out, it's a personal issue that I can't help you with.

 

[Palademon]

Hmm... how about going with the one YOU ACTUALLY HAVE STUFF INCOMMON WITH!

 

[zombays]

Go for the Zoey chick, she seems more your type. Good luck.
Also, find out her name, and if she has a facebook, it's easy street from there.
EDIT: Left 4 dead tournament?! YOU LUCKY LITTLE....

 

[Dfskelleton]

YOU.
GET.
A.
LEFT 4 DEAD.
THEMED.
PARTY.
AT.
YOUR.
SCHOOL.

Dude, if onlt my school were that cool...
But, hey? what's the worse that could happen if you ask her out or just ask to hang out? If she says no, oh well.

 

[heaventorn]

Pay attention in your English class. Your spelling is poor and your grammar is just as poor. After you have learned to properly construct a complete sentence, use these newly acquired skills to converse with the female. Of course, she is probably just as dimwitted, so just go for it. A little tip about hormones: it is your penis going, "I want to spread my baby juice!" This is not something you should base a relationship off of. If the only thing driving you to ask out this girl is the fact that you think she is "hot," be prepared for a series of empty lack-luster relationships. Now, if this is your thing, go for it! Maybe I am just a little old fashioned or maybe looks just are not enough to satisfy me.

Good luck, anyways!

 

[W8NKA]

Simple, the hot one lust recommendation have a wank, the secound girl you may have actul feelings for her. This is were it gets tricking some girls just want to be friends and you want to be more than friends, but when you tell her how you feel...than she may say "i just want to be freinds.". This happend to me. me and this Beautiful girl were good friends and then i told her...she just wanted to be freinds. so make sure before you go telling her.

 

[Thedayrecker]

You should ask /b/

OR (if you want more advice beyond "raep") you could just try talking to her the next time you see her... It's worth a shot...

talking is the best way to go through with things.

Also, I just looked at what you got put on probation for. And I thought it was hilarious

So did I, but apparent'y somebody didn't

 

[MASTACHIEFPWN]

Hmm... how about going with the one YOU ACTUALLY HAVE STUFF INCOMMON WITH!

I have stuff in common with both.

 

[Rhymenoceros]

You had me at "Left 4 Dead Tournament"

Meh. You'll probably see again at some point and the fact you actually spoke to her means it will be easier to go up to her when not involved in a tournament. I don't think it went that badly for you.

 

[loremazd]

So the cute girl is your friend, but you're attracted to the girl who shares similar interests with you.

There's no real solution to this, but i'd talk to your friend, and ask her out on a date. Don't ask if she wants to be your girlfriend, but on a -date-. If you go on the date and have a good time and your feelings become stronger for her, then you'll have a better picture.

Because for all you know mystery girl has a boyfriend. However I will give you one piece of advice, you're young, have fun. You're basically going to be dating and having relationships to find out what you like and dont like in a potential "the one" down the road. You'll have your heartbreaks, sure, but dont treat this situation like you're going to marry the person you choose.

 

[Elliee]

pity You should ask herrrr!!!
Or continue masturbates