Help me see into the mind of a guy.

[ethaninja]

And how is she supposed to see his pupils dilating from across the room.......

It was sarcasm. It's hard to sort of put emphasis in text

 

[Strumthund]

Don't really have anything to add, but I agree with a majority of the responses. From experience, he's probably interested in some way.

 

[BrownGaijin]

I'll say what every one else has said (in one way or the other), he's probably into you and he's too shy to confront you. It could be the colorful clothes you wear, and the way the sunlight plays upon your hair. The real question is what do you want to do about it?

Do you want to:
1. be "just friends"?
2. have him sweep you off your feet?
3. mace him?

 

[cocoadog]

I would like to help. Unfortunately I don't really know what is in our minds because there are to many tits to sift through.

 

[Hollock]

he's into you.

 

[Zhukov]

So, I'm asking you guys because I don't really know how the male mind works with that sort of thing. Can staring really equal interest? I thought maybe it was only girls that did that, but I could be wrong...
Help me, please? :/

The male mind isn't much different to the female version, if at all.

If he's looking at you a lot it's because he finds you attractive. If he's quickly looking away when you meet his eye it's because he's thinking, "Oh crap ohcrapohcrap, that cute girl just caught me staring at her! Quick! Look away, act casual!"

If you want proof, smile at him and observe the results.

 

[blankedboy]

He likes you he's just shy...<.< No other explanation unless you have a brain slug on your head...

I wish... maybe I can trade my Towering Pillar of Hat for one.

Ontopic, I'd say he likes you. Chat with him at some point.

 

[Sacman]

He likes you he's just shy...<.< No other explanation unless you have a brain slug on your head...

Damn brain slugs. Always latching on to people's heads.

OT: He's interested in you in some way, and is probably thinking of an excuse to talk to you right now.

If he's anything like me he's not gonna come up with one, he's just gonna tell himself, " she doesn't care what I have to say, there is no reason for her to talk to me." or something like that, than go home cut a little bit get beat by his step dad and cry himself to sleep alone and unloved only for the same thing to repeat itself for the next year until he finally comes to the realization that life isn't worth living and try to off himself with a fist full of extra strength advil only to vomit it up and go on living a miserable existence in a hollow emotionless body...<.< you know if he's anything like me...
but saying he isn't like me he will probably talk to you about the weather or what ever mentally stable people talk about these days...

Why would you- Just-

...

):

It was a dark joke, don't think too much about it... It's only mostly true...<.<

 

[clockout]

If you are attractive/cute to said person

1: He'll try to subtley scope you out
2: After number 1, He is now wondering what you look like naked
3: Now He'll wonder what you'd look like naked bent over something

 

[Saltyk]

Alright, I need your guys' opinion on something.

There's this guy in my college math class who's always staring at me. We sit on opposite sides of the room, and I'm constantly catching him looking over at me. I'm one row behind him, on the opposite end. Unfortunately, I've never really had the chance to talk to him or anything like that.
Note, if it helps: Yes, he looks away when I look back. Dunno if that's a good or bad thing.

My sister is convinced he's got a thing for me. I'm not sure, and I don't want to try anything and sort of "jump the gun," so to speak.

So, I'm asking you guys because I don't really know how the male mind works with that sort of thing. Can staring really equal interest? I thought maybe it was only girls that did that, but I could be wrong...
Help me, please? :/

I'm going to use the Occam's Razor approach. Basically, the simplest answer is usually the correct one.

The simplest answer is that he has some attraction to you. Basically he thinks you're cute/interesting/smart/etc or some combination thereof.

The best way to test this would be to talk to him. Especially if you are interested. Otherwise, just ignore him.

 

[Meander112]

I don't have the time to read through all the suggestions, so I'll go with my own.

What would probably work best is to go up to the boy after class and talk to him about the class you're in. If you're confused about something, ask him about that. If you are a math-wiz and don't have any problems, ask him how he's doing in the class. You have that common ground to start a conversation with him. Just talk and see what happens. Don't try to bend his ear for a long time, just chat with him for a bit that first time.

Then, if you liked what you heard, talk to him more after the next class. If you still like him after a few after-class chats, suggest that you get together for a study session or the like. If that goes well, ask the boy out!

If nothing else, doing such things will prepare you for chatting with potential romantic interests in the future, and that's something that only gets easier with practice. Trust me, I know whereof I speak.

 

[Sacman]

Can staring really equal interest? I thought maybe it was only girls that did that, but I could be wrong...
Help me, please? :/

wait... I thought it only applied to boys...<.<

OT: last time I got caught staring at a girl I liked I got beat up in the parking lot by her brother...

 

[Turbo_Destructor]

he find you attractive, but maybe isn't confident/rude enough to openly stare at you. Plenty of guys do this, including me

 

[ShadowsofHope]

My advice would be on par with Trivun, here.

..And darn it, none of them ever did it to me during my high school years! >_<

 

[Rofl-kamikaze]

make sure the clocks not behind you XD

Lol,isn't that an Alien Vs. Predator 2: Requiem reference?

OT: He is attracted to you in some way, be it physically or any other way... Good luck!

 

[Frozen Donkey Wheel2]

Well, it means one of two things:

1. He likes you.
2. He's horny and you're the hottest girl in the class. It's sad, but true.

 

[Ithera]

Well, a little late to add anything constructive. I believe you have been given the answer.

 

[nuba km]

he at least things you look good but you need to give more info because if he is someone like me he is just looking round the room a lot and this could all be coincidence or maybe he is looking at someone else and doesn't want you thinking he is looking at you so ya really give more info.

 

[Ara69]

Maybe he is imagining you being eaten by tiny evil butterflies! Or was that just me?..

 

[Brightzide]

Throw him a curve ball and go talk to him, make him panic...watch him squirm. Girls find it hilarious usually and you should be no exception. And if he turns out to be alright and he does actually like you...well...see where it goes from there.