I'm going to go with this.
Which actually sounds like meh-lay more than may-lay, the latter of which I thought was the technically correct pronunciation. This site has been pretty reliable for me though (it even recognises the infuriatingly deliberate dropping of the 'h' in the word herb for the American pronunciation, which seems very strange to me as an official/semi-official pronunciation, but I digress), so now I can pronounce the word with confidence and assurance that I was right all along.
Which actually sounds like meh-lay more than may-lay, the latter of which I thought was the technically correct pronunciation. This site has been pretty reliable for me though (it even recognises the infuriatingly deliberate dropping of the 'h' in the word herb for the American pronunciation, which seems very strange to me as an official/semi-official pronunciation, but I digress), so now I can pronounce the word with confidence and assurance that I was right all along.