I'm a guy and I'm the same way. Granted, I haven't had the opportunity for random sex, but I have done with with the girl I love, and I could not see doing it in any other context.Zack Alklazaris said:
How important is sex to you?
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Well that makes me feel a little better.Avatar Roku said:
Its just seemed not necessarily a bad thing, but still some how like I'm doing it wrong lol. I think my Dad thought I was gay when I turned down the stripper club.
Ahhh the days long past when my teenaged mind could contemplate only sex. "Sex in the morning, Sex in the evening, Sex around suppertime". But seasons change and sex has become yet another distraction. Funny how something that seemed so important can be put into perspective.
I like sex a lot. I'm very picky about who I date, so I'm single a lot. But hey, a girl's got needs, so I have a few friends with benefits. Should either of us start dating somebody, the benefits are obviously suspended and we're fine as friends. I figure as long as both parties know the guidelines (whether they're implied or literally laid out), there's nothing wrong with having a fuckbuddy or two.
I don't think that's true at all. Sex, for me anyway, is a very important part of a relationship. Without it, I don't think you can have true intimacy. I'm not going to give it a percentage because I don't think that makes sense but a suffering sex life is often a symptom of bigger relationship problems. I don't think it's necessarily way more important than anything else but it is certainly a vital componant of a relationship.Ahri said:
Sex is the most intimate experience you can have with a person.
It's something I've only ever had with one person, and that's the person I want to spend the rest of my life with.
It's very important. No matter what is happening in our lives, we can take those moments of closeness for ourselves.
It's something I've only ever had with one person, and that's the person I want to spend the rest of my life with.
It's very important. No matter what is happening in our lives, we can take those moments of closeness for ourselves.
Quite important, it's one way I show my spouse I love him. I wouldn't leave them if I didn't get it, but I'd be pretty sad and disappointed because I'd assume it was my fault that we didn't have sex or he isn't sexually attracted to me. >_<
I could never bring myself to have a one night stand because a) Who is so desperate they'd sleep with me? o_o and b)I couldn't have knowing they didn't love me. I'm soppy like that >_<
I could never bring myself to have a one night stand because a) Who is so desperate they'd sleep with me? o_o and b)I couldn't have knowing they didn't love me. I'm soppy like that >_<
Sex can be great. My girlfriend and i were eachothers first, and it can be great some times. But like anything, you can have off days and moods, and you both have to be in the mood on the day for it to be great.
But I would not say that it is the be all and end all. I found more happiness the day we went on our first date. I feel happier these days when we just cuddle and lie there. And the biggest emotions of my life were when my dad died. I haven't felt an emotion as strong as that since, the feeling I get from sex is nice, but it isn't that strong.
But I would not say that it is the be all and end all. I found more happiness the day we went on our first date. I feel happier these days when we just cuddle and lie there. And the biggest emotions of my life were when my dad died. I haven't felt an emotion as strong as that since, the feeling I get from sex is nice, but it isn't that strong.
The .50 Caliber Cow said:
Sex? *gasp!!!* you mean that thing that regular people do with those people who have those weird protrusions on their chest and long hair (or sometimes with Tom Cruise lookalikes)?!
Hah! you people and your pathetic social lives sicken me (I'm just jealous, actually.). I can honestly say I've 'NEVER' even tried to get a girlfriend/boyfriend. Probably due to my extreme case of antisocial misanthropy, or perhaps because I'm something of a clinically depressed nerd who puts far too little emphasis on personal hygiene. I hate being around people. I can't deal with extended conversations with those of my own gender, let alone those of the opposite (I'm shy. I tend to blush and babble around females or attractive males).
I've had a few female friends, but like male friends, they find that a friendship with someone who'll only speak if spoken to, and mostly in monosyllables at that, and never reciprocates friendship in any way is more trouble than it's worth.
There were a few stages in high school when, for some god forsaken reason, I was apparently 'popular' and it seemed like a few people were flirting with me, but ultimately, I never pursued it, and I doubt I ever will.
Tim Minchin has something to say on the whole topic of Sex.
[link]www.youtube.com/watch?v=e6raVzrbqrM[/link]
This may seem weird but i love the mental and emotional games that comes before the actual sex.
Its fun to see how far i can get with a girl using only your words, eye contact and body language as i'm not that attractive in my opinion.
I'm in college and pretty active so it always boggles my mind afterwords that i actually got that far. Like woah how did i pull that off
Its fun to see how far i can get with a girl using only your words, eye contact and body language as i'm not that attractive in my opinion.
I'm in college and pretty active so it always boggles my mind afterwords that i actually got that far. Like woah how did i pull that off
fucking important. 
pardon my french.
Its a fun thing to do, a great pasttime, a way to show passion and affection and not least its some extra glue to stabilize a relationship, even if its just based on hormones and instinct, but you do feel more for a person you also have sex with.
Plus it is proven that having sex gets you in a better mood for up to 7 days. Alone for that it should be obligatory for everyone who wants to interact with the great world outdoors. There are too many grumpy and annoying people that just "need to get laid" out there.
pardon my french. Its a fun thing to do, a great pasttime, a way to show passion and affection and not least its some extra glue to stabilize a relationship, even if its just based on hormones and instinct, but you do feel more for a person you also have sex with.
Plus it is proven that having sex gets you in a better mood for up to 7 days. Alone for that it should be obligatory for everyone who wants to interact with the great world outdoors. There are too many grumpy and annoying people that just "need to get laid" out there.
Why do I get this feeling this is a brag thread? I mean, seriously, I don't care about people's sex lives, but the moment they go flaunting it, thinking it will get them likes or whatever they're trying to accomplish by showing off is when I want to punch them in the face.
Casual sex is just too much of a bother that I'd really bother with it, cause I just don't enjoy "the game" and checking off whichever base it was "you made it to". If you enjoy that, more power to you, but do be a swell fellow and don't act as if everyone should be doing it just because you like it.
It's not the act of sex that's important to me, it's the intimacy.
Casual sex is just too much of a bother that I'd really bother with it, cause I just don't enjoy "the game" and checking off whichever base it was "you made it to". If you enjoy that, more power to you, but do be a swell fellow and don't act as if everyone should be doing it just because you like it.
It's not the act of sex that's important to me, it's the intimacy.
Only reason me and my girlfriend will ever have sex is because we want children. Try and guess what our opinion on sex is.
I dont think people should live in that mentality. I dont know how many people your ...erm..."enjoying" but I know that I would be uncomfortable with that knowledge if I knew you but then again I respect women who are conservative as these days it doesnt seem like there are many around (men as well)and they seem like women worth winning the affection of.The .50 Caliber Cow said:I say life is far too short to not have sex. Enjoy all the pleasures you can because before you know it you'll be hit by the stroke fairy and you'll be in a care home without any chance to do anything. That's what happened to me granndad :/Liquidacid23 said:bah love is nothing more than a chemical reaction which is only an incentive to further ensure our reproducing... if you already understand the need than you don't need the added incentive... so you're just ahead of the curve... get laid, enjoy life and laugh at all those ignorant people who judge youThe .50 Caliber Cow said:
[sub][sub]MOO! [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f9iIgQN5uZE][/sub][/sub]
Do what you want I guess but if people are noticing enough to call you a slut you might want to take some introspection or tone it down a little.
