I've never had a clue in my entire life. I find out way way way after that they were into me. I could've dated two cheerleaders, one in high school and one in college. I think that hurts the most lol. In all seriousness though I have had a lot of girls come onto me and I just never was aware of it until it was way to late. I really do not get subtlety at all. Hell I don't even get it when girls are being SEVERELY obvious about their feelings.
This one girl I barely knew just randomly gave me a hug and always tried to talk to me about anything she could think of. Turns out she was after a boyfriend. A girl I knew in college used to HUNT me down and make any kind of physical contact she could, chat me up, laugh at my stupid jokes. I walked away from her to. Really I could talk all day about my failings.
A lot of it was my total lack of self confidence. To my mind they were just being nice, to think anything further was so ludicrous my brain wouldn't even give it a single thought.
I never got flirting in any of its many forms and I probably never will.
This one girl I barely knew just randomly gave me a hug and always tried to talk to me about anything she could think of. Turns out she was after a boyfriend. A girl I knew in college used to HUNT me down and make any kind of physical contact she could, chat me up, laugh at my stupid jokes. I walked away from her to. Really I could talk all day about my failings.
A lot of it was my total lack of self confidence. To my mind they were just being nice, to think anything further was so ludicrous my brain wouldn't even give it a single thought.
I never got flirting in any of its many forms and I probably never will.