I need the cutest thing I could possibly do to win a girls heart.
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Look man, avoid roses, chocolate and candlelit dinners like the plague. This is the REAL world, and the only people that do that are the ones that read it in a book and can't think of anything better and less cliched. The key is to be personalised. When getting her presents, get her something that she'll appreciate but nobody else will understand. THAT is special.
For example- my girlfriend and I met at a foam party, which is basically a one off nightclub event where they shoot foam and suds over the crowd as they dance the night away (and yes it IS awesome). We started dating not long after and as her birthday was around the corner, I decided to get her 3 things:
First, she didn't have a DVD copy of her favourite movie, so that one was a cinch. By itself it'd be pathetic though (and she later said she had guessed she'd be getting that anyway)
Secondly I knew her favourite music was Radiohead, and instead of getting her an album that I figured she'd almost certainly already have, I decided to get her something with a twist- there's this band that converts entire rock albums to reggae, and OK Computer was one of them. Even if you're not into reggae, it's different, and a novel twist on something familiar.
BUT EVEN THAT ISN'T ENOUGH, so for the third part, I looked up places that sell special kinds of soap. I went down to a store one day and went through the shop asking employees and scouting out the one that smelled the nicest. I got a respectable sized chunk, wrapped it up, and attached a little note to it that simply said
"Because you can never have too much foam
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And you know what? the next time I was over at her place, there was that little note, blu-tacked to her bookcase where she could see it every day.
The key to a girl's heart is exclusivity. Nobody would have understood that soap present but her. Also it was different, and showed I'd gone out of my way to get something special. In-jokes are the way to cement a relationship with a girl that nobody else has. Always be thoughtful, different, and special to her.
The End.
For example- my girlfriend and I met at a foam party, which is basically a one off nightclub event where they shoot foam and suds over the crowd as they dance the night away (and yes it IS awesome). We started dating not long after and as her birthday was around the corner, I decided to get her 3 things:
First, she didn't have a DVD copy of her favourite movie, so that one was a cinch. By itself it'd be pathetic though (and she later said she had guessed she'd be getting that anyway)
Secondly I knew her favourite music was Radiohead, and instead of getting her an album that I figured she'd almost certainly already have, I decided to get her something with a twist- there's this band that converts entire rock albums to reggae, and OK Computer was one of them. Even if you're not into reggae, it's different, and a novel twist on something familiar.
BUT EVEN THAT ISN'T ENOUGH, so for the third part, I looked up places that sell special kinds of soap. I went down to a store one day and went through the shop asking employees and scouting out the one that smelled the nicest. I got a respectable sized chunk, wrapped it up, and attached a little note to it that simply said
"Because you can never have too much foam
"And you know what? the next time I was over at her place, there was that little note, blu-tacked to her bookcase where she could see it every day.
The key to a girl's heart is exclusivity. Nobody would have understood that soap present but her. Also it was different, and showed I'd gone out of my way to get something special. In-jokes are the way to cement a relationship with a girl that nobody else has. Always be thoughtful, different, and special to her.
The End.
My suggestion- don't ask us. We don't know who she is or what she likes, and besides, you want her to think you are cute, not the escapist community. Come up with your own original and unique idea that fits what she likes.
Go out somewhere, take her for a meal or something, then afterward, have a nice walk to somewhere really pretty. Turn to her, take her right hand, holding her fingers gently. Sing to her.
I'm drooling over the cuteness now.
I'm drooling over the cuteness now.
Oh, no, I totally understand. I wouldn't even bother if my feelings for her were driven by sexual impulse. I don't get anything like that around her. Like honestly, she's probably the only girl I've ever had legit feelings for that just won't go away. It was kind of like you said, I just always imagine the bigger picture with her. And it's not like I don't hate friendship. She's been there for me through some of my toughest times and I don't know how to adequately express or repay that to her, and I can accept friendship. But I feel like there could be more. Normally I'd say I won't lose any sleep over it, but it's a tough pill to swallow to bottle up some of your inner feelings.CuddlyCombine said:
tattoo her name on your body.
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her reaction will really tell you how she feels about you!
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hey, just in case that sounds like a good idea....it's not... I'm kidding....
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ps. she already either likes you or doesn't. just try to keep cool, be funny, charming and a bit cheeky. don't make any grand gestures and don't say the "L" word!
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Yet. Don't say the "L" word yet. At least until you've had sex a couple of times.
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assuming that you will have sex, that you're not going to wait until you're married or whatever...
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her reaction will really tell you how she feels about you!
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hey, just in case that sounds like a good idea....it's not... I'm kidding....
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ps. she already either likes you or doesn't. just try to keep cool, be funny, charming and a bit cheeky. don't make any grand gestures and don't say the "L" word!
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Yet. Don't say the "L" word yet. At least until you've had sex a couple of times.
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assuming that you will have sex, that you're not going to wait until you're married or whatever...
Buy a geneticaly engineered bunny for it looks like an Anime character.
Cutest thing you can do.
If you wanna bang her however.
I suggest Not to go for cheap gimmicks and treat her like an equal.
Cutest thing you can do.
If you wanna bang her however.
I suggest Not to go for cheap gimmicks and treat her like an equal.
Seriously, bro. Just be yourself. and try letting your guard down a bit and being a bit goofy and fun.
AHHH!!Dimbo_Sama said:
I love it.Find out her favourite meal, make it, and surprise her with a candle lit dinner. I find that sweet. You don't want to go too all-out, only because you'll have to top it later.
Confess "the internet", but I wouldn't recommend "the Escapist forum" - there's no point shooting yourself in the foot too early on.Eleuthera said:Confess you asked the internet for help on this, if that doesn't scare her of she's a keeper
EDIT: Just 'cause I suddenly feel like I should be more helpful and less smart-ass;
Have you considered just going along the way you are now? Taking things at her pace rather than trying to construct ways to hurry her along/force the issue is generally considered a good thing to do.
Two weeks and a grandiose con to impress someone is the stuff of RomComs and that annoying-couple-your-wife-knows' rose-tinted reminiscences. If it's gonna happen because she likes you, it'll happen, there's no point forcing the issue.
Another way of looking at it, is that a big show-off at two weeks sets the bar pretty high. You then have to start your relationship with her expecting crouching kittens +1, it's a lot easier if it's all predicated on the fact you both want to spend time together, rather than your ability to turn into Fred Astaire on demand.
Double post, but most importantly, ignore this man. If you genuinely, honest-to-god mean it, go for it.JamminOz07 said:
If it's a knee-jerk reaction to upsetting her, or another big step in a plan to bed her, or part of the 'keep her sweet' game plan, go have a word with yourself and try again.
as sad as it is alot of us are suckers for Japanese trinketsErana said:
. seriously just ask her out if she likes you shel give you a shot just dont screw up on the date .
That...heavily depends on what she thinks is cute, but in general terms, nothing is cuter or more awesome to a girl than having the guy she likes look her in the eye and tell her honestly how he feels about her. If he looks nervous, that's even cuter! =P
