Endersgate1321 said:
You know they dont need to tell them right away but before they have sex. I think you have the right to know who your sleeping with and take things from there.
It is still dishonest and selfish to wait until before sex to tell the guy. You probably didn't see my earlier posts in this thread, so I will repeat what I said in them.
Let's say that "she" waits three months and then she tells him about it because they finally decided to have sex, and she decided to tell him before hand like you(and many others have said).
Well, that's a problem, because this guy has spent three months in that relationship with "her", he's been a complete gentleman and has taken her out many times and paid for everything. Then he finds out that naturally, "she" is really a he, which rightfully so, he goes ballistic and breaks up with "her", because he is into real girls, and doesn't consider "her" real, because it really is just a bunch of cosmetic surgery that is covering "her" up.
Because "she" waited three months to tell him, he wasted three months of dating time and money that he could have used on a natural girl in a relationship that could actually go somewhere.
Now for a new spin I think is quite appropriate.
I would consider what "she" did as fraud. She deceived him, by not telling him the truth. Why would "she" not tell him the truth. Some people have said that "she" most likely doesn't consider herself to be a man anymore, but that doesn't remove the fact that she still has the memory of being a man. "She" knows she use to be a man.
So, she would have to be crazy not to realize that a vast majority of men would turn her down if she outright said she use to be a man. In reality, that really has to be the reason that "she" wouldn't want to tell a man the truth. So, she is intentionally deceived him, because there was a chance he would turn her down. She intentionally wasted three months of his life(getting the relationship she was wanting) and benefited from his generosity believing he was dating a nice girl and paid for many things for "her".
That is fraud: An intentional deception made for personal gain.