You are the one with the power to affect the site. I am just a user that has to adhere to the rules of the site. People learning from, and evolving with, the way the rules are flawed is the fault of the people who can actually change them.n0e said:Yup, instead of stopping with your petty little argument for arguments sake, I'm at fault.runic knight said:No, you were the flipper. You were the only one with the power to do changes, so in the analogy you were the only one able to make the burgers. And right now, you are in the middle of the restaurant right now, screaming at customers, calling them petulant, and generally acting like they should be grateful for you having done nothing to fix the problems and refusing to hear the complaints for what they are actually saying.n0e said:On the contrary, my attitude is like the guy behind the person screaming at the burger-flipper for doing their job, but not at the expectation of the customer causing a scene and telling them to stop being an ass to the employee.runic knight said:There is a problem that is poisoning the site and killing it. You were in charge and were expected to actually address such problems.n0e said:I have two words for you and your friends who do nothing but ***** and moan like petulant children who were told "no" for the first time in their lives:
Quit Whining
Your attitude is like a burger-flipper being expected to actually flip the burgers and getting upset at the customers who just want their food.
There are clear problems that need to be fixed. They were ignored and they continue. It serves no benefit to attack and blame the people trying to come the only person with authority and power to do anything, as though them complaining to the proper authority is the wrong thing for them to do.
What else do you expect them to do? Shut up and be silent as the site burns? Or leave, as many, many did and still do? Neither is a solution to those who want things to improve. And since others have no power to actually fix things, that leaves those in charge the only ones who can. Thus the targets of people's complaints by the design of the system itself.
Saying "no" is not fixing a problem, and it not being respected as an answer when it solves nothing is entirely predictable.
That ties us back to the thread itself, the closing the WW, and the community response. It was a unilaterial management decision unpopular with the community itself outside of a small collective of people who were part of the cause for it being shut down in the first place. It was giving into the antics of those who abuse the rules to make the problems worse to get what they wanted (the WW closed), while not addressing the problem itself being the people making things worse. It is feeding the problem and ignoring the source.
I get you don't like people telling you how to do your business, but when you fail or are failing, why would you think people will be quiet as their community is dying? They, unlike those actively hastening the destruction of the site by being the toxic passive-aggressive problem that has been ignored for years, don't want to see it die in such a state and thus voice concerns and criticism because of the failures to fix it.
Who's the one projecting here? It sure isn't me. It's that person staring back at you in the mirror.
Nobody liked Wynn even the shitposters, don't act like he represents everyone.n0e said:But, there's a difference between complaining and what some are doing here. Do you honestly feel that berating the moderators will have any positive impact on any issue you may have? Do you think that it's acceptable to break the site code by spamming the living hell out of a forum as a way of demonstrating that it can, instead of merely sending a message saying "hey, I discovered this flaw, perhaps you should fix it."
Well that's actually good to know, thanks for sharing that.You're complaining to the employee about policies created by the corporate administration. To be fair, the rules were originally going to be updated annually to reflect the constant change in how the community functions and converses, but that fell through when my contract expired.
We all know, the whole GG mess on these forums was essentially two camps of people doing that at one another, (myself included to some degree though I didn't see it that way at the time). However, it's obvious that, the problems are deeper, it's a community wide canker at this point, and when everyone is a rules lawyer, no matter now many new rules go into the CoC, people will find loopholes, minutiae, and ways of going "I'm not touching you. I'm not touching you. I'm not touching you. I'm not touching you. I'm not touching you. I'm not touching you.... ad infinitum" so they can keep up the chlorine and sulphur filled atmosphere of the forums without getting a bonk on the head.Also, while you may view some of what is included in the CoC as garbage, you may want to understand that there are specific reasons why each of them was there to begin with. Those policies weren't added just "because" but instead they were added from previous experience (some very recently to the update) when dealing with individual members who enjoyed skirting the rules to post their bullshit. I won't name names, but I'm sure anyone who ever spoke to me knows who I refer to.
Avnger said:You are responsible for what you post.
If you break the rules for "reasons", you still broke the rules and have no right to complain if you get whacked for it.
Gethsemani said:Avnger said:You are responsible for what you post.
If you break the rules for "reasons", you still broke the rules and have no right to complain if you get whacked for it.
Avnger gets it, be more like Avnger.
Yes. I do know what the term means, but I will refrain from extrapolating to be less of an asshole than I might want to be.n0e said:Really? Projecting from what? You _do_ know what that term means, right?
Like you, I choose to post when and where I wish to. My reason for posting should never be based on your demand of seeing me do so, like my demand for your response simply isn't there either. You either choose to or choose not to respond. Either way, your choice. So, why can't it be the same for me? Why must I comply with the demands of others when and where I talk to them about something? How dare I respond and defend the very people who volunteer their time and effort from a bunch of people who spend more time complaining about those who do their best to keep the place as drama free as possible than actually stopping themselves from creating it? If you'll notice, I'm responding to those who are trashing on the moderators for doing their job simply because they didn't agree with how it was done, despite the fact that they have no say in how it's managed.
It's a fascinating web of falsehoods you folks are creating and laughable if you think it's based in any form on reality.
Care to explain that one?If you'll notice, I'm responding to those who are trashing on the moderators for doing their job simply because they didn't agree with how it was done, despite the fact that they have no say in how it's managed.
I get that.[edit] It's been just over 1 year since I stopped working at Defy and managed community operations. I speak to you now as a normal member, as anyone else is here. My main issue and the reason why I seem to be focused on certain topics over others is that I know the volunteers here bust their butts to keep the place civil and as spam free as they are capable of doing with the resources they have. I defend them because I know what it's like and feel I'm in a position that I can speak my mind against those who always give them crap about doing their job in the face of dealing with people who expect respect while not giving any in return. It annoys me that certain members of the community seem to relish in this drama perpetuate it with topics such as this one.
Don't try to mix apples and oranges. The rules are quite clear and can be summed up as: Be respectful and polite and don't post stuff that's not PG-13. If a poster decides to not be respectful and polite or to start posting content that's not allowed, that's on them. It is not on other posters for doing it first. It is not on the moderators for being inconsistent. It is on the poster who decided they could be rude and disrespectful.runic knight said:And this mentality is what helps foster the rules lawyering, the passive-aggressiveness, the banjumpers blight the site had to deal with, and other such issues. "The rules are the rules" is a lovely sentiment when they are clear, fairly enforced, and stop negative behavior itself. If even one of those aspects are flawed, problems occur. Lack of clarity leads to confusion and complaints of "I did the same as this guy because he wasn't punished and I thought it was ok". Any perceived bias, true or not, makes people bitter and resentful of the favoratism. And if they allow some negative behavior, such as trolling people with nothing but dismissive snark or passive-aggressive sniping, then those unhappy with being punished for reacting to it will simply learn from the way the management wants them to behave and adopt the "condoned" behaviors to respond to it with.
People aren't stupid. They learn from the culture they are part of, they see what is acceptable and what is not, they learn who is valued and why, they pick up on what behavior is being encouraged and condoned.
Simply saying people have to follow the rules, but ignoring the concerns and criticisms of them, be it lack of clarity, concerns about enforcement, or just holes within them, well, it wont work well. And it clearly hasn't around here.
The rules are not clear, they are vague generalities about acceptable behavior that are open to individual interpretation. Look at the wording of the core ideals of the rules past and current.Gethsemani said:Don't try to mix apples and oranges. The rules are quite clear and can be summed up as: Be respectful and polite and don't post stuff that's not PG-13. If a poster decides to not be respectful and polite or to start posting content that's not allowed, that's on them. It is not on other posters for doing it first. It is not on the moderators for being inconsistent. It is on the poster who decided they could be rude and disrespectful.runic knight said:And this mentality is what helps foster the rules lawyering, the passive-aggressiveness, the banjumpers blight the site had to deal with, and other such issues. "The rules are the rules" is a lovely sentiment when they are clear, fairly enforced, and stop negative behavior itself. If even one of those aspects are flawed, problems occur. Lack of clarity leads to confusion and complaints of "I did the same as this guy because he wasn't punished and I thought it was ok". Any perceived bias, true or not, makes people bitter and resentful of the favoratism. And if they allow some negative behavior, such as trolling people with nothing but dismissive snark or passive-aggressive sniping, then those unhappy with being punished for reacting to it will simply learn from the way the management wants them to behave and adopt the "condoned" behaviors to respond to it with.
People aren't stupid. They learn from the culture they are part of, they see what is acceptable and what is not, they learn who is valued and why, they pick up on what behavior is being encouraged and condoned.
Simply saying people have to follow the rules, but ignoring the concerns and criticisms of them, be it lack of clarity, concerns about enforcement, or just holes within them, well, it wont work well. And it clearly hasn't around here.
That said, the CoC can be discussed, as can the moderation process. However, if that's what you (not you as in Runic Knight, but as in the general sense you) want to discuss you are better of doing that in a vacuum, and not using the CoC or "mod bias" or "inconsistent moderation" as arguments in your on-going effort to explain why you deserve to be exempt from the current rules.
Stick to the CoC and you are safe. That's the gist of it, and if you get a warning that's because you didn't stick to that simple guideline.
At the risk of being branded a nitpicker, I believe WW was specifically exempt [http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/706.1023033-CoC-Does-Not-Apply-in-the-WW-please-read-these-special-rules-before-posting] from the CoC, so the aggressive posts there didn't violate forum rules. There is of course room for discussion as to how the existence of WW affected the civility of the remaining forums and I absolutely agree that the callout threads were unacceptable in principle, but WW rules were amended before (IE by forbidding doxing) and, as I understand it, it worked, not to mention I really don't see how you're expecting there not to be blowback from the community after the single most active forum on the site got shuttered all of a sudden without a warning, much less any public discussion on the merits of doing so (except for that poll a while back, the results of which are widely known).Gethsemani said:Don't try to mix apples and oranges. The rules are quite clear and can be summed up as: Be respectful and polite and don't post stuff that's not PG-13. If a poster decides to not be respectful and polite or to start posting content that's not allowed, that's on them. It is not on other posters for doing it first. It is not on the moderators for being inconsistent. It is on the poster who decided they could be rude and disrespectful.runic knight said:And this mentality is what helps foster the rules lawyering, the passive-aggressiveness, the banjumpers blight the site had to deal with, and other such issues. "The rules are the rules" is a lovely sentiment when they are clear, fairly enforced, and stop negative behavior itself. If even one of those aspects are flawed, problems occur. Lack of clarity leads to confusion and complaints of "I did the same as this guy because he wasn't punished and I thought it was ok". Any perceived bias, true or not, makes people bitter and resentful of the favoratism. And if they allow some negative behavior, such as trolling people with nothing but dismissive snark or passive-aggressive sniping, then those unhappy with being punished for reacting to it will simply learn from the way the management wants them to behave and adopt the "condoned" behaviors to respond to it with.
People aren't stupid. They learn from the culture they are part of, they see what is acceptable and what is not, they learn who is valued and why, they pick up on what behavior is being encouraged and condoned.
Simply saying people have to follow the rules, but ignoring the concerns and criticisms of them, be it lack of clarity, concerns about enforcement, or just holes within them, well, it wont work well. And it clearly hasn't around here.
That said, the CoC can be discussed, as can the moderation process. However, if that's what you (not you as in Runic Knight, but as in the general sense you) want to discuss you are better of doing that in a vacuum, and not using the CoC or "mod bias" or "inconsistent moderation" as arguments in your on-going effort to explain why you deserve to be exempt from the current rules.
Stick to the CoC and you are safe. That's the gist of it, and if you get a warning that's because you didn't stick to that simple guideline.
Also this. For better or for worse, the mod team makes the rules now (as I understand it), ideally for the betterment of the site. If mod team feels like WW should be scrapped, that's their call, although obviously people are going to complain about it. That being said, if mod team decrees one day that every post needs to contain at least one rule 34 MLP picture or video, that also becomes a rule, for better or for worse and with all the complaining that brings (unless complaining gets banned too).n0e said:You're complaining to the employee about policies created by the corporate administration. To be fair, the rules were originally going to be updated annually to reflect the constant change in how the community functions and converses, but that fell through when my contract expired.
Yeah, some of the warnings I've seen (like the one Ewok got for the "short bus" comment in this very thread, and the one that went to LostGryphon over a joke) were obviously excessive IMO[footnote]This is not an attempt at backseat moderation - I am not stating that the mods should all share my values and sensibilities and act according to my opinion. This is simply a valuating statement of my perception with no intention of challenging the status quo, please don't ban me for breach of CoC.[/footnote]. Not 100% sure how bad this infamous passive aggression is, but I weren't really visiting the regular forums often anyway - I think there's more value to civility that's freely given (which contrary to popular opinion could be easily found in WW), than to the sort that's merely enforced.Elijin said:The problem with Escapist moderation has always been that it's in excess. Not even workplaces or senates have such stringent rules on interactions. Conflict is a part of human interaction. Obviously excess hostility and profanity isnt helpful, but when you take away people's ability to say 'Hey, your behaviour sucks. You're being an asshole/jerk and totally arguing in bad faith while being super passive aggressive'.....well, the passive aggressive users hone their art to a fine edge, creating a massively unpleasant place.
A forum should not have more stringent rules than a goddamn workplace. We are not children. You want to fix huge swathes of problems in the user behaviour? Stop acting like you're fucking pre-school teachers carefully guiding your class through life.
These are part of the CoC tooGethsemani said:Don't try to mix apples and oranges. The rules are quite clear and can be summed up as: Be respectful and polite and don't post stuff that's not PG-13. If a poster decides to not be respectful and polite or to start posting content that's not allowed, that's on them. It is not on other posters for doing it first. It is not on the moderators for being inconsistent. It is on the poster who decided they could be rude and disrespectful.runic knight said:And this mentality is what helps foster the rules lawyering, the passive-aggressiveness, the banjumpers blight the site had to deal with, and other such issues. "The rules are the rules" is a lovely sentiment when they are clear, fairly enforced, and stop negative behavior itself. If even one of those aspects are flawed, problems occur. Lack of clarity leads to confusion and complaints of "I did the same as this guy because he wasn't punished and I thought it was ok". Any perceived bias, true or not, makes people bitter and resentful of the favoratism. And if they allow some negative behavior, such as trolling people with nothing but dismissive snark or passive-aggressive sniping, then those unhappy with being punished for reacting to it will simply learn from the way the management wants them to behave and adopt the "condoned" behaviors to respond to it with.
People aren't stupid. They learn from the culture they are part of, they see what is acceptable and what is not, they learn who is valued and why, they pick up on what behavior is being encouraged and condoned.
Simply saying people have to follow the rules, but ignoring the concerns and criticisms of them, be it lack of clarity, concerns about enforcement, or just holes within them, well, it wont work well. And it clearly hasn't around here.
That said, the CoC can be discussed, as can the moderation process. However, if that's what you (not you as in Runic Knight, but as in the general sense you) want to discuss you are better of doing that in a vacuum, and not using the CoC or "mod bias" or "inconsistent moderation" as arguments in your on-going effort to explain why you deserve to be exempt from the current rules.
Stick to the CoC and you are safe. That's the gist of it, and if you get a warning that's because you didn't stick to that simple guideline.
R&P risks moderation, WW doest.Randomosity said:"Wild West had some good fun, but a certain group of users used it to be dicks.... Burn and salt! The purge must be thorough."
"R&P has some good points and discussion, but a certain group of users use it to be dicks.... We must maintain this bastion of purity"
I'm just saying...
Not really, dude just got to have THREE discussions on why we should kill all Americans.Saelune said:R&P risks moderation, WW doest.Randomosity said:"Wild West had some good fun, but a certain group of users used it to be dicks.... Burn and salt! The purge must be thorough."
"R&P has some good points and discussion, but a certain group of users use it to be dicks.... We must maintain this bastion of purity"
I'm just saying...
I am not saying the risk is evenly applied. In fact that is my big issue with mods right now. It is apparently more ok to call for the extermination of large populations than it is to call those people Nazis. (The people calling for the exterminations) But do the second part in R&P, and you can get moddedArmadox said:Not really, dude just got to have THREE discussions on why we should kill all Americans.Saelune said:R&P risks moderation, WW doest.Randomosity said:"Wild West had some good fun, but a certain group of users used it to be dicks.... Burn and salt! The purge must be thorough."
"R&P has some good points and discussion, but a certain group of users use it to be dicks.... We must maintain this bastion of purity"
I'm just saying...
You mean the topics by dontwastemytime? The ones that are all locked by moderators? I feel you may be proving Saelune's point there. Come on, you have such a wealth of topics to chose from in R&P and you go for the ones where someone has actually brought the rules to bear?Armadox said:Not really, dude just got to have THREE discussions on why we should kill all Americans.Saelune said:R&P risks moderation, WW doest.
That is..odd. Not quite what see myself.Saelune said:I am not saying the risk is evenly applied. In fact that is my big issue with mods right now. It is apparently more ok to call for the extermination of large populations than it is to call those people Nazis. (The people calling for the exterminations) But do the second part in R&P, and you can get moddedArmadox said:Not really, dude just got to have THREE discussions on why we should kill all Americans.Saelune said:R&P risks moderation, WW doest.Randomosity said:"Wild West had some good fun, but a certain group of users used it to be dicks.... Burn and salt! The purge must be thorough."
"R&P has some good points and discussion, but a certain group of users use it to be dicks.... We must maintain this bastion of purity"
I'm just saying...![]()
You're right, others would have to field better examples as I don't read R&P much. But, bare in mind, the mods allowed those threads to run for a bit before stopping them. You'd think they'd get faster as closing them after the first one where he calls for mass murder. At what point did they go "Well, he wants all Americans to die, but I think we should hear him out some first."Pallindromemordnillap said:You mean the topics by dontwastemytime? The ones that are all locked by moderators? I feel you may be proving Saelune's point there. Come on, you have such a wealth of topics to chose from in R&P and you go for the ones where someone has actually brought the rules to bear?Armadox said:Not really, dude just got to have THREE discussions on why we should kill all Americans.Saelune said:R&P risks moderation, WW doest.