S'all true. My situation with the girl I mentioned in my original post is a bit similar to what your friend went through at that age... didn't lose a home, and (crossing my fingers) isn't getting into drugs, but trust me, I wasn't trying to lessen anything going on.xmbts said:Yeah, it was a generalization, I didn't have a particularly harsh time of it, but a friend of mine lost his home, got his first real exposure to weed and alcohol, and swapped his major about 3 times all in one year. So I can see where my professor is coming from.ZeroMachine said:snip
But you're right that it is all individual, what one person finds debilitating another may have no trouble with. I'm just hitting the 'Is this what I really want to do?' issue and I'm not nearly as concerned as I probably should be.
And hell, don't worry, you'll figure out what you want to do eventually.
I have no respect for people like you. Your pathetic view on life is your own fault.Triple G said:Dude, I'm 20. And btw not stupid. Most people I know would say I'm very smart. I don't wanna be arrogant, but wait I do want to arrogant if I say, I know about stuff. I've done some things, people won't ever do in their lives and blablabla. But you know, if you're a realist, you must have come to the realization that life is shit. It may be a big and proud shit, with diamonds sprinkled all over it, but it's still shit. I'm doing my A-levels now, then I'll do my military service and after that I'll study computer science, but I still know that I will have to work till I'm old and ugly, that chicks won't ever find you sexually attractive as long as you are a nice guy(yes, all of you are going to argue over that point and tell me some bullshit about how that's not true and how I'm generalizing and blablabla, but trust me: I've seen it gazillions of times; If you're nice, they think you're weak, and if you're weak, then it's no pussy for you, mister.), that you can not trust anyone except yourself and that friends will never last forever. Also, your youth is kinda limited and by 30 you're an old man in todays world. Ah yes and on top of that everything that could like the stress is banned in most countries. And most people are stupid pricks who deserve to die a painful death. And everything is becoming more and more shitty: movies, books, games, television, education, healthcare, the list goes on. So my point is: You do have every reason to be bitter, if you're not bitter, you're either rich, stupid or just too easily satisfied.
I don't care about what you've experienced. If you really think that the only reason people can be happy with their lives are those three reasons, you need help.
EDIT: And if you're that smart, explain your atrocious grammar. I'm no grammar nazi, but if I see someone claiming to be smart that types like that, I have to point it out.