No. Not an insult unless you're a homophobe, or think being gay would be worthy of insulting.Harry Mason said:It can be an insult like this...GamerKT said:How the fuck is it an insult?AndyFromMonday said:It's all about context. If you use it as an insult of course I'm going to be offended. If you're just asking an honest question then I'll provide you with an honest answer.
"I like that color, it's pretty."
"What are you, GAY?!"
The honest question version goes like this...
"I was wondering, are you gay?"
"Why no. No I am not. I happen to be straight"
Very big difference in intentionality here.
I'm glad you asked! Let me help clear that up! It's a bit big to copy paste, so here is a link.Madara XIII said:Pansexual basically meaning Gender-Blind in attraction.Zeren said:I don't mind that question. I answer, "No I'm not. I am however, pansexual"
Isn't that just another term for Bi-Sexual!?!? Like as in Politically Correct Terms?
Or is there something I'm missing, like having a Sex with a Toaster or what not?
How would this work? If she´s gay why would she date you to begin with? Just as an off colour joke? If so, she´s a very mean spirited *****?.CrimsonBlaze said:Personally, I would want to know if a girl I'm dating is gay so that I would know where this relationship was going (believe me, it would have saved me some time in past incidents).
Well, I was dating a girl for a few weeks (nothing serious, but we were exclusive) and before our last date, she got a little alcohol in her and started telling me about various sexual encounters with women that she had years ago in great detail. At first, I thought that she was tipsy and just saying things and if anything, she experimented in college.kebab4you said:How would this work? If she´s gay why would she date you to begin with? Just as an off colour joke? If so, she´s a very mean spirited *****?.CrimsonBlaze said:Personally, I would want to know if a girl I'm dating is gay so that I would know where this relationship was going (believe me, it would have saved me some time in past incidents).
OT: No I wouldn't call it offensive to ask someone that, it´s a legit question.