Lightknight said:
Did they strike you as particularly young?
They were in their early to mid 20's yes, what I would consider prime single dating bracket. And the one woman, who wasn't surprised by the dick pic, was very...well, there isn't any way to say this politely, though I personally don't have any issue with her doing it itself. She was a gold digger. She expressly told me on multiple occasions that she had hooked up with men for financial gain. And she had multiple men that she did this with to help her budget. She wasn't a prostitute (though honestly I wouldn't have an issue with her even if she was), but a key factor in whether or not she would get into a relationship with a man, was how much money he could bring to the table. And she would...get explicit when we first worked together, about her dates. I got the point across that I really didn't want to know the graphic details of her sex life, but she would still tell me about her exploits in the broad sense. So for her, given what she was mostly looking for in her relationships (financial provisions), I guess she's expecting it to be more likely? *shrugs* Again, I don't really care that she did this, as I think there are far worse things to do with money than to have sex, and it frankly didn't impact her work at my place of employment, so who fucking cares?
The woman who received the dick pic in this story, wasn't as sexually open, but she would comment about things every now and then. For example, she wore a scarf for several days in a row, and it was sort of odd for her, fashion wise. So I asked her why she was rocking the scarf that week. And she pulled it down to show me a significant hickey on her neck. And commented about how annoyed she was with the guy, after specifically telling him not to do that. I found it amusing to be honest, and fairly benign.
But in both cases, they seemed to expect them as par for the course. Though I think the second woman was expecting those after probably initiating sexual advances? Not "hey girl, you gave me your number last night, so I thought I'd send you my dick" kind of thing. More likely the "hey baby, i'm feeling hot right now, send me a vid of you stroking" after they've been dating for a few weeks/months/whatever her rate of advancement is. The former is something I find fairly distasteful on the part of the sender, the latter is perfectly fine.