The "creepy nice guy" isn't thought of as creepy because of social anxiety. It's because of feelings of fakeness. "Stepford" behaviour, if you will.Vegosiux said:For a socially anxious person it is natural to behave in a socially anxious way, to be honest. Now, if by "like a human" you mean showing a degree of empathy and regard to other people, that's fine, but again there's many ways to go about that. Some indeed do involve holding doors open and such.lacktheknack said:wulf3n said:That's like telling someone with a mental illness don't be crazy and you'll be fine.lacktheknack said:Act like a human and you'll draw people who like you.
Uh. How is telling someone to behave naturally like that?
At any rate, if your social default is somehow in "Stepford Mode", then I don't having any qualms in telling you to find a way to change that.