Jimquisition: Gamer Entitlement

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I've never understood why people hate Mass Effect 3 so much. It made sense, and wrapped up the story of Cmdr. Shepard quite nicely. Also the gameplay/mechanics were worlds above/better than Me2 and 1 (don't get me started on the broken morality system in 2 that pretty much forced you to shove Shepard into 1 of 2 roles in order to get anything of worth done).
 

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No, Jim, we want Anita Sarkeesian to stop because she is a lieing scammer that would be in jail if it werent for popularity = immunity. She scammed people out of their money and failed to deliver on her contracts.
Also if we use the logic of entitlement you use, Anita is a spoiled brat. She thinks her unresearched opinions must be everyones opinions even if she is factually wrong.

Other than that chungus i completely agree with you and i am guilty of some entitlement myself, but i try to avoid it when i can.
 

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ccdohl said:
The fact that Jim and others constantly decry all of her critics as sexist annoys me and takes away from the discussion.
OK, so when exactly did Jim do that? And who are the "others"?
 

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Strazdas said:
No, Jim, we want Anita Sarkeesian to stop because she is a lieing scammer that would be in jail if it werent for popularity = immunity. She scammed people out of their money and failed to deliver on her contracts.
She scammed people out of money? That's news to me. How did she do that?
 

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ccdohl said:
Aardvaarkman said:
The fact that Jim and others constantly decry all of her critics as sexist annoys me and takes away from the discussion.
Pretty much this. You can point out as many flaws in her arguments as you want, and can be as reasonable as you want. You will be dismissed as being a sexist pig. It's the same with most discussions about transgender and others about sexism. If you disagree with anyone calling out a game/series/artist to be sexist or transphobic, you are part of the problem. You can basically write whatever you want about the subject, you WILL have at least a handful of very vocal people defending your argumentation, no matter how flawed it really is. There is a major difference between defending an opinion and just stating stuff that is provably wrong. And while Anita _DOES_ have the occasional valid point that I could agree with, she also gets a ton of things wrong and never even tries to adress anyone that disagrees with her or points out the flaws in her Videos.

Also, I do think this whole thing is a pretty loaded topic. On one hand, yes Reviewers are stating _their_ opinion on a game. But that does not exclude the possibility of them being wrong about certain stuff. I've certainly read Reviews that either skipped or ignored very obvious flaws in games, or made excuses for them. Im definetly in no position to demand any Videos or Articles to be deleted, or that any author has his position revoked just because I disagree. But I should be allowed to question a Reviewers credibility and argue the points he makes when I disagree with them. At least as long as im staying reasonable and promote actual discussion.
 

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Aardvaarkman said:
Strazdas said:
No, Jim, we want Anita Sarkeesian to stop because she is a lieing scammer that would be in jail if it werent for popularity = immunity. She scammed people out of their money and failed to deliver on her contracts.
She scammed people out of money? That's news to me. How did she do that?
She was doing a internet video series and then started a kickstarter to fund said series (That she was already doing). After she got funded neither her equipment, nor research (the reason she was asking money for) was improved. In fact the series even came out in longer increments than before. She asked for kickstarter money and did not deliver on said goal. Normally when this happens kickstarter forces the project to refund the money, but she was allowed to keep the scammed money. And she could not even be bothered to take her own video and stole it from youtube Let's Players (without crediting them).
 

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randomthefox said:
Oh nice, I missed Jim actually sticking up for the "gaming community" after however long of calling us children who need someone else to dictate what we're allowed to buy or not and insulting us for pointing out that we're not misogynists to people calling us misogynists.
I remember that. I dunno, I don't think it's wrong to say "there needs to be someone making sure people aren't selling objectively broken games while still letting people buy subjectively bad games" (note this is ignoring the Early Access stuff).

OT: Well, Jim, I say you hit the nail on the head with this one. I've always noticed that in situations like these, very rarely is one person or side 100%, simply because everyone is capable of acting like dicks when it suits them, hence why I've always liked finding the middle ground where possible.
 

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ultreos2 said:
And again if she was not blaming gamers, specifically male gamers the issue is non existent thus she has no valid ground to stand on in which to criticize. In the same essence of Jack Thompson. Literally you have to blame gamers or there is literally no need to criticize period. Gamers are literally the only people period who could have any blame.
Then WHY did you say:
ultreos2 said:
Look I have watched, rewatched, and rewatched again all of Anita's Videos over and over again. The woman straight out blames a perpetuated misogynistic view of women, by gamers, because of how they are portrayed in video games.

As in all you right here, are misogynists because of games portrayal of women. That is her very thesis. I am not making this shit up, that is her damned basic premise for all her videos.
Then tell Pogilrup to:
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Pogilrup said:
Did she ever say that explicitly?
Look at her thesis statement.
???

There are plenty of reasons to argue against Anita, use them. Don't waste someones time by telling them to read something that is not relevant to what you're talking about.

I got guesses as to why you said to look at her thesis and none of them are good reasons. Please, you may be right, but when trying to prove you are right, only use what you actually understand.
 

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Losanme said:
I'm not sure Jim understands what entitlement is...
Attacking other people for having shit taste, pointing out to "critics" that they aren't always right or in some cases provably factually wrong or taking on Anita Scamkeesian has nothing at all to do with entitlement.
Yes, I am a little confused as well...these things have something to do with trust and dissapointment, you don't have to employ/buy someone to critisize them or their opinions and they can, in turn, decide if they want to listen to the critisism.
 

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I have to say that the way Jim handles this sort of subject and his own honesty about his opinions, beliefs and standpoint is the reason that I returned to watching the Jimquisition and have a lot of time to absorb Jim's own professed point of view.

I have to say that I HATED the early run of Jimquisition. I utterly despised Jim's over-the-top egotistical performance (delivered, as it was, with conviction and such vigour that made it difficult to separate parody, exaggeration and reality for me) and it undermined the entertainment of the show and any message Jim was trying to convey. Jim reacted to criticism (that was often unfair and overwhelmingly personal) and the show changed in small but important ways. Now, it's one of my staple diet of shows and is one that I find thought provoking and entertaining in equal measure (Thanks, Jim. Your efforts are appreciated even if it doesn't always appear so).
Jim's own dealing with the torrent of whining and complaint to get at the true criticisms and the way he improved the show based on the nugget of truth behind some of the feedback makes me all the more ready to listen to him and be convinced by his own point of view on this subject. As far as I can see, Jim's been on both sides of this equation (both being a source of criticism and a target for criticism as a provider of entertainment) and is well placed to comment upon it from a position of experience.

I see the same sort of 'entitlement' arguments come up not just in video games, but in my other hobbies too. As one example I offer unto you the ongoing unholy sh*tstorm surrounding the upcoming launch of the next version of Dungeons and Dragons - I'm sure you can draw your own parallels. Wherever unrestrained bile and fury appears it swamps and masks the legitimate criticisms that may be leveled in either direction.

It seems to me that the rise of an easy to use and nominally 'anonymous' way to level criticism at people (i.e. The Internet) has led to a decrease in the amount of consideration and restraint given to those self-same criticisms. Simply put as people have gotten used to the idea of hiding behind the shield of their screen names they've gotten into the habit of spitting more bile and fury than they otherwise might in person. Perhaps if we all just gave our criticism as we might if we were face to face with those we were criticising the situation of the perceived 'gamer entitlement' may improve for the better. I know it wouldn't be the only part of the solution but surely it would help? I realise I'm hugely simplifying the argument here.

The lessons the video gaming community learn during this phase of fury, backlash and dealing with crappy business practices (free-to-play I'm looking squarely at you right now....) could well help other hobby sectors. At least, I live in hope that it might given that video gamers are frequently also involved in other hobbies, sports and activities.

I wish for a day where legitimate criticism is given, received and acted upon with good grace and manners. What can I say? I'm a hopeless dreamer.
 

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How dare you discuss a topic from different perspectives and attempt to reach a reasonable middle ground? This is the internet, damn it!
 

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Strazdas said:
She was doing a internet video series and then started a kickstarter to fund said series (That she was already doing). After she got funded neither her equipment, nor research (the reason she was asking money for) was improved.
Wow, that's a very loose definition of "scammed."

How do you know that she didn't buy new equipment? And as you say, she has continued to release new videos, as she said she would. I'm not seeing the scam here. Plenty of Kickstarter projects don't deliver everything they hope to. That's inherent to Kickstarter, and anybody backing a project should be prepared for failures.

I'm curious - did you back her project? Are the backers of her project upset about being scammed? Or are you just using this as an excuse to attack Sarkeesian, and be outraged on their behalf?

I get the feeling that you don't really care about the Kickstarter backers or how they feel at all - you just want another reason to denounce her.
 

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The_Kodu said:
Actually I can see where that argument is coming from.

Publishers will only sell games and things people want to buy.
People want to buy into the power fantasies and escapism.
Therefore people are to blame for influencing the publisher.
But is Sarkeesian actually making this argument? Not that I've seen. I've actually seen plenty of her videos, and they aren't even about blaming anybody. They are pretty standard sociology/cultural studies pieces.

The idea of "blame" seems to mostly be people taking her comments about games personally - "I like games, she is criticising games, therefore she must be criticising me." I think a lot of people are responding to this in inappropriate ways, possibly because they are unfamiliar with with this type of critical discourse. It isn't uncommon for those without a background in the humanities to have such inappropriate reactions.

As for you comments about publishers, they are a bit off, because publishers sell what they think people want to buy. If they only sold what people do buy, then there would be no such think as a game that flops or loses money.

The_Kodu said:
Also the attack on the idea of a male power fantasy is kind of redundant. As was pointed out by a writer on another site I frequent. Women will still buy harlequin romance novels with the somewhat generic male love interest because that's what they want to read.
How does that make the criticism irrelevant or redundant? Just because something sells, doesn't make it beyond criticism. This again comes back to my point about people not understanding critical or academic discourse. There are plenty of people who criticise romance novels and the people who buy them, or the social factors that lead people to buy them.

The_Kodu said:
The argument being put forward is using an argumental technique I can't remember the name of (possibly an anachronism ?) where by it goes "You like these kind of games, these kind of games contain violence against women therefore you like violence against women".
When did Sarkeesian make that argument?


The_Kodu said:
The biggest evidence for this argument is the use of "shock" statistics about domestic violence, however if you paid careful attention she only tells half the story, the half that supports her argument just for example of the omitted information did you know 40% of all domestic violence call outs are from men accusing their partner of abusing them ? Did you also know the conviction rate for domestic violence against a man is 80% lower than that against a women. Or did you know that for example Ross Kemp and Professor Steven Hawking have suffered domestic violence against them ?
How is any of that relevant to the topic at hand?
 

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Jimothy Sterling said:
Tackling the myths and misusage of so-called Entitlement in the gaming world.
**slow clap**

Well said, Mr. Sterling. Well said.

I would like to say more, but you presented your points so well in your video that it is hard to do so. Thus, I will merely say that I hope your video encourages more people to consider either middle options or expressing their opinions in a civil fashion.

Once again, I thank the gods for you and for your excellent video.
 

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Aardvaarkman said:
But is Sarkeesian actually making this argument? Not that I've seen. I've actually seen plenty of her videos, and they aren't even about blaming anybody. They are pretty standard sociology/cultural studies pieces.
**sigh** I've been explaining this to people on the Escapist for ages. People are determined to see her as attacking video games or blaming people for things when she is doing exactly what you just said - writing "standard cultural studies pieces."

Anyone who has any experience in peer reviewed academia should see that immediately - but that doesn't actually describe most of the internet.

I have given point by point explanations, with quotes, showing that she isn't attacking but simply calling attention to patterns. And I've had people say "yes, but -" and repeat the same damn thing as if I hadn't said anything.

The really sad thing is that a lot of the "criticism" against Anita is based on her failure to support her "attacks" - of course she fails to support attacks, because she isn't writing attacks!

**sighs again** I've mostly given up. Once in a while I get roped in again, but at this point I feel like I'm shouting that Soylent Green is people, but no one is willing to stop snacking.
 

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Bara_no_Hime said:
Aardvaarkman said:
But is Sarkeesian actually making this argument? Not that I've seen. I've actually seen plenty of her videos, and they aren't even about blaming anybody. They are pretty standard sociology/cultural studies pieces.
**sigh** I've been explaining this to people on the Escapist for ages. People are determined to see her as attacking video games or blaming people for things when she is doing exactly what you just said - writing "standard cultural studies pieces."

Anyone who has any experience in peer reviewed academia should see that immediately - but that doesn't actually describe most of the internet.

I have given point by point explanations, with quotes, showing that she isn't attacking but simply calling attention to patterns. And I've had people say "yes, but -" and repeat the same damn thing as if I hadn't said anything.

The really sad thing is that a lot of the "criticism" against Anita is based on her failure to support her "attacks" - of course she fails to support attacks, because she isn't writing attacks!

**sighs again** I've mostly given up. Once in a while I get roped in again, but at this point I feel like I'm shouting that Soylent Green is people, but no one is willing to stop snacking.
She isnt directly attacking anything. But her..."Studies" if you can even call it that, are inherently flawed, not very well researched and generally just come off as the generic Sexism-accusation without many facts or much thought put behind them.

I will agree that the amount of demonizing she went trough is really over the top. You could've shut down almost all of her arguments in the very first vid she made, instead of treating her like shes the Antichrist of Videogames. Or you could've plainly ignored her from the get go (As Jim suggested in an earlier Video about her), as yet another "Feminist" who blurps unresearched, poorly thought out nonsense, because theres allways atleast SOMEONE that will listen.

Aardvaarkman said:
Strazdas said:
She was doing a internet video series and then started a kickstarter to fund said series (That she was already doing). After she got funded neither her equipment, nor research (the reason she was asking money for) was improved.
Wow, that's a very loose definition of "scammed."

How do you know that she didn't buy new equipment? And as you say, she has continued to release new videos, as she said she would. I'm not seeing the scam here. Plenty of Kickstarter projects don't deliver everything they hope to. That's inherent to Kickstarter, and anybody backing a project should be prepared for failures.

I'm curious - did you back her project? Are the backers of her project upset about being scammed? Or are you just using this as an excuse to attack Sarkeesian, and be outraged on their behalf?

I get the feeling that you don't really care about the Kickstarter backers or how they feel at all - you just want another reason to denounce her.
And I get the feeling you will defend Anita regardless of what points are being brought up. Considering the amount of cash she got, one could expect either huge improvement in quality or frequency of her work. Neither applied. Depending on what standards are applied, you could indeed call it a Scam. I've seen Kickstarter Projects catching flak for less subpar deliveries, only this time the project was about a very controversial issue from a person that got a LOT of attention over the Web. Its almost guruanteed that you get SOME people to back stuff in that situation, especially considering how many of her supporters just do the very same thing she does. Spout incoherent, badly researched nonsense, as long as Anita keeps waving the "Sexism"-Flag. Just like a ton of idiots responded to her videos with rape-threads and other stupidities.

The whole Anita thing can be neatly summed up by saying that it was mostly retards yelling at other retards.
 

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ERaptor said:
And I get the feeling you will defend Anita regardless of what points are being brought up.
No, I wouldn't. But did you see the post I was replying to? It called her a "lying scammer" (although he was unable to spell "lying" correctly). That poster also has a history of making attacks on her, and not exactly in a "nuanced criticism" way.

Don't you think that's rather over the top and unwarranted?

I don't really care that much for Sarkeesian's arguments. What I do care about is this bullshit aggression that's so common around these debates. I'm perfectly fine with people making reasonable criticisms of her work. But the majority of cases just seem to be people wanting to denounce her, personally. Which is why so much of the criticism is focused on the Kickstarter stuff - because it's easy to get people jealous and outraged about somebody getting "easy money."

ERaptor said:
Considering the amount of cash she got, one could expect either huge improvement in quality or frequency of her work.
But she did not promise either of those things in her Kickstarter. She did not ask for anywhere near the amount of money she received, and I don't think she was prepared to receive that amount.

Things like this don't scale linearly with the amount of money. Would spending $100,000 vs $10,000 in video equipment make any meaningful difference to a YouTube series of this nature? We're not talking a movie with SFX, it's a talking-head video.

How would having a lot more money than she asked for translate into a huge difference in the content? Would the money suddenly make her more insightful, or her arguments any more valid? Her backers knew what kind of video she makes, and basically funded her doing more of them. Why would having an unexpected windfall of cash suddenly make her videos radically different?

Moreover, why would the windfall make her obligated to do anything more than she initially promised?

ERaptor said:
Neither applied. Depending on what standards are applied, you could indeed call it a Scam.
I don't think it could be called a scam by any reasonable definition. Especially as she never asked for that much money in the first place. It doesn't retroactively become scam because it blew out of all proportion.

ERaptor said:
I've seen Kickstarter Projects catching flak for less subpar deliveries,
Yeah, there are a lot of irrational people when it comes to the topic of Kickstarter projects.
 

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ERaptor said:
Pretty much this. You can point out as many flaws in her arguments as you want, and can be as reasonable as you want. You will be dismissed as being a sexist pig.
Notice how in this discussion plenty of people have criticised Sarkeesian, and yet none of them have been called sexists pigs? You might want to look into revising this theory, as it doesn't seem grounded in fact.
 

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Aardvaarkman said:
ERaptor said:
Pretty much this. You can point out as many flaws in her arguments as you want, and can be as reasonable as you want. You will be dismissed as being a sexist pig.
Notice how in this discussion plenty of people have criticised Sarkeesian, and yet none of them have been called sexists pigs? You might want to look into revising this argument, as it doesn't seem grounded in fact.
The comment was indeed aimed mainly at Anita herself and her "Fandom" , trying to get some actual feedback trough to that end will result in you being labeled as part of the problem or just ignored, the latter being the friendlier variant. And on plenty other sites, or by plenty other people defending her work. Its basically the same like you said earlier in this thread, where a lot of people reacted to her Videos with screaming bloody murder and even shouting Rape threats. What im saying is, both sides werent exactly paragons of virtue when it comes to argumentation. And to be honest, considering what else was written on the escapist about Anita, neither are people on here. Again, once that name falls its one monkeycage yelling at another.

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ERaptor said:
And I get the feeling you will defend Anita regardless of what points are being brought up.
No, I wouldn't. But did you see the post I was replying to? It called her a "lying scammer" (although he was unable to spell "lying" correctly). That poster also has a history of making attacks on her, and not exactly in a "nuanced criticism" way.

Don't you think that's rather over the top and unwarranted?

I don't really care that much for Sarkeesian's arguments. What I do care about is this bullshit aggression that's so common around these debates. I'm perfectly fine with people making reasonable criticisms of her work. But the majority of cases just seem to be people wanting to denounce her, personally. Which is why so much of the criticism is focused on the Kickstarter stuff - because it's easy to get people jealous and outraged about somebody getting "easy money."
To be fair, considering how many non-arguments she throws around its not surprising people are belittleing her at least a bit. I Will agree tough that most of it is ridicolously over the top. I still hold the opinion that it would've been the best approach to just let this whole thing die down before it even starts, we wouldnt even be having her as a topic every other week if Gamers could just let sh*t like this go.

Also, dont jump on him for grammar. Some people (Like myself) arent native speakers of the English language. Altough I will agree that some could put at least SOME more effort into writing their posts correctly.

And, jsut for clarification. Not defending the poster in question. Just adding on the "Scam"-thing.

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ERaptor said:
Considering the amount of cash she got, one could expect either huge improvement in quality or frequency of her work.
But she did not promise either of those things in her Kickstarter. She did not ask for anywhere near the amount of money she received, and I don't think she was prepared to receive that amount.

Things like this don't scale linearly with the amount of money. Would spending $100,000 vs $10,000 in video equipment make any meaningful difference to a YouTube series of this nature? We're not talking a movie with SFX, it's a talking-head video.

How would having a lot more money than she asked for translate into a huge difference in the content? Would the money suddenly make her more insightful, or her arguments any more valid? Her backers knew what kind of video she makes, and basically funded her doing more of them. Why would having an unexpected windfall of cash suddenly make her videos radically different?

Moreover, why would the windfall make her obligated to do anything more than she initially promised?
Shes not obligated to anything. But its my personal opinion that if you Kickstart something, then the money should go towards the improvement of said project, even after you reach the goal. And I as an observer felt that she didnt really deliver on that. I mean, yes its more money than she wanted. But its still for the same project. Shouldnt she at least try to invest some of it? Shouldnt she try to either deliver some extra for the amount of money she got? Shes not obligated at all. But the attitude "Its your own fault for giving me MORE." is one that i'd take rather personally, if I were a backer. But thats just my opinion, if the Backers are satisfied, theres no ground to argue. I just wanted to note that I can at least see where someone could see a scam in the thing.

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ERaptor said:
Neither applied. Depending on what standards are applied, you could indeed call it a Scam.
I don't think it could be called a scam by any reasonable definition. Especially as she never asked for that much money in the first place. It doesn't retroactively become scam because it blew out of all proportion.

ERaptor said:
I've seen Kickstarter Projects catching flak for less subpar deliveries,
Yeah, there are a lot of irrational people when it comes to the topic of Kickstarter projects.
By definition, you'd probably be right. But again, if she gets more money and just keeps it for shits & giggles, I get the feeling that shes just in it for the attention and potential cash.

And "irrational". Keep in mind, this is entrusted money you give someone for something that poentially fails horribly, or does not meet your standard. This is a risk Backers are aware of, but there is no reason to be a Dick towards people who question Kickstarter Projects. Its something that, imho, should allways be looked at in a very critical light. With the whole "Early Access"-Bullshit flooding the Market with half-assed ripoffs, people should be allowed to question that stuff. Anita being in it or not.
 

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That's one of the points Anita talked about as well. The issue isn't so much the trope itself, but the issue of laziness in writing when it's relied on too often.
But laziness in writing isn't a moral issue. It's just laziness. That's a non-argument, especially when motivations are actually quite limited. Love, lust, duty, money, fear, revenge, etc. There's not the biggest list of reasons for why we do things.

Powerful people end up in trouble too. However, there's an obvious disproportion in the number of women who end up in such trouble, regardless if they are actually quite powerful.
The same is true in real life. This is a real issue women have when more powerful men take advantage of the disparity of power. This is why we see groups of women finally escaping from kidnappers 20 years later. In real life, it is women and children who so regularly get kidnapped or raped or any other manner of terrible thing. Not so much with men. To demand that literature depart significantly from the way things actually are is somewhat nonsensical.

So if it wasn't weakness, or foolish mistakes, what is one to believe when the only other thing they seem to have in common is their sex?
Why not weakness or foolish mistakes of the individual? Is it really now sexist for a female character to have a lapse in judgement and for the evil to take advantage of it? I see it like a girl walking alone in a dark alley at night. She made a poor decision but it doesn't mean she's an idiot or responsible for something someone else decides to do in response to it. In her mind, she was just going home. You know?

I see where your going with the examples of how men and women are different. That does give an advantage in some cases to men over women. However, like many things in our world, we have kind of countered that with our "tools".
Not really. It still happens all the time, even with said "tools". A fully armed and trained woman can be every bit as dangerous as others. But even then you've got to admit that females express a lesser eagerness to engage in those kinds of activities for whatever social or biological reasons (for better or worse). Would you rather the women that are captured be incompetent or do you consider it a lesser evil to make them competent individuals who merely fell pray to bad fortune? I'd consider the incompetence to be a greater evil, if you will.

The argument you made sounded like because women do have a disadvantage normally in real life, that is why it is shown in games as a reflection, in the from of D.I.D.
Yes, this is a reason why it shows in games as a reflection. It's also because it is a quick and easy motivation for men (the average gamer). It's not bad that it exists as a plot mechanism. I'd think men should want to be trained to rescue those in need. The important distinction is to note that the DID should actually be in distress and not merely apparent distress.

That said, the end goal is not to have NO games that use tropes. Rather, it's that there should be more variety. And there is more coming every day.
In order for there to be more variety, there would have to be more human motivations. Take the Uncharted games, the motivation is everything from discovery, wealth, and fame to the D.I.D. scenario AND the women are competently written. But even then, there are few better motivations than the desire to save someone's life. That is simply one of the best and it's going to keep showing up. Like I stated, D.I.D. exists all over the place and there are tons of scenarios where the "damsel" is a captured soldier or group of soldiers or men (like Sully from Uncharted to keep with the example). Complaining about D.I.D. because women are often the damsel is a little off for that reason.

Even if we have tons of new games coming out not using the old stories, will still have quite a few still using them, and we'll have all that came before as long as we keep the data held safely. Thus, we need not fear that a change in trends will cause us to lose our "moral lessons", as long as we make sure they are safely stored. Plus, it's not like games are the only ones to ever use these tropes anyway. Even in the present.
This won't happen, all stories are told and retold in millions of different ways. Give me any plot or scenario and I can likely tell you about hundreds of other pieces of literature or film or whatever where that element was used. The Greeks were already aware of the finite number of scenarios that are possible. The culture and tools/tech may change across the generations, but there will only ever be so many main Genres with so many possibilities.

As for the Male vs. Female demographic in gaming. I would say that looking at it from a stand point of "well not all of them are playing this or that game, on this or that system, so we don't need to worry about them." Is both a financial, and creative mistake.
Not really. It's catering to your audience. It is good business sense to understand your audience and to respond accordingly. Frankly, this is the building block of "the customer is always right". This does stimmy creativity, but it makes financial sense. Especially when women actually do exhibit different interests than men in other forms of media too. Why do you assume that this is somehow untrue in gaming? That there is necessarily a huge untapped market for action games for women when the truth is more likely to be an untapped market in something like a true romance game or a "chick flick" variety of games. Not a genre that women in general haven't expressed as much an interest in regarding other genres. But when hundreds of millions of dollars are put into an action flick, everything is going to be done to maximize the return and that includes catering to the mostly male audience and that isn't a bad thing. Males should be catered to like any other customer demographic.

But as far as it being morally wrong to use the D.I.D., I don't see the argument except in the kind of scenarios you and I agree on.